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Realize that 3DPD is shit. Get yourself a waifu.

>>543719

>Why does this always happen to me?

Well first of all it depends if you mean

>>Always getting hurt when I fall in love

or

>>>Ends up with sluts who don’t care about me

Are you hurt because you end up with sluts? Or do you get hurt and go and find sluts?

If the former; then its because you go befriend sluts and expect them to be good people. You can generally see what a person is like based on their social media. Revealing FB photos? Basic gal, drinks, party, hashtags? Instagram with 500 pictures? Any posts about status fishing for likes? Sharing gay pride stories? Sharing some other trendy femnisit crap? They're going to hurt you by being sluts. Don't befriend them and stay away from them, or you'll get hurt.

If the latter, then the issue is that after you get hurt you try to fix that feeling by finding some cheap substitute for 'love'. you just want to feel needed again so instead of dealing with your feelings, getting over your ex, you end up with some bimbo. You need to take the time to not get too close to new girls after you break up. Take the time to go become more spiritual, get closer to God.

The previous statement I said can kinda be paralleled with God Himself. You can go find love and fulfillment with God (take the time to repair heartbreak) or have a wank for some temporary gratification that will make you feel worse and make you worse off. (Finding a temporary girl just to make you feel needed.)

I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, I'm tired.

>tl;dr - Take time after a breakup to not fall for anyone else. Don't ask anyone out. And if they ask you out and you 'love' them. Say i'm sorry I'm hurt still over my last, and need some time to move on.

All fleshly needs are the result of insufficient relationship with God. Don't pray for avoidance of love. Pray to God so he can teach you how to love him more.

>>543719

>>Ends up with sluts who don’t care about me

Sluts have warning signs all over them, but sometimes we blind ourselves to these warnings, make excuses, because of lust and insecurity, because we want intimacy and sex and comfort and to feel loved.

next time be vigilant, aware and on guard.

gotta be a bit cold and stern sometimes, if you're too mushy they'll walk all over you.

>>543768

>Get yourself a waifu.

there's porn of your waifu somewhere, and nerds are jerking off to her as we speak, thus the porn of her is cucking you and so are the nerds enjoying it.

>>543808

>there's porn of your waifu somewhere, and nerds are jerking off to her as we speak, thus the porn of her is cucking you and so are the nerds enjoying it.

This is the redpill that needs to be placed as a disclaimer on the first episode of every anime/cartoon.

>>543719

If women and love are hurting you so much, become a monk. Separate yourself from the thots and sex, embrace the solitude and brotherhood of the monastic life, and devote yourself to God

>>543719

I think you're conflating lust with love. Go to church or library start from there

I think you know the type to avoid fam