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Most precious years of our lives are gone and now we clinch to alcoholism

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 No.24428

ask for advice, whether it is to get better, or to learn about something you don't understand. let's help each other, we fight a lot on here but we cannot forget that we are allies, as we all are afflicted with the doom. here is my question.

>your attitude is part of what will never let you recover

>push through it, time does the rest

>you must stop wrapping up your identity in a culture surrounding/fetishizing misery itself, whether or not it keeps you from feeling alone

am I too cynical, or are any of these actually good advice? is my opposition to these pieces of advice restricting my happiness or is this just a "have" trying to give advice to a "have not" and failing? it just seems too simple that time+attitude+environment is the way out of debilitating mental illness. and yes door number 3 is referencing doomer culture, a friendo found out about my internet activities.

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 No.24431

>>24428

There is no general advice imo. Some things work for people and some other things work for others. Currently the only thing I'm pushing through is writers block and it pays off so far, I guess. Other than that I'm just trying to take life easy. Find something you like to do, to be honest. That should be your prime focus because even if everything else sucks, at least you have some shelter in form of activity. It helped me before when times were much worse, at least I could lock myself in room and record something.

As always, I tried to bruteforce myself through life even though I was well aware it's not working for me. Now I go out in the morning, take pictures of flowers, fuck around, do some work, try to sit down for a while, write something, play guitar a little bit if I feel like it, take a shower, have coffee, work on something else, write here or on other boards, whatever. For some people exactly the opposite works, they have to force themselves do to something otherwise not doing anything does more harm to them than benefit.

Also big part of why I feel better recently are lies and ignorance. I just don't want to bathe in my own shit anymore, I don't have mood for it. I want to feel comfortable, that was my main motivation, I wanted to be more like people who are always chill no matter what, not taking part in any negative type of shit because it's pointless anyway. I don't want to be objective, I don't want to question everything, rather I take now things as they are, not paying big attention to how's life going and how it will be in future. I'm sure it will be better, yeah maybe economic crisis will hit us but we will get over it and people are tired of tradshit anyway so I don't have to fulfill your roles. Before I would say "yeah, life sucks but at least I'm honest to myself". Well fuck it, /comfy/ is all that matters and if that means being more careless and dumb to others, then so be it.

>it just seems too simple that time+attitude+environment is the way out of debilitating mental illness

You will still carry some deep shit in you, it's part of your personality and you will hit the lows again, who cares. Just don't forget nothing is such a big deal. We don't know why we live, we don't know many things. Don't listen to people telling you what you should do or be, fuck all of that. Unironically be urself, my person of african-american heritage. Don't even listen to what I say, have your own head; or listen to me because I said don't listen to me.

Having problems is fine, being doomed is fine, many of us are, just look around yourself but taking it easy and not making too big of a deal about it helped me. Having time for yourself, not hating everything, even though you know world could be a bit better, that's all really nice.

tl;dr masculine approach to problems like "I have to combat everything in my life" is garbage attitude and not caring too much isn't escapism, sorry about blogpost

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 No.24476

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>we fight

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 No.24481

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>let's help each other, we fight a lot on here but we cannot forget that we are allies, as we all are afflicted with the doom.

Ok.

I'm not sure what to do.

>Burger college drop out

>no longer interested in either of my majors

>business

>engineering

I don't really have any motivation. My GPA was trash before I dropped out because I was forced to take so many worthless courses and it looked like another 5 years before I would graduate despite having spent almost that to get to that point. I was not learning anything and I could not make myself work when I felt that there would be no end, and that there would be no payoff.

What do you guys normally do at this point. I am not at risk of starving or loss of basic necessities but I don't even know that there is a field that interests me or whether I could ever even get into if it existed. I am actually only really bothered by this now because I am getting older and even normies that were not really notable are just much more advanced in their lives. It's embarrassing. People think I am smart but I don't really feel like there is anything I want to do.

Business related pursuits are all disgusting jobs making excel sheets for globohomo firms and engineering is so prescriptive at this point that I cannot even justify taking the math courses. I cannot shake the idea that even if I did go back to college (which I dont even know how or if it is possible) and complete a degree that it would be marred permanently by the fact that I was a drop out and that my prospects are now lesser.

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 No.24523

>What do you guys normally do at this point.

waiting for Reaper-san to take you home

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 No.24524

>Business related pursuits are all disgusting jobs making excel sheets

just start your own cumpany nigger

rip off them normies from their sheckels, play the business game like a video game

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 No.24527

Why do so many christians say shit like the following:

>I've read my Bible through either by myself or with my parents multiple times a year since I was a toddler. It say god is the first and the last, but not the darkness or evil.

And yet:

>"I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I the LORD do all these things." Isaiah 45:7

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 No.24540

>>24527

I don't trust any schmuck claiming they read Bible and understood it. If top clerics, philosophers and theologians still argue in 2019 about meaning of certain passages, why I should listen to some 80IQ nobody telling me hot bibletruths?

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 No.24699

I got into IT because I was only good at computers, but as it turns out I'm not good at coding and I hate it, can't even finish a fucking tutorial. I done some career quiz and they all come with different bullshit results for stuff I have never done or I have and much like coding I've no talent for.

At this point I dont even care about being "special" and famous, just trying to make enough to survive since unlike the yuros in this board I can't live off the government forever.

>>24428

>you must stop wrapping up your identity in a culture surrounding/fetishizing misery itself, whether or not it keeps you from feeling alone

So stop coming here then? and all chans and at least half the internet

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 No.24700

>>24481

If you're a finance fag, you can always pursue that on your own. If not, a maths+business background is a good footing to get into it. Just never take a job in the sector unless you like being surrounded by workaholic sociopath NPCs.

Stocks long-term tend to be a good earner, but require patience. If you want to make money quick, CFDs/options are all good stuff, but especially with the former, you may want to invest in a good noose as a backup plan first.

>>24699

I'm currently doing my LPIC certs and recommend you do the same. Sysadmin is IT-related and has little programming, maybe some scripting.

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 No.24704

>>24524

Wish I was smart enough to know what to scam normalfags with.

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 No.24709

>>24704

me too. My idea would be spirituality, psychology, validation and reassurance.

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 No.24710

Everyone is born a fuck up

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