>become addicted to porn at a young age
>become addicted to imageboards shortly after
>become a complete degenerate/hikki
>on path to wizardhood
>miserable
>fix my sleeping schedule
>trying to eat cleaner (never succeeded at true clean diet, but eliminated most trash foods)
>start working out
>got a job
>all this time slowly overcoming anxiety
>get a gf
>A few months in the relationship in talk of porn comes up, I tell her my struggles. I vow to her I will never watch it again.
>dont touch porn for 117 days
>its easy, hardly even have urges to watch it, when i do i easly ignore it
>one day sudden extreme urge to watch porn while im at work, i go to the bathroom and pull some up on my phone (fucking disgusting i know, every time i think of this i shudder)
>I relapse. 117 days of progress thrown away in a few minutes
>It has been two months since my relapse and since then I have not been able to abstain. on average I go like 4-6 days and then I binge watch it like 3 times in a row and I hate myself and promise myself and I will never do it again. I pray for forgiveness and for strength to abstain.
>Been too afraid to confess to my gf that I failed. I know it would hurt her.
Friends, how can I overcome this horrid addiction for good?
I thought I had conquered it; but I suppose that was a part of the root of my failure: hubris.
How does one defeat this evil?