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File: f31a50ff219686f⋯.jpg (31.77 KB, 600x335, 120:67, get out skank.jpg)

 No.128882

How the fuck do I do it guys? I don't trust women and I don't want to be gay either. Being in a good relationship feels great, but I really don't want to bet my entire life's work on a girl.I'm actually good at getting girls to fall in love with me, but these days they all just seem to think life's just a passing fancy.

It all seems so fucked sometimes. Can I really never let myself fall in love? I don't want to get justed. I just want to make a ton of money and have a good life, a good family, make something to be proud of - but it feels like it doesn't exist anymore, but fuck going MGTOW too. How do you become unjustable?

 No.128883

File: 51725fe70621ab3⋯.jpg (79.9 KB, 750x762, 125:127, 23231156_10208202536101035….jpg)

>>128882

>I don't want to be gay either.

Why do you sound like a faggot then?


 No.128889

>>128883

>Meme center

>Getting drunk.

>Russian


 No.128890

>>128882

>how to stop wanting sex?

You mean how to kill your sex drive like the feminists want?

That's a bad idea.

What you should do is refocus your sexual energy on something else.

Working out more, a productive hobby, furthering your position at your job or getting a nicer one.(or one at all)

I would suggest against abstaining from a relationship though, you would be surprised how far you can get with some girls without dipping your wick in them, usually far enough to find out if they are a mega skank whore who isn't worth your time.

Wanting to have sex is completely normal.

>>128883

>billionaire CEO's who haven't used an axe get 100 points, and another 100 for snorting coke off of their secretaries ass

>no way to get negative points

>being a virgin before getting married adds as much points as being a trap or furry.

>every soul on the planet HAS a facebook

Shit list, still only got 50 points.


 No.128892

>>128883

>18+yo living with parents

not everyone is rich you beta faggot


 No.128894

File: 3f2c38ab7472528⋯.jpg (28.75 KB, 500x322, 250:161, 22814526_1576389562450405_….jpg)

>>128892

>>128889

>all this beta rage

top xex


 No.128896

There are actually several ways to lose libido. I have been dealing with the same problem. Nothing worse than sexual urges when no time/interest to chase after girls.

I have found 3 methods that work for me and make sex total non issue, i dont even need to fap when doing one of these.

1. Get really low bodyfat %. I lost my libido when cutting to ~10% bf.

2. Fap 5 times a day for a week.

3. Depression meds.

Bonus point for cutting out fats from your diet. Tbh i cant be sure if low bf loss of libido is mix of low amount of fat in diet and in your body. Just be careful, since cutting fat from diet can mess with your hormonal health.


 No.128921

File: fb86e2d08ba09de⋯.png (166.1 KB, 296x442, 148:221, 1320103008821.png)

Modern women are shit and you stop wanting to be with them when you realize this. Your only chances are an autist who hyper-focuses her entire existence on you and would do anything to please you, or some ass-backwards homeschooled/ultra-christian chick who still holds incredibly conservative values. Relationships are more work than they're worth until you find "the one" but the ones worthy of being "the one" are spread extremely thin and probably already taken if you're over 20. The catch-22 is that to find a good one, you have to waste your life wading through an ocean of shit first, because most of them manage to hide how awful of a person they are until months into the relationship. And if you don't want to be a cheating douchebag and a hypocrite, you can't exactly test-run more than one girl at a time.

The difference between normalfag chads and us imageboard folks is that they're so overflowing with test and willful ignorance that they don't see the above paragraph. They've never given it any thought. They just keep throwing themselves at girls until they bag one, and put up with her shit until she becomes an unbearable bitch, then they drop her and throw themselves at random girls again in hopes of finding the next one. They don't identify a particular girl and do anything to gain her interest, they just carpet-bomb their affection all over public gatherings and take what they can get. Some of them get lucky and find the girl you wish you could. Most of them get stuck with a piece of shit and end up divorcing her after they've had accidental children.

Because women are used to being carpet-bombed by chads, they've developed defenses against all of the most common pickup attempts, and become frigid cunts who go "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND" when you're just trying to tell her she dropped something on the sidewalk. Your dream girl isn't a frigid cunt, so she was likely already picked up by a chad because she didn't have the mental strength to turn him down. You're fucked, because you didn't start fucking everything with a hole in high school, and they did. It's a numbers game. The only women left are the unbearable pieces of shit, and you can't change them to make them better.


 No.128924

Become a Buddhist. Its the same thing as mgtow but people think its cool instead of gay


 No.128929

File: 16d707494942ef6⋯.gif (1.62 MB, 350x190, 35:19, 16d707494942ef62779fb41fc4….gif)

>>128921

Either girls like this guys says, or a gay guy, OP.

Even if you find the right one that you like fucking, you'll want to have sex more and more.

The absolute best advice you're going to get in this world at this time is to focus on something else. Then you're going to see a lewd you saved sometime ago or you'll stumble across something that really entices you and you'll fall off the wagon again. Wait until you stop wanting love, and not because you don't want it but because you know you won't find it any easier than it is finding someone for sex who's actually worth it and knows what they're doing.

1:1,000,000,000,000,000,000/not-worth-the-time.


 No.128930

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>>128882

Sex is overrated as hell. Sex is cool if you're a Chad and you just walk into a club and 5 seconds later some bitch is trying to grab your arm and go home with you. If you have to wait and work for that shit it's just lame and almost as beta as being a sugar daddy and paying for it. So unless pussy is just happening to you randomly, you're not missing out on anything.


 No.128931

>>128930

Try to think of it like this: If you're a billionaire, it's fun to unnecessarily splurge on designer clothes and luxury cars, because it really means nothing to you. On the other hand, a poor person saving up and spending their last shekel on a Benz or a Hermes bag is just plain out retarded.


 No.128932

Fill your mind with "red pill / black pill" /pol/shit, MRA, PUA, MGTOW etc readings until you no longer want women. And read the entire Introvert Chronicle blog by John the Peregrine as well as his book: A Kingdom For The Introvert. He's the only one who gets it.


 No.128941

>>128931

Finance like that is easier if you're married and you and your partner are both paying for it at the same time, and it's easier to get married to a man if you let him get you pregnant.


 No.128943

>>128941

This logic reeks of oxytocin and estrogen


 No.128960

>>128943

Logic and truth are not the same, you fucking homo


 No.129025

>>128931

Reminds me of this:

https://introvertchronicle.wordpress.com/2009/01/01/the-false-glamor-of-pickup-culture

>The introvert better understands: sexual intimacy is the pleasure of life that endangers all others. Its tendency to distract and its many possible negative and even deadly outcomes are a considerable obstacle to all else. Large amounts or time, money, and energy are required to enjoy this activity that can be experienced to a lesser, but not at all insubstantial degree for free: not to mention at one’s convenience and without any risk or effort. Overall: an awful deal and hyped up beyond all proportion.


 No.129028

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>>129025

This shit is dangerously cringey. The relationship one is alright but I read some other posts and gave up when I got to the one on atheism/nihilism. This fucking guy.

>Atheist “humanists” like to point out that lack of religion doesn’t cause them to go out and start randomly being evil. They often live by a moral code.

>The trouble is that strong atheism must reduce to nihilism. One cannot hold moral values if one explicitly believes in a universe without purpose or meaning. Nothing can be good or bad in such a universe. Strangling puppies is no better or worse than winning the lottery. Life is no better than death.

>Here, the supreme irony of moral atheists becomes clear. Despite professing atheism they mostly continue to stick to Judeo-Christian moral laws. They don’t practice what they preach…because if they did, it would destroy them.

What a fedora-tipping faggot. You can develop a moral code without religion simply by thinking "would I enjoy or hate this if it were done to me?" before acting. Christianity didn't invent "do unto others," it's just common fucking sense. And even without believing in any god, and accepting there's no point to life because everything came into being by accident, you can still pursue enjoyment in life through helping others, or at least not being a dick, because our accidentally-created brains evolved to enjoy relationships with other humans. Even overly-critical introverts seek intimacy and someone to tell them they're appreciated. And the best way to get that is to not be a douchebag.


 No.129201

>>128882

Stop fornicating until you are married


 No.129235

File: 549e37326b160da⋯.jpg (73.85 KB, 850x400, 17:8, I know god is not real, mo….jpg)

>>129028

>What is The Democratic Party?

>What are Transgenders?

> What is Communism?

You can't deny it, anon. The exception isn't the rule.

As much as a christfag the author is, OP wouldn't be having trouble if we stuck with Traditionalism and ignored Hyper Individualism.

>Atheist calling a christfag a fedora tipping faggot

Wew, lad.


 No.129239

>>129235

Fedora tipping isn't limited to any specific viewpoint, it's people who have a holier-than-thou attitude and think their viewpoint is the be all to end all of opinions, AND think they're smarter than everyone else for having it. And considering all the other so ronery posts on that blog, he is most definitely tipping SOMETHING.


 No.129241

>>129239

So you agree with everything else?


 No.129249

>>129028

>would I enjoy or hate this

Retarded


 No.129257

Is the urge you feel is a thing of the flesh? If you remove the body would you feel any such urges? Would your mind and soul desire such a thing then?


 No.130091

>>128882

Stop being a wimp.

>Fear is the mind killer!

You are letting fear control you, you slave!

You've already lost your life to women, because you are running away from all the possibilities of familial bliss and soul-mate satisfaction due to the Story Of Women that you are telling yourself (because of memes).

Grows some actual balls and date women inspite of the risk of getting Just-ed.


 No.130180

File: f097dd90d9c987f⋯.jpg (48.5 KB, 660x205, 132:41, new zealand.jpg)

>>130091

>>128882

Online forums, culture yourself, new interests and hobbies, new skills, knowledge, meditation, travel, find something new to get a rush like crime, gambling, or gaming. Yeah man, we're a dying breed I guess. I like to think it's because we don't pick sides.

You don't find it coincidental that we hardly ever, almost never, and probably never will, meet someone in our areas that browse this site with the same interests and frequency that we do?


 No.130188

>>129257

Even setting aside physical pleasure and urges, the mind and spirit still desire sex because they want to continue their legacy, and push their ideas and goals into the future. To do that you must reproduce.


 No.130207

How much do you work/study, OP? 40 hours a week? That's not enough. Aim for 60-70. And when I say work, I mean at a career, not a mcjob. It has to be something you enjoy, but also challenges you. Never stop working and improving until you're one of the best at what you do. Make a name for yourself.




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