I think I might have some sort of personality disorder (have been diagnosed with other mental health problems) but I don't know what because the group of symptoms doesn't fit with any convential diagnosis I can find
-extremely insecure. any time I have a conversation or even lesser social interaction with anyone I am constantly observing their behaviour and thinking about what their view of me is
-very paranoid and mistrustful of everyone
-very quick to irritability (not anger)
-zero empathy or guilt, I'm not saying this to be edgy but it's true, I've never attacked anyone physically but I have done really terrible things and although I sometimes feel fleeting shame I never actually feel bad about it
-very impulsive, not much concern for my own wellbeing
-extremely workshy
-never really feel any emotions apart from worry, irritability, self-hatred, and fleeting moments of good humour
-inability to enjoy anything
-form quick, strong friendships with people that usually last about 6 months until either they realise what I'm really like or I stop wanting to spend time with them and ignore them, all my friendships end like this
-lie constantly, not pathologically but whenever it could benefit me, even after people have lost all trust in me
-despite all this, generally try and be superficially nice to people and never want to hurt anyone (just don't care at all if I do)
-literally cannot think about anyone but myself at all, whenever I think about other people it's always through the filter of what they mean for my thoughts
-however, very passive and vulnerable sometimes because of my insecurity and sometimes get treated badly by people myself
-never feel lonely, never feel fulfilled, just bored and nomadic
I think there is something seriously wrong with me, I'm 24 by the way and I have been this way all my life. I have had emotionally traumatic experiences in the last few years, not much before then, but they never hit me properly. No friends, never had a proper friend. To be honest I think I am likely on the ASPD spectrum, possibly quite strongly, but I don't know for sure. I am quite self aware about it and I don't like it. I want to die because I never enjoy life.