of course
DUHHHHHHH
This isn't advanced psychology or anything.. it's not rocket science... It's really basic...
FEAR OF ABANDONMENT
Is always disguised as fear of intimacy
People with a fear of being abandoned again always build needless barriers of defense mechanisms, which always shoot them in the foot, self-defeatist behavior...
They're overly controlling, always trying to control other people, terrified that the other person might abandon them... They exert anal retentive control on external factors and interactions, yet they never have control of their own slobby lazy sedentary unaccomplished excuse of a life...
They're always failures, because they allow their fear of abandonment as an excuse to build another defense mechanism around them, unrealistic expectations, boundaries, barriers, expectations and conditions... And that's why they never actually accomplish anything in their lives
They always distract with weird shit like fetishes, because that's all a fake fashion trend used by asexual cowards who have lived their lives in fear of abandonment
I've known lots of losers like that before
Everybody's familiar with that classic weirdo personality type
It's actually just a behavioral disorder
Nothing more and nothing less
It's just a very predictable behavior
Meaning people behave like this intentionally
This is a very intentional fake behavior pattern
But the root cause of this behavioral disorder is fear of abandonment
Every time. 100% of the time