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>women who emotionally support you
Good luck with that.
I personally prefer acceptance, it's not that X is inconvenient so you don't do it. It's the fact that everything is finite, and you can't have everything. Now I could invest lots of energy finding a good girl, or I can just use that energy and time on other things. I just don't see the investment/payoff/risk ratio as worthwhile.
Likewise with the car, if it's doing the job with no issues, I'm happy, I don't get any increased pleasure from it, and would better use my money elsewhere.
Job however is insanely important because the sheer amount of time you spend doing it, and the opportunities it opens and closes, socially, economically, physically, mentally and spiritually/emotionally.
Most things in life aren't needed, if you can be happy without a gf, or a fancy car, that's great. If you get them, that's great. But I see so many people stressing out over things because they are dependent on them. In the case of relationships it's even worse because if they get someone and it breaks down, they end up worse than before (generally temporarily).
As long as I'm never working in an office, or an unsecure job like a factory, I'm pretty happy. I'm also strongly introverted, so people don't really matter. They can be pleasant but let's not pretend most are likable on a personal level, me included.
If people are in a job they hate and they take no steps, they only have themselves to blame. I only sympathise with those who have no choices, or those mentally ill who can't enjoy the same level of control as normal people. Just like I don't sympathise with the obese excluding children, and those fed bad information like "eat less fat" or just eat "diet" food. Shit advice that misleads people with good intentions who make an effort, only to rob them of money and motivation.