/fit/ - Fitness, Health, and Feels

GOMAD + SS

>>123740

>GOMAD + SS

>Implying??

>>123739

Tell us more about your troubles and better wisdom may find you.

>>123743

>Tell us more about your troubles

I am a manlet i want to get strong and have a chad type body so i can attract women how do i go about doing this??.

>>123745

How old are you?

>>123739

The bigger and stronger you get, the more confident you'll be. That helps a lot, but it isn't everything. You also need to climb out of the social hole you dug yourself into, which means you need to do more normalfag things. Bitter sadcunts on here like to pretend they're virtuous for not participating. If you're young, make a Snapchat or Instagram and add any friends you have (IG is better if you don't have friends, just do interesting pictures and people will come to you). It doesn't have to be one of those two in particular, but pick something. Even if it makes you retch at first, deal with it. To act like Chad you must think like Chad, and it's not like a little participation in normalcy will make you lose your identity or anything. Try to make some friends (student clubs are great if you're in college/university) with similar interests to yourself. If you don't have any interests, try new things. It's always a good idea to try new things. If you're afraid of seeming really awkward, make some weeb/gamer friends. They'll understand and probably be slightly less awkward than you. Learn from their behaviors with the knowledge that not everything they do is socially positive, but that they're probably still better off than you. Move up in the ladder and next make friends with crossfitters. Some basic advice for conversation: be a good listener. People will greatly appreciate you if you show legitimate concern in what's important to them, especially when it's not important to anyone else. Don't bullshit this too much; while some types of people are fairly oblivious, most can smell it a mile away. Take up some more interesting hobbies so when it comes time to talk about yourself (the moment of truth, where people start to get interested in you or feel awkward and want to leave), you have something worth mentioning. Learning the art of storytelling is a good idea, but never lie to impress people, only tell true stories (with very minor embellishments). When somebody calls you out on something or takes a stab at you, don't get offended. Laugh it off, admit it openly, do whatever you need, just don't let people walk over you and don't get overly defensive or insecure. Insecurity is another huge thing that people notice quite easily, and it will go away as your body improves unless you have some kind of complex. And speaking of complexes, don't call yourself a manlet ever until you can say it without feeling any sort of internal pain. Some more basic stuff: be calm and easygoing, smile a lot (genuinely, not like some kind of maniac), and respect/love yourself for real (people call this a stupid Facebook mantra but it's necessary). And lastly, the most important step: don't have an ugly face.

>>123746

>How old are you?

23

>>123745

>>I am a manlet i want to get strong

How manlet? Most powerlifters arent much tall because of the mechanical advantage… but if you want to be a Bus Rutten 2.0, then you have no hope

>>123753

MGTOW?

women have everything handed too them and earn nothing.

>>123739

you can't become chad. even if you become fit and aesthetic grills will hate you. the hate you for being ugly but also hate you if you're more attractive then them.

beta males can't win. get fit for yourself and tell the bitches no thank you.

>>123760

Sound wisdom anon. But isn't it a contradiction that a woman would get jealous of a male being more attractive than them? I mean I can understand the extra competition that goes with it but that just seems like a asinine way of thinking.

>>123763

>women

>making sense

>not being jealous of anything of higher quality than them

>>123775

The context of that statement is that a social retard is trying to learn to interact with people, and having started with the very awkward gamer types, is moving up to the slightly more sociable crossfitters who are still quite awkward. An idiot could have seen that I was dissing them. Here, I went ahead and signed you up for an online class in reading comprehension:

https://www.universalclass.com/i/course/reading-comprehension-101.htm

Your username is "dumbass" and your password is "password."

Drinking alcohol like mad is what makes most chads, they kill their brain gains exactly when its suposed to transition from a child to adult brain, in the process they socialize so much that they learn it by habit

Or you could do like me and stop giving a fuck, everyone knows im socially retarded as fuck and i dont do a single thing about it, dont give a single fuck

>>123747

I agree

>had always been autistic fag nobody liked as a kid

>went to trade school with other autistic fags

>graduate, got a job around 24

>heck

>decide to try being popular in a company full of normies

>hang out as much as possible with everyone

>ppl think my autistic one word sentences are cute and funny

>became popular at work

>get laid off

>stopped hanging out with old co-workers even though they ask me to come hang out

>some ppl still seem mad at me as if I'm too cool to hang out

I wasn't a Chad, but I lived among the normal fags for a while. And I've come to understand. It's not bad but it gets tiring and I'm essentially introverted. People get mad at me all the time because I'll disappear. But it is useful to just "hide your power levels" because you never know when you'll need a favor from somebody. Or when you get lonely and you just wanna hang somewhere.

Plus if you want to get anywhere in life, you need to at least adapt on your own terms. It's okay to be a neet when you're young. It's not as fun when you get older.

It's good to find other friends who respect your space. I can go for months without social interaction with people outside of my family and a few key friends I've made along the way. And with those I'm okay with just messaging them.

Honestly that's all I need. But I've found my balance that I'm comfortable with.

Tl;dr you don't have to be a Chad but you might as well try being a normie just to say you have.

>>123756

>qt3.14

>virgin

>not frumpy as fuck or crazy as fuck

Where to get

>>123823

Tell me anon, if you watched videos of Richard Stallman talking for an hour, would the term "Chad" come to your mind even once?

>>123831

Ah I see, I admit that although I knew some, I had no idea as to the extent of his excellence.

>>123868

You're an idiot if you think all normal people do those things. My friends and I spend time together lifting weights, playing video games, freediving, watching movies, talking, hiking, playing board games, etc. "Normal" is not quite the same as "raging degenerate," and most people who are into the party/hookup lifestyle give no shits whatsoever if you care for it or not. The point is not that you get a certain type of social interaction, it's that you get any social interaction at all. Grow up.

>>123870

>Normal is not quite the same as raging degenerate

Nice RP, but this killed my suspension of disbelief.

>>123763

>asinine way of thinking.

You should have some conversations with women and report back.

>>123815

>dont give a single fuck

This is solid advice but needs to be put into better words. Do not be distracted from your purpose and mission in life… whatever that may be. Dictate the terms of conversations and playfully push boundaries FOR YOUR ENTERTAINMENT and for no other reason. A lot of my friends know I'm a /pol/ack and very far right leaning… and a big Hitler fan, unironically, for example… and I get away with it by being in tune with my own masculine essence to the point that it overshadows anyone elses stupid banal bullshit.

You want to be cool? Steal a Dodge Challenger Hellcat wide body edition and play this song on repeat while cruising down your street in second gear (don't switch gears because that's what beta Volvo drivers do).

You'll probably end up with more guys wanting to take pics with you than girls but it's still worth a try

>>123875

You sound like one of these UNLOCK YOUR MASCULINITY IN 5 SIMPLE STEPS hapas on youtube

>>123870

>Failed normie detected

>>123871

>I have never had friends in real lfe