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>I've mused this idea before, but I think if the reason you fap to something or the reason you find something attractive/arousing is more of a telltale sign of your real life sexuality than anything else.
You would have a point if it wasn't for the fact that one highest porn searches for straight men is shemale porn and the dicks.
<Only pay attention to the actual facts, not the theories the guy makes: https://archive.fo/7oQbj
>Sexuality is fascinating, but largely hidden away from curious minds for obvious reasons. The authors had a great idea to harvest massive quantities of internet search data that presumably reflect the burning desires of millions of people of all stripes, sizes and ages in the anonymity of their own homes. GREAT idea. But instead of letting the data lead, the authors seem to see confirmation of their own stereotypes at every turn and blather on attempting to confirm many of the most boring stereotypes of our society with snippets of data followed by pages of pseudo-Darwinian psycho babble. These do not appear to be thoughtful authors and only rarely present more than a single, trite explanation for the rich and complex data in front of them, e.g.,women like romance, not porn and are all about male resources while men are visual porn hunters that couldn't care less what women are thinking.
>The book is interesting at times when it actually presents the data. But rather than use the data extensively they present a few charts and many pages of babble. A few examples…The number one male fantasy according to their data is teens, and the reason must be because we are all attracted evolutionarily to the number of years of reproductive future of the female. I don't know. Not crazy, I guess, but there are probably a lot of alternative explanations.The number two male fantasy is apparently cuckolding -WHAT?! Very interesting if true but certainly surprising. The authors go on to suggest that, of course, it must be because men are driven to fantasize by sperm competition - if someone else mates with your mate, their theory goes, you want to get in there any compete by diluting the sperm. Seems a little wacky to be presented as fact. Maybe these guys are identifying with the first guy, not the second, or maybe they want to be humiliated. And why is this the number 2 fantasy over all the other aspects of sex that are tied to successfully reproducing? Everything is simple in this book; even the weird and wacky, and data from millions of people's desires apparently only justifies a few tables when the authors can go on and on about their own theories…