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>high heels
what about them? Just the woman wearing them?
>light choking
very likely immoral
>whipping
definitely immoral
>body licking
I don't think it's wrong at all
I'm not an expert on the subject, this is just based on what little I know and a sense of morality. The Bible does not go into detail and describe what specific things are allowed or not (in a marriage, of course) so sometimes it's hard to say, but you should judge specific acts on this basis: Does the Bible specifically outlaw them (for example homosexuality, sodomy), are they done with unitive and procreative principles, do they respect the diginity of each person, are they done with mutual consent and mutually pleasing? If it violates any of those conditions then it's immoral.
When in doubt look up what the Catholic Church says about it