/doomer/ - Doomers Club★

I hate workaholic types. That being said try being in agency with nothing but black women running it who think nobody's opinions matter but their own because they're a) a double minority and b) let's face women can't into self-reflection and never think they are the problem.

>>14165 (OP)

You fantasize to fall in love with them and start a relationship that makes you both happy.

>I don't know why I want to help people

You nigger, it's obvious why this is the case: you are a good person

>>14175

Somehow I don't see many women breaking the conditioning. It's mostly guys. There's been a few exceptions though, but exceptions are not a rule.

>>14165 (OP)

BO-san, I love you and I always knew you have a good heart

>workaholic

typical woman without family syndrome. It drives women even more crazy because they are on fagbook and see the other hags shitting out children and pretending they live the happy life. Men just booze it up and occasionally blow out their brains to cope but women go crazy

The solution to her unhappiness is to find a man, build a house with him and start a family

Oh sorry, did you want a family? Tough luck princess. Because thanks to globalist policies we fucked up your society and you can forget job safety for feeding your children. Heh

>What should I do? Is it even right thing to try to help her or is it right to let her go on her own into void and forget about her?

I think you should just talk to her. If she has nobody to talk to, it will mean the world for you to have you. Ask her what she wants in life and what prevents her to accomplish this dream. The best you can do for her is to make her think about herself and come to her own conclusion about what to do next.

>They can't imagine taking big risks, they can't imagine being more autonomous, maybe trying something different, they can't imagine living without the system providing them healthcare and transport.

This is what explains my love/hate relationship with the world. On one side I think they are retarded little subhuman pieces of shit that all deserve their neofeudalist slavery for being cattle and doghumans who always lick government boots. On the other side I want to see the world change into a better world and see the poppy flower libertarianism sprout.

>They have no social relationships

But, but I thought they have 1297 friend on fagbook

Anyways, I hope you find out what to do now. Good luck

>>14222

>This is what explains my love/hate relationship with the world. On one side I think they are retarded little subhuman pieces of shit that all deserve their neofeudalist slavery for being cattle and doghumans who always lick government boots. On the other side I want to see the world change into a better world and see the poppy flower libertarianism sprout.

based trips. This hit me hard as it is exactly how I feel. I used to be so ideological and motivated, always striving for a better world. If I bettered the world for others and they did the same, then we could all be happy and the world would be perfect. I believed that we could fix things, if only people shared my vision for the future.

Then I realized that the problem isn't just miscommunications between people, some foreign force of evil interfering with society or an evil organization profiting off of our incessant suffering. The problem is people. Whenever there is an injustice or genocide, one person is looking down the stick into the eyes of another. Wherever there is degeneracy, idiocy or failure there are more people. When society faces a crisis, there is always a search for an explanation;

>there's an opioid epidemic, why is this happening?

>its big pharma, they cause addiction with prescription drugs and then people turn to street drugs

>its the collapse of the atomic family; with no role models and supervision kids turn to addiction

>its border security, all of the drugs are coming from the south

People are dumb enough to buy drugs, selfish enough to sell them, heartless enough to leave a family, stupid enough to get knocked up and greedy/lazy enough to live off benefits and raise their kids like shit. When people immigrate for a "better life" what it really means is that they want more gibs, better quality service and better wages. A "better" life for them, but a worse one for the citizens of their new home.

Even if we got transported to your (reader's) utopia (ethnostate, cyber city, anarchism, what have you) things would still go to shit really quickly (unless is that what you want for your utopia); people would still be greedy stupid pieces of shit willing to fuck over their community, family and even mankind. Perhaps I'm projecting to humanity. I've always held the naive belief that there could be a perfect existence, but nevertheless failed constantly throughout my life because I'm a selfish solipsistic fuck. I guess I can conclude that since I am imperfect, mankind can never wholly be perfect.

>>14255

sorry for the rant, what I was trying to get at was my "love/hate relationship with the world" as you put it. I genuinely want the best for people, but hate them/me because they fuck it and can never achieve a utopia or anything really that isn't complete clown world.

Also here is a good read: http://www.anus.com/zine/articles/prozak/african_superman/

>>14256

Fellow Hessian huh?

>>14222

>BO-san, I love you and I always knew you have a good heart

I'm still naive my friend.

>typical woman without family syndrome.

In her case, I remember when we spoke together long time ago, she talked about how she wants 5 kids but even at that time her whole life was just work. It all makes sense but it's not like I can marry every woman on the planet just because she is incapable of finding a mate herself. It's this thing that bothers me, because she is pretty safe when it comes to finances but yet refuses to work less in order to get free time and make some steps towards family, even though it was something she wanted. I know it's not easy thing at all but I think she will wake up at 35 one day with dry hole, crying about wasted years.

>Because thanks to globalist policies we fucked up your society and you can forget job safety for feeding your children.

That's another thing but it isn't just about job safety. People are full of comfort nowadays. Even poor people can rise children and our timeline sucks, so we should get used to trying it even if we are not financially secure because we will never be. I get it, we don't want to be like our parents, going to insane debts just to have family and home, most of us won't even get a loan but that's how it works now. It's more about being willing to take a risks in my opinion. Raising children in this day and age is too much risk for some people, living somewhere where you have all shops and schools nearby is too comfy even if you have refugees running around causing trouble, these people don't want to give up this comfort. Sometimes I think whigger Varg might have a point in something. If people don't want to have family and children, it's fine be me, just as side note, it just sucks if they want it and can't have it because their own stuck mindset.

>On the other side I want to see the world change into a better world and see the poppy flower libertarianism sprout.

It's maybe because you live in country where you had it. I'm scarred by stigma of post-soviet world. Having a good doctors, what's that? Having a good clean transport, what's that? Having good schools, what's that? Having police being able to solve something, what's that? Only very recently eastern europe is improving but I'm too old to care, it wasn't my world when I grew up, that's why I can't be bought by these "gifts of progress", because I survived the not-so-good times just fine and I know we will be fine even if we wouldn't have top institutions in our neighborhood.

Thanks for your advice, appreciate it.

>>14255

>I used to be so ideological and motivated, always striving for a better world.

>The problem is people.

One of the reasons why I'm doomed as well, yet I still try to do improvements, it's like hitting wall with your head, while when somebody asks you why you do that, you reply that you have no idea. Idiotic.

>People are…

People are first and foremost selfish as fuck, period. It wasn't this bad few generations back, I guess it's boomer heritage. They are capable of destroying marriage just because they don't feel "happy anymore" (whatever the fuck that even means). You can't trust anyone because you don't know when that fucker will stab you to back for his own benefit. This is the state of our society, everyone for themselves. There won't be any positive change unless people change their mindsets. I'm not Christian but Christianity has this beautiful idea of putting your "neighbor" in front of yourself, share with him what you have. It's metaphor, possibly the only useful thing in whole b*ble, yet it will make you weak because the other one is not willing to do the same for you.

>>14255

https://johnkreiter.com/our-arbitrary-conception-of-life/

https://johnkreiter.com/our-energetic-reality-the-unacceptable-truth/

>>14165 (OP)

Just be there, listen to her problems, maybe be friends with her if you care. Beyond that, don't fix their problems unless they ask. Saving damsels in distress is such a typically male thing we do, but it's a lost cause to save someone if they themselves don't want to be saved.

>>14251

don't you have a sister or cousin you scumbag?

would you feel good if someone played her like this?

I would chainsaw any fucker alive who did this to my sister

without painkillers of course

>>14255

>the problem is people

exactly what I concluded

you see, the bankers and CEOs in their tailored 5000$ suits are not the cancer. They are only the metastases. The cancer, is us. We are the ones who give them all power in society and kiss their asses.

>Perhaps I'm projecting to humanity

oh believe me, you are not. People are trash. At least 85% of them are.

>manking perfect

Sure, if you gave me an army I could genocide them all and then I could enslave the remaining 15% who are not complete basket cases into a surveillence state that will keep their subhuman-ness in check but what is the point? Everything would be fake. The people would be pretending they are not subhumans and I would be pretending I was not a mass murdering lunatic who does not even follow his own rules don't kill people my fellow humans, this is impolite. It would all be fake just like in soviet union where people pretended they love their politbureau

>>14165 (OP)

One does not help others so much himself, as he does by showing them it is within themselves.

>>14165 (OP)

God bless you (i mean this sincerely). It's good to know that we're out there. It's so odd how we can hold both love and absolute hate in our hands. I'm in the same boat with an old friend of mine--he did some pretty bad things that would have probably made me feel utterly betrayed a year ago, but at this point the stakes of existence make every oath obsolete and every slight forgiven.

>>14186

i agree, women don't seem to make it through, which is a shame. They seem so unhappy, and usually make it half out before lying down in the middle of the road and giving up, broken by a glimpse of the truth. Women sit on a river and trying to control that river with a drinking straw is a feat that most find impossible.

>>17894

this is some catholic priest tier lifecoachery

>>17913

women are trying to get married but there is 30% shortage of marriageable men around so of course they are unhappy about not being able to fulfill their biological imperative. And of the remaining men, 50% are pump and dump betrugos but they have to gamble and hope they are not wasting time with one and often they do

Humans today are unhappy because they cannot fulfill their biological urges to find a partner, build a house and start a family together because entirety of society is so fucked up and beyond repair.

I mean, 30% of millenials can't even move out of their mommas basement for fucks sake, that tells you enough of the situation.

>>17937

to be honest my only hope for this kind of situation is that something snaps and death and destruction reign for a couple decades in the west.

>>17937

>Humans today are unhappy because they cannot fulfill their biological urges to find a partner, build a house and start a family together because entirety of society is so fucked up and beyond repair. I mean, 30% of millenials can't even move out of their mommas basement for fucks sake, that tells you enough of the situation.

Exactly. I've been saying this for a long time now; there aren't any positive outlets for people anymore - everything is FUBAR. More and more people are starting to notice, but they can't do anything out of fear of being shunned back into submission.

>>14186

women conditionings are usually broken when they get surrounded by volcel edgelords, which is really hard-to-get scenario these days. Yet totally worthy to observe when it happens.

Men are too weak to stop chasing them, cherishing them, putting them on pedestal, both virgins, chads or whoever… they can't just forget about them as they should.

The legit role of women is to pursue not to be pursued ¿do they look unreachable? make youself even more unreachable to them.

Be the prize, never the player.

Despise what you can't have with ease.