>>51074
I belong to a local hypnosis fetish community that has semi-regular meetups, so I'm offering a serious response to this. My advice is based on personal experience, so take it with a grain of salt and understand that it may apply differently to you.
1) Check fetlife.com for your region carefully, you might be surprised to find a local hypnosis community. They tend to be small and scattered, this may involve a train/bus/plane, but it will be worth it. Message your hosts in advance to ask about their house rules and event policy, and to get a feel for what you can expect.
2) Save up and fly to one of the several hypnosis conventions that occur in the US. There are currently 4 or 5 regularly occurring conventions. It's a way of gathering a pretty small and scattered bunch of local scenes into one giant party, and as a newb you'll learn a ton. At the last one I attended, I met several people from Europe and Australia, so if it's practical to make the trip, you'll be quite welcomed.
3) Hang out in dreamychat and discord channels a lot. Read reddit/r/erotichypnosis, learn stuff, make interesting posts, ask questions. Just become somewhat more involved and in time you'll find yourself chatting with other people a bunch, and some of them will be femdoms. Be happy, humble, interesting, and thankful to the people you chat with, and you have a high probability of success.