>>20277 (OP)
>How often do you attend them?
We have very shattered small family circles rather than classical one big circle; and we rarely have huge family meetings, unless somebody dies. Mainly because we all live in different parts of Europe. So if you count like small family circle, maybe once a year during Christmas holidays.
>do you have any family to get together with?
Yes.
>do they enjoy doing it?
Not really, I'm pretty indifferent towards it and trying to skip any meetings if possible. I have amazing family but I don't really like having too much people around, I'm not used to it, I was alone for big part of my life and I like it that way.
>why don't you attend?
Except having more than 1 person to deal with (myself), the other reasons might be the casual polite questions you get - "Hey, what's new?". Well nothing is fucking new, for 10+ years I'm living day by day, thinking about death, is this what you want to hear?
>last time you went to one?
Last Christmas, it was okay, I played some board games with my cousin but after 1 week I had enough.
>I haven't gone to a single meeting or birthday
I'm trying to skip it whenever I can. Grandmother's birthday, aunts and their birthday, whatever. No one in our family really likes celebrations anyway, it's always awkward because no one likes receiving gifts, so it's not big deal but they like seeing each other from time to time so sometimes we meet. Fuck, I wasn't even on funeral when my other grandmother died recently.