6ad38d No.29663
Please I am desperately in need of guidance, I am a new revert who is bisexual. I have tried for a long time to make it go away but have failed. During the summer women go around half naked which makes things harder as they're a distraction that makes me feel repulsed by my feelings. I also feel like sisters in the Masjid may judge me for not walking or dressing feminine enough. I just feel disappointed in myself and wonder why I had to be born like this.
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afcbc6 No.29664
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41339f No.29665
There are no instant fixes. Take it one step at a time. Firstly, are you praying five times a day yet? If not, work on it. It will benefit you in ways you don't suspect. Are you implementing any of the Sunnah of the Prophet (pbuh) in your daily life? Incrementally move forward in your practice of the deen, and do your best. Where you fall behind and sin ask God for forgiveness, God is forgiving and to not believe in the mercy and forgiveness of God is unislamic, since one of his names is the Forgiving. In the Christian gospels Jesus (as) is depicted as telling his disciples "be ye perfect". In Islam there is no commandment to be perfect. Sexual desire is a very powerful force and everyvody struggles with it. Again, take things one step at a time. If you don't dress in feminine clothes regularly start by doing it once a week at Jumaa or some other time. If you don't wear hijab regularly put it on once or twice a week for a "test drive" to get yourself used to it. etc
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d4d99e No.29666
>>29663
You can't make it go away. It is what it is. Just don't act on it.
I suspect a (1) and done OP
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198310 No.29690
Given several elements in your story, I'm super interested in knowing your reversion story, if it's not too personal.
As to your problem, my take on it is that you should not pay attention to it, not to aggrandize it, and recognize it for the absurdity that it is. Getting so frustrated at it gives it (it=the perverse desires/lust) an illusion of power and importance that it neither has nor deserves.
It is useful in such cases to simply avert your gaze whenever you are consciously aware of the act, and keep doing so until your brain rewires and the habit inevitably fades away back to non-existence. Basically mindfulness.
It also helps massively to pray with pure intentions to Allah repeatedly to help you with this specific problem. This helps both on the immediate psychological aspect, and of course it helps in the fact that Allah answers such pure prayers by planting countless micro solutions along your path.
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3ccd56 No.29691
>>29663
Hey, I'm in the same situation as you, except I'm a guy.
I think the solution, as the others said, is to avoid potentially sinful situations. I don't know if you watch porn, but don't do it. It turns your brain to mush. I think that's a huge factor in turning people gay.
Look into the possibility of marriage, that will keep you occupied and your mind away from wandering to nonsense.
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437518 No.36812
>>29691
Don't call them gay, they're sodomites not happy.
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93d9c4 No.39932
>>29663
I'm transgender and Muslim, and yes I too identified as bisexual before I started HRT. Have you ever considered taking testosterone to become a straight man?
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a631a7 No.39933
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becb5d No.39950
>>29663
Get married or fast
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699f0c No.39964
>>36812
Not all gays are sodomites.
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16efa1 No.39974
>>39932
>I'm transgender and Muslim, and yes I too identified as bisexual before I started HRT.
You're just a bisexual man then.
>Have you ever considered taking testosterone to become a straight man?
Testosterone won't make a women turn into a man, she will still be a biological woman, just a hairier one.
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08b84d No.40028
>>39932
ash-Shuraa 42:49
>To Allah belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth; He creates what he wills. He gives to whom He wills female [children], and He gives to whom He wills males.
Why do you deny the will of Allah – He who is all-knowing and most wise and most and pretend that you change what you are? Why do you think that the will of Allah is a mistake or something that can be altered?
Allahu alam.
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