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>>722715

I'm now in a relationship with the perfect woman. Education major who wants to teach kindergarten, and to be a mother. Beautiful woman, sweet, kind-hearted, genuine, and understanding. We've met each other families, and both our families approve with enthusiasm.

>>>722715 (OP)

I saw this really cute girl today at uni this morning, reading the Bible. I normally carry my Bible with me to campus everyday but today I didn't bring it along, would of been cool to just go up to her and read over verses. Maybe I'll see her again sometime

>>722721

She wants 4 kids, so we'll pray God allows us to marry.

>>722720

sorry, 8chan is weird, not used to it. probably look like a pleb

>>722716

False religion reading should include their """"holy""""" books. It's best to take knowledge from the source.

>>722730

>You're just 23, you have enough time to change future.

Not at all my man, my formative years are done. The way I am now likely very similar to the way I'll be when I die. I have no room for physical growth or change anymore, my body is done. My mental state is clearly deteriorating. My spiritual growth will hopefully continue to grow though.

>Elaborate pls, why do they hate you for being Christian ?

The biggest reason I am hated is because I am not a good looking dude. This is life and I've accepted that. I will never have a chiseled jawline or be 6-feet tall or have hunter's eyes or have a defined ramus (at least without plastic surgery which I may or may not do… I cannot afford RN anyways).

I am hated for being Christian because I am therefor a traditionalist. I do not support any modernist movements, secular or otherwise. I believe women have a defined role as mother and caretaker. I believe both men and women should not engage in premarital sex. I believe women should not be able to work in certain industries and should not have the freedom to vote. When asked IRL, I will chastise extramarital sex and the modern woman (I do not go out of my way to do it). These things upset people, and I regularly am called sexist amongst other things.

Christians will always be hated by everyone. That's just the call.

>>722731

> I have no room for physical growth or change anymore, my body is done

You can still hit the gym tho, look for things you can change!

>. I will never have a chiseled jawline or be 6-feet tall or have hunter's eyes

Don't feel inferior, women don't really demand those, trust me.

>I believe women should not be able to work in certain industries and should not have the freedom to vote.

>These things upset people, and I regularly am called sexist amongst other things.

It's good to be traditionalist but do you talk about this to people around you? Why cast the pearls to swine?

Also, don't really fall for the traditionalist meme, all you need is personal relationship with Christ :) maybe it is the traditionalist belief which holds you back from Christ. Do you live in a Non-Christian country.

>>722733

sorry this is a Christian board and I've posted nothing contradictory to the Scriptures

>>722735

>You can still hit the gym tho, look for things you can change!

Frame is largely a meme and is still largely genetics as well. I have 20in. shoulder having never worked out in my life though, so maybe you're on to something. I am at a healthy weight right now, though. My BMI is 24.

>It's good to be traditionalist but do you talk about this to people around you? Why cast the pearls to swine?

I don't go out of my way to say these things, but when asked I say the truth. My beliefs are doctrinally justified, I have no fear expressing them and apologizing (for?) them.

>Also, don't really fall for the traditionalist meme, all you need is personal relationship with Christ :)

This is pretty gnostic my friend. Be wary of this thought. There is no personal relationship with Christ, I have never met him. It is only by Grace and Scripture that I even know Him, and only by Faith in him that I am saved.

>maybe it is the traditionalist belief which holds you back from Christ. Do you live in a Non-Christian country.

I live in midwest USA. Relatively speaking, its a fairly good area for trad men. My trad beliefs will never change under any circumstance. Christ means more to me than thots. Christ > thots > everything else.

>>722740

Careful with that edge, son. You might cut yourself.

Old relationship generals:

>opposites do not attract, date someone of your own race for a healthy relationship

This thread:

>Don't bash individuals for choosing women/men of different skin shade

I once thought imageboards were safe from liberal decay and even tended to keep swinging right. I guess I was wrong and there is nothing the devil can’t conquer.

Mods, if you have any decency left delete this thread

>made by a gnostic heretic

>links to heretical videos

Mods do your job for once

OP is a prostitute. Repent!

OP is a fat thot who only know how to eat and eat and eat

OM NOM NOM

OH YES MORE FAT PLEASE

>>722933

What did I do ?

It is all too late now.

You cannot forgive me

Friendship is over

forever and always

>>722966

Friendship ended with mudasir.

>>723006

Now Buddha is my best friend

AMITAHABA AMITOFO BITCH

CAUSE IT RAINS IN YOUR BEDROOM EVERYTHING'S WRONG

>>723025

Do you remember that Baptists are heretics?

DO YOU?

>met a girl at a church function

>we go to mass and meet up a handful of times

>she says she really enjoyed it and seems keen to hang out more

>suddenly becomes busy when uni starts

>cant really hang out

>dont talk for two months

Should I ask her to catch up for coffee? Or is two months too long. How should I even go about this Im a bit retarded with women

>>723029

You should just wake up

Thanks OP for making this thread! Finally….But where are the mods?

>>723029

You should just wake up and CHOOSE LIFE INSTEAD OF YOUR DAYDREAM

>>723029

LIFE IS NOT A FAIRYTALE

LOVE DOES NOT EXIST HERE

>>723036

Dont listen to this lunatic, hes a spammer. Apparently something went wrong in the Discord, I dont know the details because I dont go on it. Ignore him.

>>723040

apparently you are a stupid ecumenist heretic who should be BURNED ALIVE

>>723035

We dont go to the same church, so the only way to get in touch is through text.

Alright lads Im gonna do it

>>723054

You suck loser

SHE IS A BLACKED THOT AND I WILL LAUGH

>>723065

>t. cuckoid

>>722718

But will she have time to teach YOUR children?

>I will therefore that the younger women marry, BEAR CHILDREN, guide the HOUSE

How can a woman guide her house if she spends the greater portion of her day outside of it?

Why does she not want to spend 8 hours a day teaching her own children?

>>723114

What she wants most is to be a mother. Teaching is secondary.

>>723029

Two options:

>She did not have time

>She had time but she wasn't interested anymore.

The best way to find out is to ask her out for that coffee. No two months is no too long. If she's interested she will make time even if she's busy (Don't freak out when she says she cannot go this or that day but let her make a counter offer) If she just talks about "not having time" without making a counter offer when you suggest it….she might not be interested.

Go and find out.

>>722729

23 is not too old. If you do not feel celibate is for you..then your way is marriage. Perhaps God wants to shape you first into the man he needs you to be.

We cannot do that when we already have a woman. I mean sure we can but honestly, the most work on yourself will be done when you're single because a) you have more time b) your desire to get the woman drives you crazy and fuels you with a great effort.

Do not get blackpilled Anon. Pray st. Raphael's prayer, work on yourself and search for that woman.

>I can't even take care of myself anymore. Life is not meant to be lived like this.

I know it's tough but first of all we have to take care of ourselves before we get the wife. She makes some things easier but many things are harder that way and also she needs a lot of support from her man.

>>722716

>recommending the Summa and the Philokalia

Don't those two contradict each other?

>>723301

you can read something without accepting it, especially if it's still profitable to read. As far as Im aware, neither the summa nor philokalia are rejected in either the Catholic or Orthodox churches, as both fall within the bounds of acceptable theological debate.

>>722731

>Christians will always be hated by everyone. That's just the call.

They hated our Lord first. I'm sure you know that, but keep it close to your heart. Our Lord is what is most important.

>>725678

Not marrying out of love for leading an entire life solely dedicated to the service and glory of God is good, not marrying because you dislike the concept of marriage (with all its implications) is not.

>>722715

Why did you insert keto bullshit in the OP?

>>726491

There is no perfect woman. Such a being does not exist. This however is a major red flag. Maybe she's still a virgin but was just tempted.

If I were you and I cared for her, I would give her the chance to explain and talk it over. If she tried to make excuses to move me over the edge(Anon it is not a big deal we can go slowly at first adn so on..) I would definitely leave her. If she regretted it I would consider working it out by setting boundaries.

Look you know the girl, we do not. You have to know if she's a girl that made one mistake,or she's no longer a virgin/sleeps around etc. But if you aim to find perfection, you will not find it. You should give her a chance to explain at least, then decide if you continue the relationship or leave her be.

>>726491

>pushed her off me and swore at her

No. Bad. Be gentle with people. "Don't do that, sweetie," and gently remove her hand. Let people down easy. It's extremely antisocial to curse someone for, essentially, liking you too much.

You sound like you don't really like her, though. Just the idea of her.

…Or you're making this up. It also kinda sounds like one of those "shit that never happened" stories.

>>726491

Couple of things. On the one hand, it is good she is attracted to you and her reaction is, to an extent, natural. This is where you need to be the man and lead. Let her know that that behavior is only for marriage. I am not sure if she is not a virgin as the other guy said, possibly not and it definitely isn't a good sign, but I wouldn't count her out yet. Either forgive her and correct it or forgive her and cut her out + move on. You definitely need to forgive her either way. As the other guy said, there is no perfect woman. I would say you don't know the circumstances quite yet to be able to say? Perhaps consult a spiritual director. It is difficult to discern from behind our screens, she may not be a virgin or may. She may also have tried something because she heard somewhere you might like it or that is what you are supposed to do. Understand, in marriage, that behavior is good! She's just getting ahead of herself, needs correction at least. Don't be hasty, may not need to cut her out yet. As the other guy said, be gentle, yes.

>>726491

Also, yeah, your reaction was really not good at all lol. Definitely communicate that to her, that you should have been gentler/went about it better and more careful. Stop ignoring her! Discuss this with her in person, find out where it came from, and go from there. #1 in relationships and above all, marriage, is communication. Obviously hold your ground about not doing sexual stuff until marriage, but explain it better and kinder next time. She will see there's a reason for barriers and more importantly that you're not a psycho tyrant and worthy of kingship over the house.

>>726944

You're not talking with conviction your being blatantly rude. I hate self righteous christians like you when I have to suffer their presence in real life. You're the type that goes ruining the mood telling everyone they're sinners

>>726618

>Don't dawdle. Either move to commitment or move on.

What's the rush? We are both 21 years old. I'm not going to marry until at least 25 anyway. The more time you have to figure out if you're truly compatible the better

>>727110

Nah hes right. You do need to apologize for being so spergy and rude to her. You do have pride that is worse than her lust, not trying to say Im any better.

>>726491

Are you perfect? From the sounds of your own description of your behaviour:

>"I swore at her"

>"I've been ignoring her texts"

you certainly aren't. Re-examine your own bevahiour, and talk to her like an adult instead of ignoring her like a teenage girl throwing a strop. Passive-aggression is one of the worst traits you can have.

A priest speaking on why so few men marry today

>>727286

Wow man that’s pretty woke stuff. Thanks for sharing. I have been long saying that the rise of the plight of 21-century men starts with the fall of female chastity.

>>727113

Because it's a waste of time, and you leave yourself open to temptation. You're not perfect either and don't assume you are.

>>727745

You connect by talking to women. Just act cool, be yourself and be confident.

Can anyone give me guidance over how I can deal my uncertainty over this girl?

I'm 19 and at college, I joined this Orthodox Society and met this girl there, she's great and I don't know if I am attracted to her or not, but I think she might be attracted to me (or just like me not sure how to feel).

After the third meeting she walked with me to the bus stop (I live a distance away so i gotta take the bus) and she hugged me goodbye. Does this mean anything?

The other thing is that she might be several years older than me, I haven't asked her her age (the rudest thing you can ever ask of a woman) but I know she is Russian and studying for her Masters. She may thus be 4 years older than me and that puts me off pursuing any romantic relationship with her.

Any advise for me? I've never dated before if that helps.

>>727845

I don't want to reveal my counts location.

>>728933

>How do we secure a sweet virgin christian woman ?

By being a sweet virgin christian man.

>And be fruitful and multiply?

Uh, well … you see … when a man and a woman lay together in sexual congress, the man ejaculates inside the woman's vagina which can sometimes cause an ovum to be fertilized by spermatozoa …

>>727286

The Orthodox deliver, as always.

How hard is it to date a secular woman for the sake of helping her find God and marrying her as a Christian in the end?

>>729560

Depends on who the woman is. Every woman if she's feminine will take up opinions of her man to some extent. That's a good thing unless she's the kind of "I have no opinion" woman.It can be tough if she's convinced atheist, she's got problem with church in general, etc.

If she's entitled feminist, or tries to be dominant in the relationship I would dare say it is rather unlikely. But you would not pick those.

>>729613

She's fully ignorant of everything related to theology so I think it would be possible with enough of a philosophical foundation. This was the case for me at least, but I'm not a woman so it may not work the same

>>727851

I'd say she likes you romantically anon. No women would get physical with people they aren't attracted to, especially a Christian girl who are shy of these things. The age difference is only 4 so its not a big deal. If you guys have a lot of commons and you like her I'd say you should go for it. These days it's rare to find a decent Christian girl

>>729698

If you like the girl you should try to work it out.

A few weeks ago my roommate told me that his girlfriend told him that a certain girl had her eye on me. Sounds like high school but I swear I'm in college. I had a hunch on who it was, saw that girl the other day at a fundraising dance marathon, and started talking to her a bit. Turns out I was right in my hunch, I got her snapchat and she seems at least kinda into me but of course kinda submissive so I need to be the one to make the moves first. It may be hard to get a date set with Thanksgiving break being this weekend, but hopefully I can get something planned for next week. This is the first girl I've had a real chance with in a while so I'm hoping and praying I don't mess it up at all.

>>731434

winnie the poohed up formatting. I HATE 8chs formatting with the spoilers and italics.

Lads I have an emergency plz help.

I'm meeting a girl from church tomorrow after work. It's not a date but I want to turn it into one. Give me some tips please.

>>732441

Just relax and don't try to force it. If she likes you for who you are then you'll be together, if she doesn't, no biggie.

>>732598

I feel for you man.

My opinion is that women do care about looks a lot but there is also something else thay care about: The confidence. It is the vibe you have around yourself. A woman seeks stability, she wants a man who is confident about himself so he can support her (as a weaker sex). It is not what exactly you say/do unless you behave like a complete weirdo. It's more the way you carry yourself around, the way you speak. Speak slowly with confidence, stand upright, walk with pride. Hitting a gym will help because it will get your confidence up. From what you write I get the feeling you have very little of it. You need to build a self esteem independent of female validation - that is what in the end radiates the confidence which attracts women, which causes them to give you the validation.

Another fun fact: Women follow the flock. If they see you around other women (even if they're just friends of yours) they will be more into you. A woman seeks validation from both men and women…if other women like you she will have that sense if she gets you to like her. The fact is the more women go after you, the more other women tend to do so also.

>I'm not even sure how I can be helped. I'm just here to bitch about shit.

This is the issue. You need to change the mentality. I will tell you what to do. Drop porn and fapping completely. You need all testosterone you create, you need all energy, being horny and thirsty. Hit the gym, read scripture, books, get a new hobby, speak to women - make more friends as well as try hitting on women, asking them out. Stop being defeatist, stop whining. Instead embrace the struggle and pray. Overcome yourself and build upon that.

Just so you know, I used to be terrible at it too. It changed when I quit fapping and did what I suggest you start doing RIGHT NOW to change. After 5 months of nofap I was able to ask many girls personally without issues. Now after 11 months I seem to have gotten a gf already and I realized that when you break the ice things get easier. A year ago I did not have any woman seeking my attention. Now there are like 5 girls I could try asking out. Did I change my looks that much? Not much but my attitude changed, I am more confident, independently of them liking me or disliking me. I am not here to brag because I am far from being a chad but I want to say that it is possible to improve your position. Women are attracted to strength, confidence and stability.

Get there and let those things shine from you. But there is a catch: In order to shine you first need to burn - that is- change your ways and embrace the struggle against your vices - pride, lust,…

>>732598

Why not date women with aspergers?

>>731438

>>731434

38yo (39 in one month) volcel reporting in

I know the feeling, the passion and urges are strong. Porn must be avoided and the desire is usually placated with work, prayer and actual personal relationships.

God willing I'll find a good woman to marry and have children.

Sorry for the blog post but I've found the most perfect girl in the world at church (surprise surprise) and we've been talking for a while and I feel like we could be much more than friends but I don't know how to make the next move. It just seems cliche and low effort to ask her if she wants to go see a movie. Any tips?

I'm impressed evermore upon rediscovering this thread each time this thread resurface on first page. Just started listening to the CS Lewis videos. Thanks anon!

>>733014

If she likes you, then asking her out to a movie is better than inaction, my friend. It's going to be heart-wrenching for you if you dawdle and some other guy swoops her up.

>The way I was raised gave me severe trust issues and a personality disorder and the only reason I want to date is so I can prove to myself that women are all evil

Be real lads, am I EVER going to make it?

I went to an all boy school from 12 to 18, then did stem in uni until 23. Ive basically had no interaction with females outside of internet thots. I find it extremely difficult to talk to women my own age and I probably have an unhealthy view of relationships.

I've probably got no chance of finding a real relationship tbh

>>732765

I am not accusing you of anything. I do not know you but from what you wrote in that post you;re very negative and you do not sound happy. That;s what really gets women off. I am just saying what helped me. Take it or leave it, that's up to you. Nofap does not give you "muh superpowers". It will not help that much to do it just for few weeks and then fail. Your brain rewires after months - for me it was 2 months when I really felt renewed. but the effect sums up and you do become more attractive because you're more confident and happier. Testosterone makes wonders. It is NOT just nofap. It is the sum of all other things: lifting weights, working out, reading books, getting a hobby. It is about expanding comfort zone. If you have trouble socializing, do that. That's what was my biggest issue a year ago. I am not chad but I think I am far better off than I was. I do have the guts to ask women out face to face now.

Why would I lie to you? What would I get from bullshiting on an imageboard on 8ch - a place few people go to in /christian/ where even fewer people go to?

Life is about looks but:

>you can change them very little

>Looks are not everything.

>Focus on what you can change, change the looks as good as you're able

I see even ugly guys with handsome women because they are masculine and strong and that attracts the woman.

>Where do I meet these women though?

Communities around the church, church itself, my hobbies (I have quite a few of them), friends have friends… when you meet them sometimes they introduce you to interesting women…

I am not saying there are tons of literal wife material around me. But there are possibilities to choose from because I changed my ways and become more out-going.

>You type like some early college red-pilled frat dude.

Not even close to truth.

If you feel like it's all horseshit then do nothing and just "bitch about shit" as you wrote it. But I would not recommend it.

>>732765

Just so you know: If you called me early college red pilled frat dude IRL I would tell you to go winnie the pooh yourself.

You sound defeatist and you're angry when someone touches that defeatism of yours and tries to help you. I can spend my time in a better way than to post my thoughts in /relationship/ with anime OP images.

If you;re truly happy confident, walk tall and you're not defeatist at all then I was just wasting my time for nothing.

Good to know.

Just dumped my girlfriend yesterday…feeling like crap because i still love her. I dumped her because things weren't the same as before. I'm feeling hopeless, because she was an unicorn, way younger than me, a virgin and a good girl. But i was too paranoid and ended up losing her attraction…There goes my hope of early marriage.

>>733014

>>733058

> It's going to be heart-wrenching for you if you dawdle and some other guy swoops her up.

^He speaks the truth, man. Don't delay. I did that for most of my young adulthood, but I've finally found the right woman by God's grace.

>>723029

> tfw atheist Chads are gangbanging your dorm-room-cum-slut-could-have-been-christian-waifu

> feels bad man

>be me

>enter Catholic church alone

>bangs, creaks, footsteps everywhere like crazy

>head to front row to see the books in the benches

>is all dusty with cobwebs everywhere

how to remove the demon spirits from that place

How does dating even work? I don't understand what I'm supposed to do or how to even find a girl I might be interested in.

>let medicine be they food

>keto

The jerky cured me!

>>729726

Update on this post: we went out on a date and ended up connecting really well. Yesterday she asked me to be her date to her sorority's upcoming dance, I'm really excited for that. Feels great bros, we're both on the same page with so many things and I feel like it's the healthiest relationship I've ever had. I just want to see it blossom even more. I thank God everyday for bringing this into my life, and really don't know what I've done to deserve such a blessing. For all the anons out there that don't have a gf, stay strong, the Lord has a plan for you. I found that focusing on being my best, most holy self helped me out a ton. Just focus on loving God first and above all things.

>>733376

I’m only citing you as an example of what Satan uses to make us depressed. God always has a plan b, and if she was meant to be with you, and you hesitated, God will send someone else just as good if not better when the time is right, and if not, will help you understand singleness is a gift to be used. Advice to everyone on this thread.

>>733538

> singleness is a gift

Say it aint so

>>733780

*call yourself

Before you start making excuses/apologizing your inactivity/low effort ask yourself: Do you want to become a father?

Do you think God just walks around and gives everything to people who make no effort whatsoever?

When you actually fight back and pray…then you can expect God to send you what you seek. It's okay to feel down sometimes. I feel that way often. But is it not okay to be defeatist. Your defeatism itself rapidly lowers your chances of attracting a woman.

>>727286

More woke Russians. This time a man calls in saying his wife wants to divorce him because of his addiction to porn.

>>735132

Good advice.

how do I discern if im supposed to be alone forever or have a wife?

I want to know once and for all so I can worry about other things

>>735438

Do you desire to marry? Do you believe you can live life without that physical act?

If so, marry.

>>735464

>dat image

>sl*tty 2D persons

>not a kemono trad-waifs

Yuck…

>>735464

God provides. Just be patient. If you're seeking women of the secular world you won't get very far on your own. If you want a trad wife then you have to be a trad man, which means being community-focused. The girls you're looking for are protected by their fathers, who you will need to become friends with. It starts with a handshake.

>Be 30 years old virgin and pure man with a lot of qualities

> wants 18 years old virgin woman to be fruitful and multiply

Realistically possible ? Not my case, just a theorical exercice.

>>735769

>go to where they are

>cursillos/retreats

>libraries

>other churches

>community events, festivals, food drives, etc

If your options are scarce where you are, look elsewhere. Not gonna find what you're looking for by staying where you are (i.e. in the apparently empty church)

You are a good girl

*pat pat*

>>735769

God's probably withholding your future wife until you stop burning with lust. Having a wife isn't an excuse to sin. What are you doing fam. Learn to love chastity. Why would God put a faithful pure virgin girl around a guy who is apparently so burning with lust it's unbearable? Change your heart, ask the lord for help. I will pray for you

I'd like to discuss something with you lads.

Recently I started socializing and meeting a lot of young Catholics, after years of being a social recluse.

I also discovered, and this board helped me a lot in this, that sex before marriage was out of the question. I'm a virgin myself, but I've been consuming Jewish porn for years so I'm not really in a position to blame anyone. However, I managed to stopped because I understood how bad this sin was.

My problem is, I see a lot of young unmarried Catholics living with their bf/gf, and therefore fornicating. It's fine that they are sinning, I am too in my own ways. But they seem very happy about it and it seems perfectly normal for them to fornicate. Like it's not a sin at all.

Why is it like this? Why do we accept this within our community? How should I interact with these people? I can't help but feel judgmental toward them, yet there is nothing I can do but not say anything.

What do you think? How do you feel about christians who have sex outside of marriage?

>inb4 muh cucktolic

>>739321

Online dating is unironically bad. You're put in a database for the rest of your life, with every possible assumption they can make based on the answers you give, tied to your name and photo. Don't bother with online dating fam. It's free because you're the product. They take vulnerable lonely people, build a marketing profile around you, and sell it or worse.

>>739372

Go to church, church socials, bible study, etc.

>>739372

If I were u, I’d pray that God let someone in your life. But be prepared to stay single if that’s His will for you (although it’s probably unlikely)

>>739372

I joined a church group and it's full of women.

>>739429

You can join church groups that aren't specific to any parish. Mine has people from all over the city. In fact, the people you meet might think yours is cool when you tell them about it. You already have an icebreaker

Braaap posters made me develop a braaap fetish, so is face-sitting (with wife) a sin?

>>739437

Yes.

>>739439

Why? It's not hurting anyone.

>>739440

Look, if you want to be a degenerate and have your wife sit on your face, go right ahead, but don't try to argue that it's not a not a sexual perversion.

>>739442

Give me scriptural evidence that it's a sin.

>>739436

You'll have to get out of your comfort zone and find a parish with youth and growth. That's usually where stuff like it is advertised. Or check online to see if there are any groups looking for members in your area.

>>739443

You're too skeptical. You will remain socially secluded and celibate until you change your attitude. Does God owe you a wife? Have some humility man. Focus on the Lord and you're dedication will shine and attract an equally dedicated woman. Your preconceptions about women has to die because it's getting in the way of your demeanor. Women who are strong in faith don't magically disappear at specific ages, and the ones who get married will be replaced with new women who will notice your spiritual gains.

>>739443

>>739429

>>739436

And drop the anime. It poisons your mind.

>>739451

This.

>>739457

I can only go by what you're giving us and all I can say is your mindset is just wrong. I was a socially inept recluse addicted to vidya and cartoons. I discovered God and started to live by Matthew 6:33. He has given me everything and continues to put me in new situations where there are new people to meet, so far most of whom are women. I'm not patronizing you I'm trying to remind you of the scripture you believe in and read. There's always room for improvement and God decides when it's your time. Just focus on Him and trust Him.

>>739463

>Women cannot be incel

Christians are supposed to be volcel tho

>>739463

God has plans for everyone in the world at every point in history. You can choose to go with it or choose to ignore it. You know which is the correct answer, and you do it by dedicating yourself to His will. I don't know Lutheran doctrine very well but I doubt it says anything against the divine plan.

>>739463

Supreme post.

>>739473

>Yes, the ones who can't have sex though. Women can only be celibate through choice, a choice that 95% choose against by age 18. They are all whores. There is no such thing as a woman who is unable to have sex, adulterous sex or not.

This is wrong on so many levels, God, I pity you

>>739473

The wife is the favor, friend. No one is entitled to one just like how no one is entitled to a favor from a king or God.

Get gud and earn it. God puts women in your path for a reason.

>>739498

I already told you what I did. You ignored me and got fussy about a part of the post you didn't like.

>>739486

I'm >

>>739480

In university now so *shrug* new ID

The images which you've posted get their sources from Kinsey Reports.

Now let me attack the Achille's heel,

Kinsey report was used by the politicians to introduce sex education, soften/legalize laws regarding homosexuality and to normalize pedophilia.

It was funded by the very people this board hates, Rockefeller and Jews,.

According to the report, a 4 year old can can have upto 12 orgasm, now tell me, did he rape children to get that data ? According to the Kinsey's report, he got it from pedophiles in prison, now let's move on to the next.

The survey for sexual relationship out of wedlock was taken among prisoners and some sources say the survey in itself is fake, I mean it wouldn't take long to realize this if you experience people around us.

Hmm do you still wish to view the world through statistics by a sodomite pedophile ? A report made to soften the law regarding divorce, a report which marked the beginning of sexual revolution ?

Be careful about what you believe in, this world is filled with snares and ideological traps by the devil, the worst of all is some gets possessed with ideology that they become nihilistic and twist scripture to support their futile materialistic ideology (it's about natsoc and fascist who think inter-ethnic marriage is sin)

Be smart, pray for guidance, become the ideal person you wish to be.

I'm afraid, you might be using these false reports to justify your isolation from women, you know, it's painful to break free from ideology, to break free from a wrong view if things shaped by false witness and false information.

It's worth the try, break free of every ideology, you can do it by being wholly religious. It's worth it, I do not know what an ideal man would be like but you would certainly know, so be the better person you wish to be.

>>739473

>waaa waaaa waaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

>>739573

This is interesting, I'm unfamiliar with the Kinsey reports or how they were generated. Thanks for the tip.

>>739498

>hate thots so much they are the ones that deprive you of the Beatific Vision

tsk

>>739473

I will pray that the Lord helps you overcome your fixation on acquiring sex.

>>742594

If God's essence doesn't change, wouldn't it get pretty boring to watch the same thing for eternity? It's human nature.

Beatific Vision is not hell if either God's essence changes or has parts or human nature does. Which is it?

>>727286

While I agree with most of what he said, I think the reason also stems from "feminism", as discussed in the nature of women thread.

Where women fail to submit and commit to a man, maybe it has to do with being eastern europe and men being smarter and less pozz there, maybe it also has to do with women being polygamous and developing a rather nasty side of their femininity.

>>743368

Beating up people who are smaller and weaker than you and have no way of defending themselves against you is a sin.

>>742805

We'll be beyond all negative emotions with God, there won't even be such a thing as boredom.

God Himself, God's essence, is beyond any of His own Creations. Think harder about it.

>Beatific Vision is not hell if either God's essence changes or has parts or human nature does. Which is it?

i don't even know what you mean, but if you hate women, you will simply not go to Heaven. How can you be, when Heaven will be full of women saints?

>>743368

I think you might be confusing the Bible with Qur'an, there, buddy.

>>743368

From Sirach:

28 Fight to the death for truth, and the Lord God will war on your side.

29 Do not be bold of tongue, yet idle and slack in deed;

30 do not be like a lion at home, or cowardly towards your servants.

Perhaps, you may say "but this is Apocrypha" if you are a Protestant, but Christ definitely knows what is or what is not Scripture.

>>746776

The amount of men and women who abstain until marriage is far higher in the church.

My own girlfriend left her high school BF because he wasn't interested in waiting. I'm the first stable relationship she's had since, because she lost her trust in most men because of him.

http://waitingtillmarriage.org/4-cool-statistics-about-abstinence-in-the-usa/

>>747030

>My own girlfriend left her high school BF because he wasn't interested in waiting. I'm the first stable relationship she's had since, because she lost her trust in most men because of him.

lol muh church 4/5 girls are thots , scam. might as well hit the clubs boyos

>>737456

>It's fine that they are sinning,

No, it isn't. What you should do in your situation is hard to say, I don't know for certain if there is an easy catch-all answer, but what they are doing is certainly wrong. It is illogical to say that just because I am doing something wrong, and you are also doing something wrong, it is not wrong anymore. What you should do exactly depends on your relationship with these people, but I think the most important thing is the motivation. If you try to correct their ways out of pride, because you think you're a better or more moral person, not only are your motivations wrong, but it is not likely to sway them. Of course, based on what you wrote that seems to not be the problem you're facing currently. Whatever you do, it must be because you love them, and do not wish to see them fall into hell. And while it is possible to act wrongly, it is also wrong not to act. We can think about what is the best and most effective way to convince people that they are living in sin, but surely they will not be helped by your inaction.

At the very least, if it ever comes up, if they ever ask you a question about it, tell them truthfully that what they are doing is wrong, that you do not support it, and that it is a grave and mortal sin. Be honest.

>>747071

>lol muh church 4/5 girls are thots , scam. might as well hit the clubs boyos

Can someone translate? I don’t speak Bix Nood

The girl I really like is far more spiritually mature than me and I'm usually getting doctrine and theology from her. This seems like the opposite of how a Christian home should be. Is there any hope here or should I look elsewhere? I have a feeling she wouldn't be interested in me, even though I make a genuine effort to learn as much as I can.

>>747381

whose doctrine?

and if she really knows her doctrine, then she will submit to you.

>>747363

> 4/5 girls in church aren't virgin aka thot , according to statistics

> you might have a similer chance of finding a virgin in a club

>christianity is cucked and it is beyond over

>>747381

That does not mean she would not be interested in you. But you should study scripture yourself so you catch up with her..not hanging up on her with this.

Do not overthink it.

>>743368

I think you don't beat her to a pulp for dropping the coffee mug like an B movie adaptation of an italian mafioso it's fine. Be very reasonable as one needs to be with children.

>>747381

You have a golden opportunity in her.

>Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. (Proverbs 31:10)

>>747381

NO YOU'RE FINE! Mary was holier than Joseph but she perfectly submitted to him and Christ is the holiest of all but He submitted to his parents and honored them perfectly. You have found a gem. Godspeed.

>>743368

crazy ass obsessed with authority and pride. shes going to leave you in 10 years and ruin your family if you dont stop or at least severely limit it. you DEFINITELY don't do it every time and for every little thing she does. i'm definitely not hitting my wife ever…being firm means not needing to resort to that…

>>747117

Pick yourself up, dude. You're pathetic. You can't read statistics for shit. DURR WHAT IS SAMPLE SIZE?? 20% of a specific group of people waiting is VERY GOOD. It just proves that you need to just find very religious groups and go from there. Quit pissing and moaning dude, holy shit it's hurting my eyes.

>>722716

Regarding the fiction books, I've heard some of them are questionable; The Shack, A Wrinkle in Time, Les Miserables, and Paradise Lost.

>>737731

u mad?

Today marks two months with my gf, feels good. One of my favorite things is how strong she is in her faith, it's inspired me to grow in my faith a lot. The other night she went to a Bible study and came over to my place afterward to tell me all about it. Seeing her face light up as she talked about the woman at the well, and just how excited she was to talk about God made me really happy.

I just want to share some feels with you lads, maybe I need guidance but it's mostly venting.

Anyway I'm getting involved with a group of young christians, we meet once a week in the evening to study religious scriptures. It's pretty great, and I met very cool people there. But hell, I wasn't even expecting that much: I ended up in a team of 8 people of which 2 girls are 8/10, super cute in every way, literally anime girls. We've seen each other outside of our usual meetings these days, and I'm falling pretty hard for one of the girls. I have no idea how she feels about me, and I don't really want to do anything about it because I think I need more time to work on myself and improve, and I don't want to put a mess in my team. But you know what it is, once you get some feels for a girl it's hard to overcome it. I'm also tired of being single. I'm "only" 24 but the day when I find my future wife seems so far from here. Is it possible to be happy while you're single? Because the loneliness is killing me, even though I try to go out as much as I can. I'm quite confident that I'll eventually find a woman, but the waiting is so hard, you know? Even though I know God will reward me if I keep reaching towards him, I'm having a hard time being patient.

Something silly about this too: I'm quite sure I would have my chances with the other 8/10 girl, but she's race mixed (asian/european) and I got brainwashed too hard by /pol/ to get over it.

I've also been wondering; should I leave my parents place? I live there with 2 of my sisters and it's alright but I feel like living with them is stopping me from becoming a real adult.

That's it sorry for the blogpost and God bless you.

>>762528

>I don't really want to do anything about it because I think I need more time to work on myself and improve

>the waiting is so hard

>I'm 24

Get married already you neet

You should be actively pursuing women. You're behind.

>she's race mixed

find a woman from your race so you're not unequally yoked

>should I leave my parents place?

No way. Living with your parents is great until career or marriage make you leave.

>>762553

>Living with your parents is great until career or marriage make you leave.

The career part is a yes, but the marriage part doesn't make much sense.

How is a woman supposed to be confident in her man if he can even afford to leave his nest? Unless she is loaded and willing to literally pay for everything, I don't think that anon ought to be looking for a wife until he leaves his parent's house.

>>762563

>Unless she is loaded and willing to literally pay for everything

He only has more spending money if living at home than if he was renting or paying a mortgage

>>762566 (checked)

Thats why that anon ought to build his career first. It shows wahmens that he is able and ready to be a husband.

> mfw 32 yo and still live with my father because involuntary neet who f-ed up in life

Also, use the other thread ya nerds.

>>747009

How did she behave childishly, anon?

>tfw you find out that the religious girl you had a big crush on back in elementary and some parts of high school was actually a Protestant

Whew, as someone who embraced a stronger faith in Catholicism as an adult than in my youth, this just seems really funny to me, in like an ironic sense.

>>739486

>5% of women marry as virgins

Less than that now:

https://deepstrength.wordpress.com/2017/04/06/doom-and-gloom-and-the-amount-of-attractive-christian-virgins-part-3/

>In conclusion, there are approximately 545,241 Christian women in the US aged 18-29 who regularly attend Church, aren't overweight or obese, are virgins at marriage, and are currently single. This is approximately 2.15% of the 18-29 total women population (545,241 / 25,332,752). In the US total population it is .17% (545,241 / 320,090,000).

>>762553

>find a woman from your race so you're not unequally yoked

This is rewriting Scripture to fit your /pol/ narrative. Unequally yoked refers to an unbeliever and believer being married.

>>765179

>St. Paul referred to the broader meaning of these laws against hybridization, and against yoking an ox and an ass to a plow (Deut. 22:10), in II Corinthians 6:14. . . . Unequal yoking plainly means mixed marriages between believers and unbelievers and is clearly forbidden. But Deuteronomy 22:10 not only forbids unequal religious yoking by inference, and as a case law, but also unequal yoking generally. This means that an unequal marriage between believers or between unbelievers is wrong. Man was created in the image of God (Gen. 1:26), and woman in the reflected image of God in man, and from man (I Cor. 11:1-12; Gen. 2:18, 21-23). “Helpmeet” means a reflection or mirror, an image of man, indicating that a woman must have something religiously and culturally in common with her husband. The burden of the law is thus against inter-religious, inter-racial, and inter-cultural marriages, in that they normally go against the very community which marriage is designed to establish.

Rushdoony The Institutes of Biblical Law

>>722715

It hurts anons, and I don't know how I shall overcome this or what I should do. I will become a priest (it's a six year education, I'm currently on my first year) in some years, and there is this Christian girl I like (I'm not a papist so I intend on marrying one day if God so allows). The problem is that she was engaged for ten years or so, before she broke up with the guy (which by my creepy calculations was last spring). She is very friendly and says that I make her day happier as I'm more or less funny. She also comments on my muscles and says that I'm strong, even though I'm not so muscular. I understand that because of her relatively recent breakup she is probably reluctant to start a new romantic relationship, which I understand - and I don't want to force a relationship if it will make her unhappy. The question is, how do I cope? It hurts so much deep inside my heart. God doesn't give me an answer either. How do I stop the pain inside my soul

>>765287

>engaged for ten years

>didn't marry

Is she a virgin? How old is she? Don't fall for the obvious "I tried to make my asshole alpha boyfriend marry me but he didn't cave in and now I'm facing 30 and I NEED to settle down"

>>765292

She's the same age as me, so 22 , maybe it was less than ten years, probably six or so, not really sure, but the point still stands - she was engaged for a long time. No idea whether she is a virgin. How do I cope Anon? God bless you for answering me, an unworthy idiot

>>765295

>Oh, it's another brand of "People have been interpreting scripture wrong for thousands of years but we finally figured it out.

Wrong, Calvinist beliefs were present in the early church. Even as early as the 5th-6th century. Here is a quote from fulgentius who was bishop of ruspe in the 5th century AD:

>Therefore, when the Apostle Peter says that God is "patient, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance," (2 Pe. 3:9) let us not so understand the word "all" as stated above, as if there is no one who will not do a fitting penance, but we must understand "all" here as those to whom God gives penance in such a way that he may also give them the gift of perseverance, i.e. those who are converted by the prevenient divine mercy in such a way that by the same subsequent mercy, they will never go back to the serious sins which they have renounced.

Literally promoting limited atonement and even uses the common Calvinist argument of all doesn't mean all.

>>765308

for what YOU believe in*

>>765185

I’ve read that book. Rushdoony is a judaizer.

Unequal yoking referring to “hybridization” is a brand-new belief, historically. None of the Church fathers believed it referred to interracial marriage. It was invented in 18th century America by churches in slaveholding states. The slave trade was Jewish, and 90% of all slave owners in the 19th century were ethnic Jews.

Other than church, what is the best way to meet girls?

>>767194

Some colleges are okay… at my university, the average woman there is ironically more of wife material than 90% of Protestant girls I've met. They may have tattoos or previous partners, sure, but they're typically more wholesome than these trashy, entitled, unrepentant girls you see in modernist churches today. Take some 100-level courses that involve working in groups, and you're almost guaranteed to meet some freshman/sophomore girls that way. If college isn't an option, then you could try going to a library or event maybe, but that requires more confidence. God bless.

>>767194

partaking in hobbies and social events. doesn't have to necessarily be out drinking or anything, but if you like to rock climb or go to the gym or go to the library, etc etc they usually have some social events you can do

>>767296

What country do you live in?

>>767302

Afraid I’m not sure what you should do in Aus specifically, but like others said, keep actively looking. Find single women in your church and rather than just write them off as a loss because they’re Aussie Christian women, try and get to know them. Find out what they’re looking for. At least a few of them will be looking for a man in the church.

>>767296

>Is it wrong to seek out a Christian wife from another country?

So long as it's not done out of lust, no. I'm not sure how Australian women are, but American women will tell you it's wrong out of jealousy. Don't pay them any mind… they only shun it because:

<their choices are realistically limited to men from third-world countries (asians, indians, arabs, etc.) who want an easy out

<handsome european men with "cute" accents don't want anything to do with them

<men desiring feminine women from other countries implies their own women are inadequate

>Sadly where i am most women are atheist and the Christian ladies that are of dating age(small minority) seek men from outside the church

Similar situation here… my state's Christian population is about 25%, and the Protestant women here sleep around, drink heavily, and often date outside the church. I recently converted to Catholicism, so I haven't gotten to know any Catholic women.

>I feel as though my chances of attaining a Christian wife stand better overseas. Have any of you come to similar thoughts or conclusions?

I've thought about it, but I dunno. I'd really like to find a decent woman in my area and make it work.

>>767324

> rather than just write them off as a loss because they’re Aussie Christian women, try and get to know them.

I'll keep an eye out but its been a terrible run so far.

>>767329

>I'd really like to find a decent woman in my area and make it work.

Thats my only gripe with overseas women. It would be hard, especially if they are super family orientated, chances are she is not going to want to part with her family and move to your country so compromises have to be made.

>>767342

>chances are she is not going to want to part with her family and move to your country so compromises have to be made

That's very true. While I do want a woman who's highly family-oriented, that would obviously be a double-edged sword if they live overseas with their family, and I'm not going to pay for them to come here too. In my case, I'm probably better off just biding my time and, if all else fails, converting a secular girl who doesn't have baggage.

>>767342

>I'll keep an eye out but its been a terrible run so far

I had a terrible run for 7 years of searching, but I finally found the right one. Don’t give up.

>>767375

Huh. I managed.

A defeatist attitude will only make you suicidal.

>>767375

Ok, so perish then.

What? Too dramatic? Your bloodline doesn't think so.

I've been thinking about Hosea and Gomer. Sometimes I worry we are too uncharitable or unloving. It's not a reason to marry a whore, but its cause for reflection.

>>767599

Why do you doubt the Lord's promises?

>>768407

What's unethical about protecting your identity?

>>768506

I don't think it is. People use nicknamed all the time. Dating sites (especially anything under the match.com umbrella) take a lot of information from you and likely sell it. I don't have all the facts atm but they definitely store it. I would use as little real information on a dating site as possible and just reveal your name and stuff privately through email or something.

If someone is interested in you just tell her you would rather talk off the site. This is a good step forward anyway

>>767777

Do you really think men who end up single at 40 did everything right in order to find a wife?

No, they're just clueless boomers that didn't do what was necessary to find a spouse, or who listened to jewish lies during their youth.

if i pray for a gf, will i get it? i don't think it'd be very nice of me to only talk to god when i need something so i don't think i should but if not what do i do?

>>768854

Instead of praying for a gf, pray to God that he helps you improve yourself (ie help you work out, help you with your speech skills, helps you study, etc) so that a woman will find you and thank God she has you in her life.

>>768854

God is not Santa Claus, anon. Don’t pray for things you want.

>>769034

i know, that's why i thought it'd be wrong. but it feels like i've exhausted all my other options, you know? i'm currently going to the gym, working on fixing my sleep schedule, learning piano, etc and have been doing so for about a year. the fact that i havent found a partner yet is very discouraging

>>769044 (checked)

All in good time friend. You have to remember God works on His time not ours. Just focus on yourself and a woman will find you. Heck piano is a great instrument to learn. You'd be amazed how many women love the piano.

Help me guys

I think I'm going to ask this girl out

Is it weird to ask a girl out of you've only ever talked with her for like 30 combined minutes before? She knows my name and basic details about me (more than I had expected) and she's a qt Christian prolifer. I just need some confidence because I'm a 21yo doomer and I've never been on a date before or asked a girl out. I don't want to die alone. Thanks

>>769385

Going off of what >>769391 said. You just gotta sack up and do it. Worst case scenario, she rejects you and your situation doesn't change. Best case scenario, she says yes and gives you a chance. It's a no lose situation. Rejection sucks, but regret from not asking sucks even more and is harder to get over.

Another bit of advice, ask her to do charity work with you (ie volunteer for a soup kitchen, animal rescue sanctuary, things like that) if you aren't volunteering, start. This will give you a more informal setting you can use to get to know her better.

Try to make her laugh, women love a guy with a sense of humor and wit. If you can get her to laugh at one of your jokes its a good sign.

After you are done and things hit off pretty well, ask her out on a date.

Godspeed, christanon. I'm praying for you and hoping God can help you keep your spaghetti in your pockets.

>>769385

Effin will to power guy. Go up and take point yes?

>>769405

>>769391

Thanks guys, I know I have to do it. Now I'm just wondering how to do it in the least spergy way possible? She smiled at me in hall today so I think I'm gonna do it, even though she was probably just being nice. Do I say 'do you want to go out sometime?' Can I do it over Messenger or should I do it after class? I appreciate the prayers and I'll pray for you too.

I am here to confess to a sin I committed. I deserve nothing less than the hottest pool in the lake of fire for it, and I know I do not deserve the right to even ask for it, but I wish I had the opportunity to go back, to make it right somehow, but I feel it is unforgivable.

>be me

>be 16

>be dating this girl for a while

>every time we talk about sex she is adamantly against it, she wishes to abstain until marriage

>am a naive "free thinker" who creates his own morals

>a fool

>age 17

>one day she gives in

>we have sex for the first time

>in the back of my mind, I realise what I had done

>I just fell before temptation, and deflowered this once pure girl

>deprived her of her innocence, her high place in the eyes of God

I'm 18 now, and I still love her with all of my heart, but I made a mistake, and I feel like shit all the time for it. We have sex regularly now, but I wonder if we should stop having sex out of wedlock, or if there's even a point to it now that the deed is done.

Sorry for the blogpost, I figured it was relevant to the discussion.

>>769707

I don't understand. Why would you think it's okay to continue?

>>769710

The virginity thing is all screwed now. I am unsure now, but I assume that sex outside of wedlock is a sin, correct?

>>769711

Yes, a pretty serious one. Virginity is important for sure, but you can be forgiven if you're repentant. It's not the end of the world. You're risking your soul and that of your girlfriend's by continuing this grave sin

>1 Cor 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind

>>769772

They exist, but they tend to crumple under temptation.

>>769716

I actually brought up the question yesterday after we had sex

It's not going well for the relationship, but I feel a little better for having told her that this was sin and that we needed to stop.

She is not very happy. She is angry that she basically did a 180 in her beliefs so that we could do this, and now here I am advocating for the thing she preached, too little, too late.

>>770211

On another note, I'm a piece of shit and I want to die at the moment. Every time I try to do something right I only end up hurting people that are close to me. They all act as if I'm purposely being an asshole when all I've ever done was try to help.

Why is it that despite being a newfag to this board, that I can tell that /Christians/ are lonely anons no matter what?

>>770211

>>770213

You are made in the image of God. To hate yourself is to hate him. Stop doing that right now.

Marry the girl or don't. Start trying to figure out if this is the woman you are going to be with forever, the woman whom you will have children with.

Christian dating is to get towards marriage. It's not to winnie the pooh around for 5-6 years. I married my wife after 7 months and it was the best decision of my life. You are only doing damage to yourself and this girl by not getting straight to the point. You going to marry her? Or move on?

>>770211

>She is not very happy. She is angry that she basically did a 180 in her beliefs so that we could do this, and now here I am advocating for the thing she preached

I'm not surprised. While it's the right thing to do, be careful going cold turkey on the sex; if you can't get her to see the value of chastity again, then she may become disgruntled and look to other men for sex. Obviously. none of us here know her like you do, so use your best judgement.

>>770705

>I nearly wept tonight. Something I haven’t done in years.

It's good to cry. Jesus himself wept.

Luke 19:41-44

And when he drew near and saw the city, he wept over it, saying, “Would that you, even you, had known on this day the things that make for peace! But now they are hidden from your eyes. For the days will come upon you, when your enemies will set up a barricade around you and surround you and hem you in on every side and tear you down to the ground, you and your children within you. And they will not leave one stone upon another in you, because you did not know the time of your visitation.”

>>771050

>Even though it was just her pictures from Instagram. She has like +800 followers

Run, do not walk, away.

I got so close to asking her out lads. We were walking and I asked her what she was doing and she said she was going to a birthday party, and she asked me and I said I'd just be doing homework and chilling, and then our paths separated. I just couldn't muster the strength to ask her to lunch because I'm a beta male. Pray for me to have courage. Thanks.

>>769512

Try to slide it into a conversation somehow so it's not as jarring or awkward. Face to face is usually better, but if the girl likes you and you have a good rapport with her you can do it over messenger without worrying too much. Don't ask "do you want to go out", but think of a date that you'd like to go on with her and see if she'd like to join you. Kinda like "we should do ____ sometime". Most importantly, just realize that it's not the end of the world if you get rejected, and try to stay relaxed and have fun with it. Good luck man!

Race mix instead white man, don't be a racist genocidal Nazi.

>>771339

I am not a supporter of "crossing the streams"; but: if you cannot find a good Christian woman of your own ethnic group or groups close to ours, well, I'd say it's better to have a non-European wife than to burn with lust if you haven't got another vocation.

Even if that is a very difficult call in itself, I won't kid myself in thinking we are all the same or other anti-Christian idea like that.

>>771339

>>>/leftpol/

>>>/reddit/

>>771344

>I'd say it's better to have a non-European wife

This, my wife left me and I married someone 30 years younger than me. Lmaoing at these zoomers who laugh at us boomers while getting no game

guys

i dont think ive ever loved a woman as much as i love this particular girl in my class and last week i found out she likes someone else and life has been an existential nightmare ever since

what do

>>771463

Well does that mean she doesn't like you at all? Have you talked to her?

>>771463

Don't worry about it,you'll graduate hs soon

>>771463

Listen to Johny Cash, it helped me. Especially the "Solitary Man"

>>771470

yeah, i pretty explicitly said i liked her at some point and played it off as a joke (we're pretty friendly). she told me she liked someone i knew, dunno who

>>771463

If it is out of your control, why worry about it?

Take care of the things you can control that will make you superior to other choices (fitness, knowledge, virtue), and make peace with everything you cannot change. If she doesn't want you, then forward with other goals. If she does, then move towards that goal.

>>771167

Isn't it weird to ask a girl out you don't know that well? We've talked a few times and I know basic info about here, but that's it. Asking anyone here with more experience than me.

>>771491

i mean, i kind of was already rejected, since she told me herself she liked someone else, and was being sincere. upside is i've been working out very hard out of rage

>>771499

Dang, that must be hard. I've never worked up the courage to ask a girl out, out of fear of rejection. I guess the best thing you can do is to make yourself better than him but not get too caught up in vanity, always stay focused on Christ and His will for your life.

>>771536

I mean, my now future wife first asked me if I wanted to get lunch sometime. Like the turboautist I am I misinterpreted it completely and over lunch asked if I could make her dinner sometime.

Be there for her like Christ is there for you.

>>771704

And you weren't good friends already? I'm sometimes insecure even in asking male friends to hang out so it's hard for me to do this.

>>771699

Thanks m8, I think I can do this

How autistic is it to ask my mom for advice on asking a girl out? She could give me date ideas. A lot of dating tips don't really work for Christians if we aren't just looking to sleep together.

What do after rejection?

>>773958

I've never even gotten that far. I can't work up the courage to ask her because I'm an insecure beta faggot. I wish I could help you brother.

>>769032

>Doing so feels like I'd be shirking my vigil or defending into escapist fantasy.

I don't understand that sentence.

Am I a hypocrite? I've known that a few women loved me or had feelings for me, but I never reciprocated. Now I love somebody and she doesn't love me back. It pains me, and I suppose it pained others too.

>>773958

Pray and improve yourself