No.26099
>In love with a depressed girl
>She doesn't know me
>Hardly see her since she doesn't have the motivation to leave the house
>Try to DM her on Instagram. She doesn't respond
>She's so fucking cute. It's like a whole new level of oneitis
What the fuck do I do? I honestly think I've moved past the point of it being just oneitis
I genuinely feel for her and want her to get better
Feel shitty because I don't know if the situation will ever get better. Am I selfish for wanting her to get better, so I can be with her?
I have no idea what to do, and i feel so much that it's almost agonizing
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No.26104
bro - call her twice a week maximum, like each Friday night and maybe once more per week - THEN the rest of the time focus on your self. Use wanting to see her as a motivation to present your best self once one of those phone calls turns into asking her out.
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No.26105
What /r9k/ 8kun doesn't have one don't tell me you went to Halfchan?
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No.26124
>>26105
I did, but don't worry - I'm pretty much done with it.
There are still some okay boards like /lit/, /flash/, /a/ and some other that'll make the transition harder
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No.26130
>>26099
>depressed girl
not real, oxymoron.
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No.26140
>In love with a girl
>She doesn't know me
No anon. No you're not. If she does not know you, you cannot know her. You cannot love someone you do not even know.
>>26130
Wutt? Incel fgt or is there some reasoning behind this statement?
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No.26153
>>26140
>cuckchan spacing
>wutt
>the word incel
>fgt
Good god, I regret coming back.
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No.26154
>>26153
All imageboards are pozzed/compromised, anon. You either learn to roll with it and sift through the muck to find the quality or you just don't even bother.
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No.26155
>>26154
I’ve got my bunkers from after the collapse, they’re dead and small but high quality at least.
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No.26158
>>26153
For a second, I thought you were overreacting
>>26140
You're right about OP. You can't love somebody that you don't know, you're simply infatuated.
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No.26159
>>26158
I don’t mind a slow flow of newfags as long as they integrate but it seems lurking before posting is a dead practice.
>inb4 elitism
And OP iktf, my oneitis from high school rarely talks to me and I ruined multiple chances but just being too autistic to understand how to interact so instead I just stayed quite, smile and didn’t reply when she’d hit on me. Maybe it’s for the best because she is a tumblrina but not very political.
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No.26163
>>26105
This board pretty much acts as an /r9k/ substitute
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No.26165
>>26163
All boards end up doing so in the end, if you really think about it. They either go full /pol/ or full /r9k/, no matter their original subject.
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No.26250
>back in the day when I was on doomer
>Latvia would ban all threads from r9koomers
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No.28903
>>26099
>using normalfaggot sites such as instagram
Instincts say she's not depressed nor alone, she attracted over 9 thousand suitors and you were just one of them that she dind't choose. She pretended to be depressed for attention and got it. She's in chad's bed right now.
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No.28970
>>26099
>depressed girl
>on Instagram
>so fucking cute
Bro she's not depressive, she's pretending to be for attention. If she had real depression she couldnt even muster the strength to put on makeup and post for simps like you to send likes and shit.
I bet if you offer her money she will send you a token gesture confirming your existence, then ask for more every month
Its a LARP, stop falling for it
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No.28971
this is called a parasocial relationship, u dont know her
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