No.388877
This has been something that always really got to me while trying to date as a feminine guy. I feel likke dating is almost impossible at times. I understood that dating as a feminine, androgynous guy was not going to be easy but oh dear did I not think it would be this hard.
I understand that most gay men are going to be into Masculine guys, I myself am attracted to that and I want to have a "heteroromantic" relationship where it's clear that I'm the feminine aura in the relationship dynamic.
Naturally I get turned down when I express interest in guys I like and while I can take it, it definitely is hard when you actually think you can get on great with the guy lol.
This isn't to say I don't attract guys it's very rare when I do and when I do, they just aren't guys I'm attracted to. They're usually
> Older (40s-50s+, I'm only 26 and not interested in dating guys the age of my father or grandfather)
> Live 500+ miles away (I'm not looking for an online long distance relationship)
> Are super closeted (I have no time to deal with that, I've been out for 10+ years and I just cannot handle being with a guy who's that paranoid.)
> Married or have a Girlfriend (Do I even have to explain why I don't want this? lol)
> Very overweight (I'm not gonna lie, I'm not attracted to overweight or obese bodies, I take fitness pretty seriously).
> Want me to start taking hormones and transition into a trans-woman. (I'm not trans and that's not how transgenderism works)
It's just frustrating to deal with sometimes and it makes me wonder if I'll ever find a guy. But I'm curious if any other feminine guys here have faced similar obstacles/problems. How do you cope? Or if you did end up finding someone, how did you do it?
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No.388878
>>388877
hey anon, I feel your pain, but what scares me the most is accidently "fooling" guys when i go out to shows and stuff. They get angry at me for tricking them or some stupid shit like that.
I dated a girl for 5 years out of highschool, and she encouraged and helped me to find my Andro side. I know lots of girls are interested in guys like us, but I'm not sure if you're bisexual.
I've never had a boyfriend so I wish I could help more.
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No.388879
>>388878
Oh man I totally feel you there. I remember this one time I was out with my friends and some guy tried hitting on me because he though I looked like a girl from behind but when I turned around, he got all freaked out and wanted to fight me. He ended up not doing anything because we were in a pretty crowded place but the was the first time something like that happened and it was pretty scary. Especially because I don't look the way I do to try to get attention, I'm trying to lead or trick anyone.
And you're right, I'm not bisexual. I'm 100% gay and I'm not attracted to women in "that" way. But it's cool you met women who were totally okay with you being feminine. Usually I hear the opposite where it's hard for straight feminine guys to find women who accept them.
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No.388880
Sorry, I meant "I'm not trying to lead or trick anyone" Damn typos lol
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No.388884
I'm glad I'm not the only person suffering like this. Guys I end up meeting either dont think i'm fem enough (this is why i'm so fucking sick of prison gays, you'd have to be a literal girl with a dick to satisfy them) or halfway through talking, they decide they really wanted someone more masculine all along. Ideally I'd like to date a somewhat feminine guy, but i'm totally ok with masc too. But it feels like I can't even find that.
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No.388886
>>388881
>>388879
on the plus side my fembros, I have gained a considerable amount of closeness and trust with lots of new people that i meet. Especially in Belegarth, I frequently have people explain to me that I'm easier to talk to/sit closer to because "I'm basically a girl" as they say. I love being in this position. It feels like a sort of power to me, being able to access people's hearts simply because they feel more comfortable around me. I enjoy carrying my gentle presence.
This life is a double edged sword as all others are ;)
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No.388889
>>388881
Thank you anon, I appreciate. I've been wanting to find a place to connect and talk with fellow feminine guys after not having anyone to talk to for so long but as I explored this board, I have come across some pretty toxic things like how they say fem guys should take hormones and go on HRT which is just a dangerous and toxic thing to even bring up to Feminine guys who are okay with being male. Or how if you're a feminine guy who is 25-30+, you're worthless. It's just awful and I felt I should start posting and help correct these toxic ideas being lambasted onto feminine cis guys.
And I understand that you want biological kids and hopefully you do find a woman who can look past your feminine self or at least be into it. I'm sure they exist but this is why I'm thankful I'm not attracted t women because being a gay feminine guy is hard enough lol
And ah okay, well it's nice to know I'm not the only one who noticed this attraction pattern on the guy front with old guys, long distance, married/closeted, and overweight with no semblance of trying to change that.
>>388884
I've never heard of "Prison Gay" but that sentiment alone is so fucking grating. The guys who expect a feminine guy to look like an anime character. Anime =/= Real life, these guys need to get that through their fucking heads. That or expect us to look like pre-op transwomen which again, does not happen with feminine MALES. We are MALES. We are not transgender so why the hell do you expect us to mess with our bodies? It's just asinine and selfish (on their part). It's just so fucking irritating. I'm so glad to have met another guy who feels this way and sees this bullshit for what it really is with these Prison gays.
>>388886
Yeah I can see how that could have some "feel good" moments. I used to be that kind of guy as well when I had friends. They'd always come to me to at last listen to their problems and attempt to give some gentle advice. But sometimes, you just want that special someone to share your life with you know? lol
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No.388905
>>388896
I just hope that more lurkers can at least get some help from my and the others posts who go against this toxic ideology of the feminine guy. Because some of these drastic measures to being feminine are just bullshit and it's already hard enough trying to date as a feminine guy and we don't need this crap to deal with on top of things.
On the stigma thing, I understand but sometimes it's best to work on that. You don't want to get older and end up regretting not meeting up with guys because I'll be honest, it gets VERY hard to do so when you get older unless you're open to other older similar aged guys. Just some food for thought.
And no problem. :)
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No.389104
>>388877
now imagine that while being a top
i gave up lul
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No.389113
>>389104
Imagine being a femboy top?
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No.389203
>>389114
Well that's true because most femboys/femguys are submissive.
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No.389231
>>389113
kinda, i wouldn't say femboy cuz i feel like that's almost tranny tier but apparently i look like a lesbian and the other day someone asked me if i was a girl so eh
anyway, short twinky faggots who don't bottom are kind of a niche thing to be into i guess
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No.389283
God damn it this thread hurts my soul.
>be 27
>I Appear masculine.
>5'6'' skinny fat to bit of a pot belly. Plan to fix this at some point.
>I'm a bi dude that's mostly into males. Into fem guys and pretty accepting of how much the femininity varies. Masculine guys are fine too but mostly attracted to feminine guys.
>There's a laundry list of reasons why I'm not dating but it still kills me inside that I'm not.
>not sure where else I'm entirely going with this green text but fuck it.
Point being you're describing exactly what I'm into and I find this shocking that you're having trouble. Why are we still here just to suffer?
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No.389330
>>388877
>I understand that most gay men are going to be into Masculine guys, I myself am attracted to that and I want to have a "heteroromantic" relationship where it's clear that I'm the feminine aura in the relationship dynamic
Same thing I want here, except I'm on the opposite side of the spectrum. Highly masculine, shredded young man but I can't find any qt femboys anywhere. Been dating nothing but women for the longest time now.
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No.389371
>>389114
> women don't want submissive men
I had to learn this the hard way. Please don't fall for the femdom meme.
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No.389428
>>388877
>TFW androgynous and want a relationship that is absolutely equal and I share masculine and feminine aspects with my partner
Get on my level
Yes same symptomes as in my shitty country. Also these transchasers see it as a fetish and would want to pretend "straight" then because they are closeted.
You should consider LDR. I only searched around the border and inside my shitty country, but cute males don't exist here. Only hookup / scene shit. I may have found one already. It would be a 22h bus travel but I wouldn't care for my dream BF. You should just have time. If you think being a workslave with no free time is a fullfilling time you can only join those sex fetishists or become asexual.
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No.389430
>>389203
Unfortunately. But I prefer androgynity anyway, slight masculine features are OK. Overall more boyish/twinkish and not old looking.
I think Im more bottom but I would want to give my BF the same feeling back if he wanted it. For me fullfilling my partner (and become filled) is the most fullfilling thing for myself.
Its also hard to find gays who want a serious relationship, I basically want a heterosexual relationship with a male, just with no gender roles and 100 % equality. We would be Asari. Also cuddling, kissing is more important than sex. Those disgusting hookups with just meeting, sticking in and going away dont appeal me any bit.
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No.389530
>>389430
The more I read this board, the more hopeful I feel, yet, I can't help but feel entirely hopeless just like most of us here.
Most of the posts on this board get me fantasizing and giddy, yet when it comes down to it, where are you people irl? why don't these ideas exist outside of the internet if we're all clearly real human beings?
How can I feel so connected yet so alone?
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No.389591
>>389283
I'm not sure but I'm telling you right now. Try to work through whatever issues you're having on why you don't want to date a feminine guy (or guy in general) if that's a problem you're facing. You don't want to wake up at 45 and finally be comfortable enough to date another guy because unless you're open to dating other men your age, it's going to be ROUGH. So take this time to work through it and then go find that special guy to grow with.
>>389330
See that's the cruel irony. I sometimes run into guys like you claiming you want a feminine guy for a partner (I'm assuming? Because if it's just sex…. Yeah, I'm kinda over that stuff and want something real) but you guys seem to be so far away and apparently, vice versa. But unless you live in like the deep south or some country in the middle east, you shouldn't have trouble finding a feminine guy if you keep looking.
>>389428
I don't know what you mean on "Get on my level" but if you're saying I shouldn't be looking for a more masculine guy, yeah that's not going to happen. I tried dating another feminine guy and it just was not satisfying at all because I craved a more masculine aura.
And I just don't think I could handle a LDR. I actually tried doing that with a guy and it just didn't work. I wanted to see him so bad and him me but eventually, we just fell apart because you can only chat so long until you just want to physically be with each other.
>>389430
Eh well… I guess just keep looking.
>>389530
Exactly. You see this kind of stuff here all the time yet when you try looking irl (even when using the popular gay apps), you just don't see these guys who really want a feminine guy.
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No.389597
>>389591
No, I just meant you seem pretty normal as a feminine guy seeking a masculine one. For me I seek some androgynous and this is really impossible. Masculine men don't attract me, I want someone I am equally feminine and masculine with and share these aspects.
Yes, but a LDR is just the first step. Thats why I want a NEET or at least someone who has time, we can visit for weeks or months. In the long term I would also consider relocating together with a BF.
Now where I expanded my range I found some matches at least, currently I have found someone who seems perfect and I hope this works out and the become BFs.
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No.389609
>>389371
my exGF of 5 years didn't mind my submissiveness, but when it came down to it, i know she wanted masculinity in her life, especially during sex. But when we would cuddle, or hang out, she treated me more like the girl, and she was more like the boy.
I miss her. I loved trading off like that. When we started dating, we were hopelessly male/female - then 5 years later, im androgynous and she is a tomboy <3
personal freedom is a gift.
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No.389615
>>388877
Yes my problem is I can't seem to find someone like you DarkFemboy. Actually I don't really find you that attractive physically but you seem like my kind of fem-boy otherwise regarding the type of person you are and what you want relationship wise.
I recently joined OkCupid and all the gays on there for hundreds of miles around me are just not my thing at all. Most of them are either really masc, like old, bald grizzled men or they look like soyboys with aids, like pic related. I think I'm just going to have to be super specific about the type of person I'm looking for in my profile, and then just wait. Probably for a long time.
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No.389624
>>389597
Ah okay. So you're looking for a feminine guy who also looks androgynous to feminine leaning? I say this because what I've noticed from some feminine guys on dating sites is that they have the personality but they don't look feminine or androgynous but more so masculine or soft butch.
And I mean, in a grand scheme of things I would love to be the stay-at-home doting "boywife" sorta speak lol
And I mean sure, I suppose you'd probably have more luck finding a guy if you were open to LDR but like I said, I need the physical. I want to be able to be held and cuddle with the guy. And spend time together doing things you know? I mean if I did find a guy who was open to relocating for the right guy, I could probably do that.
>>389615
So pretty much like >>389597 said where you're wanting to find feminine guys who look feminine or at least androgynous with a slight lean towards feminine right?
But yes, you'll have a better chance at finding the right guy if you're specific in what you're looking for. Because especially on the feminine side, so many of us are shamed for looking feminine and so some fem guys will try to make their look more masculine hence why you see masculine or soft-butch looking feminine guys. If you're specific in saying you like feminine androgynous looking guys, you'll be more likely to get interest from them assuming you take care of your appearance as well.
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No.389657
>>389624
>you're wanting to find feminine guys who look feminine or at least androgynous with a slight lean towards feminine right?
Yes exactly, though I don't mind more boyish males like say pics related but they have to be like at least average looking. It's weird that I can't even seem to find average normal looking guys like that, at least on this site I'm on. The boyish males with model good looks can literally be with whoever they want so they probably have no trouble finding someone so I doubt I'll find anyone like that either.
>Because especially on the feminine side, so many of us are shamed for looking feminine and so some fem guys will try to make their look more masculine
I don't know why that is but I'm pretty sure that kind of shaming has been going on for a long time. I was reading about one of my first boy crushes, Jaye Davidson. He played Ra in the first Stargate film. He was so beautiful but he changed his appearance because he felt alienated from the "gay community" because of his androgynous looks. Now he's just some tatted up butch guy. :(
Btw, I didn't mean to imply that you are ugly when I said I don't find you attractive. I can see that you are attractive, I just have preferences.
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No.389669
It's like someone not too long ago wrote on 4ch. It's like Penelope spinning wool in the Odyssey.
You like masculine guys. But, truthfully what you want is a straight guy. But, straight guys like women and you're not one as yourself so hard stress. But your myth of the masculine guy is at odds with the fact that they fuck guys - not straight at all.
No amount of rationalizing is going to make that fact go away. Your dating pool is made of guys who fuck guys, and may have been fucked themselves, or may want to do so in the future. Stop it. You're hurting yourself. It's not healthy.
Here's the secret : straight guys like women. Period. So either accept the fact that you are going to date gay men - men who like men - not the quarterback from high school who dates a new girl every other week.
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No.389723
>>389545
So I'm finally drunk enough to answer this. Well, maybe not enough to tell my whole story. I've posted bits and pieces of it here but on the off chance that she comes back to this board, well, it'll save us both some grief. Maybe some day i'll go all out.
I'm probably a horrible person to ask seeing as I've had a total of one real relationship, but the more I think about what happened, and the more I read blog posts by dominant females, the more I get the impression that men and women have different ideas on what "dominance" and "submission" are. This post >>389609 is actually pretty on the money, and I plan on tackling this one step at a time.
First, let's get the big one out of the way. Pegging is pretty much bullshit. Don't get me wrong, it can be hella fun for everyone involved if it's what you're into. But compared with normal sex (for the purposes of my argument, let "normal sex" be defined as "man on top, woman on bottom, penor in vagoo until they both cum), pegging is significantly more strenuous on the female body for a much smaller IMMEDIATE payoff. Sure she may get a kick out of hearing your slutty moans and whimpers, but it leaves her unsatisfied. I'll never forget the look on her face when she told me that it really doesn't do anything for her, and that after the first time, she only ever did it again because I liked it.
Incidentally chastity is pretty much bullshit as well, because what kind of woman wants a dick she can't use?
Bondage? Work. Lots and lots of work, especially if aesthetically pleasing rope patterns are involved. Waiting for her to finish her knots was fine, I got to spend more time with her and felt an amazing kind of trust from letting her go for as long as she needed. Less fine was hearing her shouted frustrations at getting that loop wrong AGAIN. It was one of the few times where I was truly powerless to help her, and part of me thinks it was that much worse for our relationship.
And then, when she does finish tying you? I can't deny it feels great for both. Being held, helpless. Trusting. Allowing yourself to be made vulnerable in the more literal way. And then she starts whispering things in your ear. Promises, threats, praise and scorn. All while she teases your body. But the act leaves her herself empty and unfulfilled.
She never truly saw me as a man. This detail came out later, but it was hinted at throughout our time together. I was constantly referred to as "she" when in the company of friends (hers or my own) and she openly expressed disdain when I acted "like a guy." Crossdressing went from something i did in private to something that was expected of me at all times, and I was unwilling to be seen like that by random people. I panicked when we arrived at a friends house, afraid to sit down lest they hear the vibrator that she wouldn't turn off buzzing against the couch. Paradoxically, she was probably the only person within the last decade to tell me to "man up" without a hint of irony.
So what the fuck DOES a female mean by "dominant?" "Submissive" is easy enough, to be submissive is to be given pleasure by another. That would define dominant as the one who does most of the work for less (and less intense) pleasure. And why would she want that?
At this point I'm actually afraid to date. I wouldn't want to reveal that much of myself to anyone without knowing them for at east a year, and at that point would they even still care? Could I even consider myself truly loved if I haven't allowed them to gaze upon them every facet of my being? Not that it matters, I don't know anyone eligible, and I'm really not young enough to slut around even if I wanted to.
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No.389726
>>389659
all good things must end, Anon. that is why they are good. Glass is created to break. Love is created to die. That is beautiful.
We became different people, and grew up realizing that the paths we seek are very different. I was a jealous person and did not understand the love that I had until I let her go. 7 months later, I've talked to her about reconnecting, but she doesn't seem super interested.
It is a shame, Anon, finding Loves so perfect, for when they do not love you back it seems to be the most hopeless of feelings. I love 3 people with all my heart. I serve them as I would Divinity. They are pure and true.
Only one of these 3 will return some of this love that I feel. It is a painful thing to accept. He lives 800 miles away and we see each other only for a moment each summer.
I am seeking now. Seeking a place where I feel whole. I've met thousands of people through my explorations in life and it troubles me that only 3 have reached the most pure sections of my heart.
I seek this connection with all people, yet barely any seek this connection with me.
pic related it's me and one of those people.
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No.389750
>>389723
Holy fuck, like, just get a dominant trans gf already. "Pegging" feels amazing for us.
I don't understand why people make it so hard on themselves. Just do like everyone else does these days and go on some dating site of your liking and be upfront about who you are and what you like. How else do you expect to find someone compatible. You don't have to reveal everything about yourself obviously, but if your brain is wired in such a way that your sexuality is submissive (to females), then that's who you are. Be honest w yourself.
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No.389752
>>389657
Well have you tried Grindr? I've seen guys that look like that on the app and assuming you live in a somewhat metropolitan area, you could find guys like that with quite ease.
Yeah I remember Jaye Davidson, never saw the movie bur saw him featured in a top 10 list and I agree, he was gorgeous in the film. But I'm not surprised he changed his look due too alienation from the gay dating scene (or gay scene in general). As someone who is living that kind of live of just trudging on feminine and all and just accepting the rejection because that's all you can do, I'm not surprised that some fellow feminine gay men can't handle it and thus, try to butch themselves up. I personally cannot see myself doing that because despite the dating problems, I am happy with how I look and as they say, you only live once so I'm just going to keep doing me and maybe I may come across a masculine guy who likes someone like me and it'll be worth the wait. And if not well, at least I can say I was happy with how I am lol.
And no problem, I understand everyone has their preferences.
>>389669
I am completely lost with what you're saying to be honest. I'm not a transwoman, I'm a guy. A feminine guy but still a guy nonetheless. And masculine guys can be gay as well. Not sure if you weren't implying that but uh… Yeah.
And I'm not chasing straight guys. Chasing straight guys is a lost cause because they'e straight and no straight guy would go for another guy no matter how feminine the guy is. And I'm perfectly fine dating gay men. I'm a gay guy myself so I mean, it's to be expected lol.
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No.389753
>>389750
>Trans
>Us
Back to your containment thread
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No.389757
>>389753
That's not the purpose or spirit of the containment thread. It's there to focus discussions on HRT/transition, outside of that, people are free to give their perspective on whatever other issue here.
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No.389777
>>389750
>inserting yourself randomly into the discussion where you aren't welcome
This is why people hate you.
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No.389778
>>389752
I've never tried Grindr. I thought it was just full of people looking for no strings hook-ups.
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No.389802
>>389788
Sorry, but this isn't ICE.
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No.389819
>>389750
I think you missed the point of my last few words. And the crossdressing note too; I'm simply not comfortable revealing that part of myself to someone I barely know. Maybe I just need to say fuckit and put myself out there.
You do have a point about transgender women, in a fairly problematic way. Since their biology is male it makes sense that they are more in tune with male desires and sexual needs than whatever may be considered a female desire. But I wasn't talking about mtf transexuals, I was talking about biological women. The kind that don't have a real penis and thus can't get off by fucking someone in the ass.
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No.389859
>>389624
Yes, actually I recently found him. We both look girly. But still have masculine features and body hair. We will be equally husband and wife.
Yes, but I have prepared this for years, I have a nice place and my BF could just livein, maybe for months. I just don't seek anyone with a slave job or similar, because then it would certainly not work. Its hard but expecting the right guy at your place is impossible when you are picky. Cute guys don't exist in western Europe.
>>389752
These apps are shit. You will only find sex people there. I would rather seek on /cb/ and 4chan /soc/.
I'm glad to see androgynous guys still exist, everyone takes hormones nowadays. Its sick. The society can't accept something that is in between. But I will leave this reality anyway soon…
>With my loving BF
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No.389865
>>389859
You seriously need help, anon. I mean really, you're a fucking nutjob and I wouldn't be surprised to find out you're a serial killer.
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No.389873
>>389865
Dudes been posting here for ages, most people know to avoid him because how crazy he is. Several weeks ago he was posting about his last bf saying pretty much the same thing
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No.389877
>>389778
Yeah, there are some people on Grindr who are just looking for sex but there are also people like me who are trying to find guys to date.
>>389859
Well I mean, it's cool you found someone you really like but I just can't see myself with another feminine guy. I could hook up with one but long term relationship stuff? No, I just can't because at the end of the day, I prefer a "heteronormative" type relationship.
And I mean, so long as you could financially support both yourself and your mate then you wouldn't have to worry about him working a slave wage job but I'm curious? What do you have against guys who work "slave wage" jobs? And I disagree on the "There's no cute guys in Western Europe" thing, I'm sure there are.
And yeah, the apps do have guys only looking or sex but then there are people like me who are looking for more than that so you can't really generalize too much. My main problem on apps are just the abundance of guys old enough to be my father & grandfather hitting on me when I make it known I'm looking for guys close to my age. That and "Tranny chaser leftovers".
I've never though about trying to look for someone on /cb/ and 4chan/soc/, does that even work for people like me (feminine guys, not trans).
And yeah, there are still a few of us androgynous guys around but I'm not surprised there are fewer. It's pretty much what >>389657
said with actor Jaye Davidson. So many feminine guys get rejected or shamed for looking androgynously feminine and for that reason, more are trying to adopt more manlier appearances in the hopes of being more socially acceptable and attracting men.
But I will always speak out against HRT/Hormones because as far as I'm concerned, if you're not trans you shouldn't be taking them because while you may like the results if gives you in the "now", you may not feel the same in 10 years and you're stuck with potential issues like ED, hormone tits, weakened liver, and so on. I mean, I won't stop them if that's what they want but yeah.
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No.389880
>>389865
>>389873
>those mad faggots cuz germanfag finally found his enchanted prince
Kek.
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No.389881
>>389880
>finally found his enchanted prince
>was saying the exact same things weeks ago with his last bf
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No.389906
>>389881
>weeks ago
i wish i could get over a guy so easily
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No.390076
>>389877
And I prefer one without gender roles.
Its simple, I want to live, not work. I only work to improve my life and my BFs. But it will be no problem for us.
At least I haven't found them in the past 4 years and I bet there are none on Gayromeo. Just nuke this spot of Sodom.
Yes, its full and if you look feminine you have even better chances. Especially since you are from the US. Never change, the society can't accept something in-between, they need gender roles. Its their kind of sickness. They can accept people who mutilate themselves with hormones and call us sick…
Yes, I know, it decreases your lifespan. I won't look very manly after I'm 30, I've seen 40+ people who look like 27. They are really rare but you can never archieve this with hormones, it makes you look feminine in the short term but look disgusting in the long term. Only healthy diet and a fit life can make you look nice in the long term.
>>389880
Its just gays, they are more intolerant than anything else. One thing I found out in the past years. But it doesn't matter, I'll leave this human reality, live with my dream BF in the forest and watch Europistan being destroyed by all those Arabs and "tolerant" leftist people on my 8K TV as it was just a show.
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No.390083
I've just given up on dating.
Only dated a few guys and each time they've either tried to get me to do stuff I'd regret or I get overwhelmed by how attached they are. Like there's never just casually being together, either everything is lewd or they have to constantly be messaging me or in contact then talk like I kicked a puppy when I ask for a bit of breathing room.
Its probably a problem with me considering I don't really like physical contact and prefer talking or just being fucked like a toy. All the touching that isn't a violent slap or dick based just freaks me the hell out and they all think they can fix that by being in constant contact.
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No.390182
>>390076
Oh okay. Well again, so long as you make enough to provide for you and your boyfriend, then I totally understand.
And yes, the best way to look decent in older age is to look after yourself and that can go a long way rather than resorting to something like hormones that are at most, only short-lived and temporary.
>>390083
lol See I wouldn't mind an attentive, somewhat doting boyfriend but that's probably because I've never been in a relationship before and I don't have much friends neither. And I'm way more into romance and affection than being treated like a disposable sex toy.
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No.390190
>>390183
Hello there friend, you seem to be HRT posting outside your containment thread, oops! For the safety of you and everyone else you should make your way back there. Thank you and have a nice day.
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No.390216
>>389859
this webm makes my heart happy. I want this bros..
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