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>What do these verses mean to you
They mean that worldliness disqualify one from salvation, or at least make it very unlikely that one will have the perseverance to become saved.
The Father and Mother (and even your own life) here stand for the World at large, which often so-called "Christians" have greater loyalty to than God.
No, don't literally hate your father and mother, and don't commit suicide. Just don't love them as you would God.