>>725664
No single man "makes" any other man mad. All men instead choose to become mad of their own will.
The seeming irrationality of your attitude towards your brother suggests that deep-seated beliefs and fears are what actually lie behind it. My statement might seem like psychological mumbo-jumbo but it makes perfect sense once you understand how emotional reactions work, see the attached image, for example. You will need to reflect to come to some understanding of these underlying beliefs, there's no doubt some history behind them, and in order to give them a proper burial, because a life in Christ must absolutely reflect different attitudes and behavior. Not all, or even maybe much, of the following link will relate to you, but it's an important topic to explore, and I recommend you read it. It explores the psychology of anger from one Catholic's perspective:
http://www.guidetopsychology.com/anger.htm
Also consider what attitudes should be driving a Christian's behavior instead. Think about what attitudes and beliefs parables like The Hidden Treasure and The Pearl of Great Price are supposed to impart: "The kingdom of heaven is like unto a treasure hidden in a field. Which a man having found, hid it, and for joy thereof goeth, and selleth all that he hath, and buyeth that field. Again the kingdom of heaven is like to a merchant seeking good pearls. Who when he had found one pearl of great price, went his way, and sold all that he had, and bought it."
It's a long process, but we all have to start somewhere.