2c5dae No.7210
Two years after my first relationship with femdom undertones fell apart, I haven't had luck finding a new girl that would seem interested in being the one to wear pants in our relationship, even if metaphorically. I think it's time to get to know my target group better.
Ladies, what does it for you? What piques your curiosity in a man? What do you like to see in a man that makes you want to come up to them and offer them some private lectures? What do you think is attractive for dominant women?
Similarly, are there any telltale signs based on which I could tell a woman is inclined to giving spankings out rather than receiving? I'm talking hints towards dominance.
I am 24, programmer, bi, have a dark and nihillistic sense of humor. I have long black curly hair, average physique, 17% body fat, big butt, stronk legs but kinda feeble arms. I'm learning to play the guitar. Should I go >>>/fit/ ? How much are we talking? Wouldn't it be a turnoff if I got muscle?
Any tips appreciated.
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ca4484 No.7211
>>7210
>a turnoff if you got muscle
nigga what
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8ed297 No.7214
>>7210
Let me help you out here :)
Most girls like the male to be dominant. To take steps in the relationship. Most girls don't hurt their so because.. well… they love them.
I have experience in the sense that, In my previous relationship we wrestled a lot, and I enjoyed hurting him in his private place while he enjoyed slapping my butt and nipple pinching and stuff. He also liked to be dominated, and I enjoyed doing it! So while we were watching a movie, I would tickle him and have my knee close to his crotch and threaten him with it, while tickling him (on his side). What this does is, it tickles fetishes while also not hurting, (He also likes to lead me on with 'you wouldnt dare'-s so sometimes I had to actually go through, which I didn't mind :p)
I like to dominate, but also like to be dominated. (as a girl) I enjoyed laying on his lap getting spanked (for 'losing' ) but also enjoyed paybacking him the same evening. And after a wrestling session we would ofcourse romance it up :) It's about finding balance.. I kinda kept talking, sorry for making it so long!!
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8ed297 No.7215
>>7214
Hints towards dominance, would be subtle threats like I mentioned or challenging the other. be sure that your relationship still revolves around love and don't end up in an abusive relationship!
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8e0d37 No.8566
>>7215
*bookmarks page for later reference for writing*
any other tips dear Tina/anon?
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49a81e No.8567
Girls who look you in the eye with laser intensity and don't shy or look away are dead ringers for femdom, though obviously not guaranteed.
Girls who are bi are also more often more open to the idea too.
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d0e863 No.8569
When she pins you against the wall and grabs your balls and squeezes them with a death grip and makes you answer until she wants you say what she wants to hear.
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4fb58e No.8573
She dominates the conversations. Maybe she doesn't openly talk about fetishes or anything like that, but she sends off a no-nonsense kind of vibe. The better educated she is, the better chances that she will be open to dominating you.
Best of luck.
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8e0d37 No.8576
*takes more notes*
how many would be in her posse if she was an overt LET'S BREAK SOME LEGS bully coming from an household of average income?
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4fb58e No.8577
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8e0d37 No.8578
>>8577
hahahahhaha! simple, I like it!
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4f5cd2 No.8723
women in traditionally masculine careers, the three most sexually dominant women I've known have been a security guard, a firefighter and in the marines
obviously these sorts of jobs attract confident and commanding people in general but maybe there's something freudian going on for dommes where these sorts of careers often involve physically and socially dominating men
something counter-intuitive I've also noticed is women with left wing beliefs are usually into maledom (sorry /anita/) but women into femdom often have right wing beliefs, I suppose those gender dynamics are what either one considers taboo and therefor exciting, or they both just attract the same personality types or something
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2c3c95 No.8724
>>8723
>women in traditionally masculine careers,
I think that´s a pretty good advice. The only dominant woman I´ve ever met was a physics scientist.
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8e0d37 No.8730
>>8723
>>8724
so odds of a Judge, Mental Health Doctor, an Architect who dabbles in car mechanics, and Sports Manager being into femdom or at the very least gentle femdom?
I've just listened 4 of my characters' dream jobs. I don't know any of said professions.
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f13211 No.8731
>>8730
>an architect
Architects are married to their work. Unless you can spend 12 hours a day drafting and reviewing design documents it won't work
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8e0d37 No.8736
>>8731
*crosses that out*
well shucks back to that drawing board.
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