/islam/ - 8kun Masjid

>>44608

>Is it mandatory for the wife to obey her husband

No. Wives can even divorce their husbands. In Islam marriage is a contract, not an ownership.

<inb4 butthurt incel salafis run crying and screaming into the thread

عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَوْفٍ رضي الله عنه قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: (إِذَا صَلَّتْ الْمَرْأَةُ خَمْسَهَا, وَصَامَتْ شَهْرَهَا, وَحَفِظَتْ فَرْجَهَا, وَأَطَاعَتْ زَوْجَهَا, قِيلَ لَهَا ادْخُلِي الْجَنَّةَ مِنْ أَيِّ أَبْوَابِ الْجَنَّةِ شِئْتِ) رواه الإمام أحمد.

عن ابن عباس رضي الله عنهما قال: (جاءت امرأة إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقالت: يا رسول الله أنا وافدةُ النساء إليك, هذا الجهاد كتبه الله على الرجال, فإن يصيبوا أُجِروا, وإن قُتِلوا كانوا أحياءً عند ربهم يرزقون, ونحن معشر النساء نقوم عليهم, فما لنا من ذلك؟ قال: فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: أبلغي من لقيت من النساء أن طاعة الزوج واعترافاً بحقه يَعْدِلُ ذلك, وقليل منكنَّ من يفعله) رواه البزار

روى الترمذي عن أُمّ سَلَمَة رضي الله عنها, أَنَّ النَّبِيّ صَلَّى اللَّه عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: (أَيّمَا اِمْرَأَة مَاتَتْ وَزَوْجهَا رَاضٍ عَنْهَا دَخَلَتْ الْجَنَّة).

Tldr: your husband will die and suffer in jihad, but your jihad is your husband and obeying him and fullfiling his rights.

You could not obey him but then he will not be satisfied with you, which does not fullfill his rights over you, which might result in bad in the day of judgement.

You for sure only obey your father/husband in which is not bad/shirk/haram ect. Meaning only in what please allah.

But sometimes some men are not good and they dont fullfill the wife's rights or even dont fullfill Allah's rights over him, then thats another subject about 'how to encourage him and help him and if it doesn't work you could divorce if you see yourself you don't have patience', this is a larger topic i cant just put it in a post but the conclusion is if you follow the prophet muhammad's way you must obey your husband, or if you don't then how do you sleep at night knowing you dont even fullfil his right? How can a marriage work out if its not good?

But also if you are that kind of muslimat that dont listen to hadith, just try and search and read about how the wifes of the prophet treated him and wifes of the sahabah, that might help more in understanding the topic.

May allah forgive us

I know nothing but allah knows.

>Inb4 your have rights over him, but that not our discussion rn.

>>44610

are you muslim?

قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: أيما امرأة سألت زوجها الطلاق من غير ما بأس فحرام عليها رائحة الجنة. رواه أبو داود والترمذي وغيرهما وصححه الألباني

if wife ask divorce for no reason she wont even be allowed to smell jannah.

>>44610

Funny how people that follow the Sunnah of the Prophet PBUH are labeled as "incel" by you.

In a Hadeeth on the authority of Ibn ‘Abbaas, may Allah be pleased with him, it was mentioned that a woman came to the Prophet, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allah exalt his mention ), and said, “O Messenger of Allah, I am a delegate [from a group of] women and there are none of them, whether she knows or does not know that I would come to you, except she would want me to come to you. Allah The Almighty is the Lord of both men and women and their God, and you are the Messenger of Allah, for both men and women. Allah has prescribed Jihaad for men only; if they are victorious, their reward is great, and if they die as martyrs, they are alive with their Lord, receiving sustenance. [For women], which act of obedience is equal in reward to this?” The Messenger of Allah, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allah exalt his mention ), replied: “OBEYING THEIR HUSBANDS and (being aware of and) fulfilling their rights; and few of you do that.”

>>44644

>incel

that's why i asked is he muslim, since muslims do not have the right to name each other by the command of allah.

but just the word incel itself is an attack on muslims and our religion since it promots for zina, meaning if you dont do zina your opinion is not valid, such ideas and concept must be refused by us because they are from a satanic background as le west is, thier entire life is around zina and whats the shortest way to jahannam.

>>44648

it buffles me how not doing zina makes your opinion invalid, does that mean what Jesus (pbuh) taught was also invalid? while at the same time paulinianity is prevalent in the west

kuffar are retarded

>>44610

incorrect and cringe

women always have a reason for asking for divorce, a lot of the time, it's a reason in their mind, not attuned to reality, but to satanism, in bible, it says that satan comes to women when they're alone.>>44640