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a8bb20 No.42419

I can't find many resources or info about the logistics of Islamic polygyny, like if I want to go about doing it, how would I talk to the first wife about it, how would I talk to the in laws about it, how would vacations and stuff work.

Every thing online is just either warning against it or constantly reiterating the responsibilities it brings. Im aware about the responsibilities, I want to know how feasible this would be for me if I choose to do it in the future.

Im seeing how like first wives are seeking another wife for their husbands, but they never explain the mentality for this. The media, especially western media, always just portrays it like a circus, despite the majority of societies throughout history practicing it.

Any of you guys have experience with polygyny, or know of anyone who has more than one wife? Any of you guys have any resources I can look at (english plz)? What are the benefits of it aside from more sexual pleasure?

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14a87e No.42420

just be urself ;)

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a8bb20 No.42421

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>>42420

Is the only way for me to be the ultimate chad?

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f836ed No.42422

>>42419

1] Earn enough money to take care of all 4 wives equally well and build a house big enough for each to have their own room (no orgies, you degenerate).

2] Find 4 women willing to marry you.

3] Move to a country where polygamy is legal.

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a8bb20 No.42423

>>42422

>>42422

>1] Earn enough money to take care of all 4 wives equally well and build a house big enough for each to have their own room (no orgies, you degenerate).

Ya, like I said, I already know the responsibility. FYI they're entitled to their own house, not just a room in one house, unless they're ok with it.

>2] Find 4 women willing to marry you.

THIS IS WHAT I WAS ASKING ABOUT, HOW?

>3] Move to a country where polygamy is legal.

No you don't need to, just don't register the marriage, just get nikah only. Non Muslims are pretty much already doing this "legal" polygamy.

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f836ed No.42424

>>42423

>HOW?

Depends on the individual woman. You're asking this question as though there's some single unwavering thing that every single woman on the planet will be drawn to. Every woman is different. The question you should be asking is what qualities you bring to the table as a man. You also have to find 4 women who not only find you marriage worthy, but who also are willing to enter into a polygamous marriage.

Women are allowed to choose who they marry, you know, and you're not entitled to 1 wife, let alone 4.

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a8bb20 No.42425

>>42424

>You also have to find 4 women who not only find you marriage worthy, but who also are willing to enter into a polygamous marriage.

But HOW? thats what Im asking. Obviously I need to find willing women, obviously I have to be of high quality, obviously not every women is the same (yet we still have guides on how to approach monogamous marriage). But how do I go on that search, how do I have that conversation with them and their families to make them understand?

It seems like you're not knowledgeable on the subject, yet you keep commenting for some reason.

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f836ed No.42426

>>42425

>But HOW?

You don't. If you know a brother at mosque has a daughter of marriage age and you're seeking a wife, then you simply get to know that brother and - over time - express your desire for marriage. Conversely, if you meet a woman who you desire to marry, you talk to her and - over time - express your desire to marry.

If your primary desire from the get go is to have 4 wives, then you will never have even 1. The "4 wives" thing is permissible, but not obligatory. Your desire for 4 wives feels more like a fetish.

I don't know what answer will satisfy you, but no father is going to let you marry his daughter with your attitude.

>It seems like you're not knowledgeable on the subject

I have daughters. I know what it's like when some jackass starts drooling and slavering over wanting one of them to be his fetish fulfillment.

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1d77dc No.42427

>>42425

Move to a country that's besieged and all the men are being killed off. Marry the widows. That's pretty much how it's been done all throughout history. Even the Prophet(pbuh) married women who were war widows or whose betrothed had died. Marriage isn't like picking hookers at a brothel.

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a8bb20 No.42431

>>42427

I was thinking about divorced Muslim women here in the west, some of them its their fault for divorce, but some of them were just abused by their ex husbands and thrown away, divorced Muslim women have some of the lowest potentials to marry again and have limited support especially if they've had children. I would be open to marrying a woman like this if shes a very pious woman who puts religion and family over all, (if all parties were willing, and I had the means to, inshallah).

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f836ed No.42457

>>42431

>I was thinking about divorced Muslim women

Not a terrible idea.

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