/christian/ - Christian Discussion and Fellowship

>>691299

First get to a country where you will not be killed for leaving Islam for Christianity.

>>691299

Maybe you should tell your parents the truth when you feel ready first. It will be your first trial in your faith in my opinion.I don't believe that logical arguments are very usefull in those kind of situations brother. Your way of life and your devotion to Christ are more helpfull in changing the hearts of your close ones.

>>691303

Yeah I was born in North America, my parents are thinking about getting a woman from back home or looking for someone in the country.

I am sort of on the idea that I should find someone in here, since it is easier with free speech to convince any partner, and there probably are more Christians in North America from my country anyway

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>>691308

You are extremely brave, but if I were you, I would just respectfully decline the offer by your parents to arrange a marriage. Say that it's not how it's done in North America etc.

Or just play along until you have your own place, you have abundant permission to omit the truth, knowing how Islam works.

>>691343

you see I like the idea of an arranged marriage because I don't have any experience with relationships, marriage and etc. but my parents do and they have experience with running a family so I support my parents looking a wife (probably a tradition one) that will be good for the family

I have been thinking of actually telling them about my conversion and asking them to find me a christian wife with the same race but that might be a bit of a stretch

So why did you decide to leave Islam and embrace Christianity? Tell us your story, if you don't mind.

>>691299

Muslim men are permitted to marry Christian women, so find yourself a nice Christian woman.

>>691355

oh it was for different reasons, I have listening to David Wood and Arabian Prophet (Christian Prince) on various things like abrogation, mistakes in Quran and messed Hadith

I left quite a while ago, and slowly learning more about Christianity.

I haven't had that many issues other than hiding it from my mother (father was redpilled on Islam a long time ago thank Christ for that).

And now the current issue is marriage, I still have a few years before my parents are serious about me getting married though, that is why I would consider my options and what I should do now

>>691350

I wouldn't recommend taking that course, if you want to be a Christian, some things won't come easy, but the plus side is a real relationship, rather than something contrived.

>>691433

what I usually refer to when in support of arranged marriage is that, usually love can alter your ability your judge, however my parents being older and in an relationship, can judge more effectively and won't be affected nor attracted to the potential spouse

However there is a chance that once I interact with the girl my attraction and feelings might get in the way of my judgement.

Once my parents use their wisdom to choose and also her family is okay as well, then I am more than happy to develop a relationship

That is the sort of logic I am getting at

>>691443

what's your ethnicity/cultural background? desi?

>>691586

Bengali