/islam/ - 8kun Masjid

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>>42419

1] Earn enough money to take care of all 4 wives equally well and build a house big enough for each to have their own room (no orgies, you degenerate).

2] Find 4 women willing to marry you.

3] Move to a country where polygamy is legal.

>>42422

>>42422

>1] Earn enough money to take care of all 4 wives equally well and build a house big enough for each to have their own room (no orgies, you degenerate).

Ya, like I said, I already know the responsibility. FYI they're entitled to their own house, not just a room in one house, unless they're ok with it.

>2] Find 4 women willing to marry you.

THIS IS WHAT I WAS ASKING ABOUT, HOW?

>3] Move to a country where polygamy is legal.

No you don't need to, just don't register the marriage, just get nikah only. Non Muslims are pretty much already doing this "legal" polygamy.

>>42423

>HOW?

Depends on the individual woman. You're asking this question as though there's some single unwavering thing that every single woman on the planet will be drawn to. Every woman is different. The question you should be asking is what qualities you bring to the table as a man. You also have to find 4 women who not only find you marriage worthy, but who also are willing to enter into a polygamous marriage.

Women are allowed to choose who they marry, you know, and you're not entitled to 1 wife, let alone 4.

>>42424

>You also have to find 4 women who not only find you marriage worthy, but who also are willing to enter into a polygamous marriage.

But HOW? thats what Im asking. Obviously I need to find willing women, obviously I have to be of high quality, obviously not every women is the same (yet we still have guides on how to approach monogamous marriage). But how do I go on that search, how do I have that conversation with them and their families to make them understand?

It seems like you're not knowledgeable on the subject, yet you keep commenting for some reason.

>>42425

>But HOW?

You don't. If you know a brother at mosque has a daughter of marriage age and you're seeking a wife, then you simply get to know that brother and - over time - express your desire for marriage. Conversely, if you meet a woman who you desire to marry, you talk to her and - over time - express your desire to marry.

If your primary desire from the get go is to have 4 wives, then you will never have even 1. The "4 wives" thing is permissible, but not obligatory. Your desire for 4 wives feels more like a fetish.

I don't know what answer will satisfy you, but no father is going to let you marry his daughter with your attitude.

>It seems like you're not knowledgeable on the subject

I have daughters. I know what it's like when some jackass starts drooling and slavering over wanting one of them to be his fetish fulfillment.

>>42425

Move to a country that's besieged and all the men are being killed off. Marry the widows. That's pretty much how it's been done all throughout history. Even the Prophet(pbuh) married women who were war widows or whose betrothed had died. Marriage isn't like picking hookers at a brothel.

>>42427

I was thinking about divorced Muslim women here in the west, some of them its their fault for divorce, but some of them were just abused by their ex husbands and thrown away, divorced Muslim women have some of the lowest potentials to marry again and have limited support especially if they've had children. I would be open to marrying a woman like this if shes a very pious woman who puts religion and family over all, (if all parties were willing, and I had the means to, inshallah).

>>42431

>I was thinking about divorced Muslim women

Not a terrible idea.