>>586074
>If our God is God of only the living, and hell is eternal death, what is to be said about hell? That it needs no ruler?
No, the lake of fire is eternal death and not hell. Read revelation 20:14-15
>And death and hell were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death.
>And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
You see physical death is temporary, not eternal. As Jesus came back from the dead and so did lazuras in john 11. There are even christians who come back from hell according to luke 16:22-31 and 1 peter 3:20. But no one ever comes back from the lake of fire.
>how can you feel positively about friends and family that are being tortured for eternity?
First off not everyone has the 1 corinthians 15:44 due to ecclesasties 3:18-21 and romans 2:28-29
Second see matthew 13:47-50
>Then one said unto him, Behold, thy mother and thy brethren stand without, desiring to speak with thee.
>But he answered and said unto him that told him, Who is my mother? and who are my brethren?
>And he stretched forth his hand toward his disciples, and said, Behold my mother and my brethren!
>For whosoever shall do the will of my Father which is in heaven, the same is my brother, and sister, and mother.