/kind/ - Random Acts of Kindness★

For the most part people on such forums are pretending to be assholes to fit in. I know I've done it countless times. Try not to take the Internet seriously; exaggeration is much easier here.

>>26681 (OP)

I'm not really sure what you should do anon, but we all love you and support you.~

>>26681 (OP)

Don't go on /b/

Everyone has their own point of view and I wouldn't call theirs wrong despite the expected negative behavior. I think maybe you might need to weigh what your comcept of kindness is. Coddling vs harsh lessons, trying to influence the masses vs more effective personal relationships, favoritism vs obligation, ect. The world isn't nice but you gotta hope your ideals and ethics leave you with an outcome worth settling for.

>>26706

This.

Don't call it banter! This is just bullying.

>>26804

It's impossible to purposely not feel an emotion. Feelings happen to you and you have no control over them, only what you do about them.

>>26810

*It's impossible to purposely not feel an emotion if you have no self control

>>26811

Reptilian alien robots plz go back to Planet X.

>>26820

>self control, and disciple are alien concepts to me

>>26821

I can't imagine what planet you're from that you don't know how emotions work.

Either that or you're one of the few unique individuals with perfect control, unlike everyone else for whom emotions just happen to them and they have do deal with the reactive, spontaneous rising of emotion as best they can or just go along with them (which is where the "willpower" thing comes in).

Or the Occam's Razor answer: you're just an idiot or (actually, clinically-diagnosed) autistic. Most likely both.

>>26804

So, like, where are you from friend? The MiddleEast somewhere apparently.

>>26858

How did you cut her out so perfectly?

(Sage for off-topic)

>>26804

Thats terrible advice, dogs will maul you to death if all you do is ignore them.

>>26864

>>26883

Another anon here. When I was in highschool, I didn't understand social dynamics. If I had insight on the typical archetype of male with his desire to dominate, I'd play along with their game. But I had no idea as I didn't have this archetype in me. I just wanted people to get along. I was confused by their violent instincts and I thought if I ignore them or give them what they want they'll stop fighting me and each other, they'll stop this madness. If only I knew how wrong I was. It was high school in small village in Eastern Europe and they worked really hard to rewire things in my brain. I don't blame them, because it was merely natural meme mechanic at work. I only wish I could be given another chance. It's not fair I'm going to live my life in a complete mess now, only because I learned rules of the game too late. If I could go back in time of course I'd bully the fuck out of people if this is what it takes. I try bullying people in the present and I actually ruined lives of one family using my job position but it doesn't work for long until pressure in my chest comes back

>>26915

Im talking about it as a general advice, exactly for this >>26916

>>26916

I feel you anon, if only my dad or any non friendgy masculine figure in my life had taught me that earlier, instead of being the first people to fuck my life things'd be far more different now. Kill or be killed, its a sad reality. Props for learning even if late, im having a hell of a hard time in trade school because of that.

I'll be honest here, because that's the most kind I can be.

You went on /b/. What did you expect?

You need to get into a certain mindset to post on chans in general, but every board has their own subculture. /pol/, for example, refers to google and facebook as jewgle and kikebook respectively. They're also a lot more fond of "you have been visited by" pictures.

/b/ is special in that anything goes there. Anything and everything. You have free reign to fuck shit up, essentially.

I have had some really amazing and shockingly deep conversations on /b/, but I've seen a lot of crap too.

You have to be prepared to sit through all the namecalling to find enjoyment.

I dunno, maybe it just doesn't affect me too badly, since I already get all the namecalling in real life anyway. But honestly, stop caring about what chan posters think of you, especially /b/.

My advice is to look at how much of their own projections they attach to you. The ">projecting" meme may be used to wave people off, but in general there's some truth to it. There is so little that can be effectively communicated and represented in a single text post plus image. It's not as if this person is rejecting you after having known you as a person, they can only react to your position as revealed in your posts. This position has large amounts of personal connotations that neither of you could hope to communicate or understand in the space provided, unless you're very skilled at expressing yourself. Furthermore on places like /b/, the tendency is not really towards expressing yourself clearly.

My point is that by stepping back from it a level it becomes hard to be offended by the writing of someone with no real experience of you, especially in a place where people are encouraged to act like fools.

As an aside: this is one of the reasons platforms like twitter are particularly shit in my experience. So fucking little can be communicated in their limitations. People's responses seem to come almost at random because of the lack of space for either party to explain themselves.

>>26706

This. Simple solution!

Dont worry anon just open the window and take a heavy breath, chans bullying means nothing dont take it seriously.