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>You cannot say that its acceptable for a 50 year old man to have sex with a 9 yo girl, this is punishable by death!
Show me the evidence, where in the Quran or hadith does it give a specific age for marriage?
<Trick question, it doesn't
We shouldn't be trying to mould and change our religion to what the kuffar want.
>the point is that the narrator made a mistake.
Who? Aisha (RA) narrated the hadith herself, you mean someone in the chain of narration? Who? Give the scholarly source.
>As for puberty, it doesn´t necessarily occur when you get hair on the private part
No one mentioned pubic hair. This hadith was also narrated by Aisha herself, where she said she was well into puberty while she was still living with her parents.
>according to some shukhooyk puberty is at 15yo, 17yo, or 18yo.
well this is clearly wrong, girls start puberty today way earlier. And the biggest issue is you're comparing 9 year olds today to what a 9 year old would've looked and acted like 1400 years ago in nowhere, Arabia. Even if you go to poor countries today, you'll see those that we would call kids, they're working like adults to try to feed their families, their life expectancy are much lower, its not practical for us to put the same standard on them to to wait till marrying at late 20s to 30yo.
Like do you know why in the west they made the age of consent higher to 16/18? Look up the history, it wasn't because of science, or medicine, it was feminist activists who pushed for it, because young women were prostituting, before that age of consent in the west was 9-12.
And lets also not conflate the two, we are not talking about sex here, we're talking about marriage, the kuffar are just talking about sex. The Islamic marriage process has a lot of measures in place to insure there is not immorality, its not the couple involved, its the parents and the community, this way they evaluate the psychological maturity, if the community is against it then they can't get married. Thats why for us today in western nations, we're not going to marry that young, because culturally for us its wrong.