GENERAL EXPECTATIONS AND WHAT TO WRITE
>What can I expect?
This varies on population density, as larger towns will have more "low quality" suitors and rural areas will have fewer, higher quality yet distant ones.
>What about pictures
Post pics from your social media to make you easy to identify if you're gonna be a cheap skate. Make sure the pictures show you at your best and give glory to God. If you don't have social media get your family/friends to take or scan in pictures of you in your Sunday best and business casual, nerd.
Introduction
Start with your full name and stick to facts (age, weight, height) and hobbies. List and label yourself as an "ultra-traditional your denomination" of however many years.
What You're Looking For
The following are the ideals one should aspire to in themselves and their mate, the expectation is that you look for a person who has the same shortcomings you do. Feel free to copy and paste this to your dating profile as needed.
>No Degeneracy
Illicit drug and alcohol abuse are hedonist. No drinking is best, but open to taste. Minimal secular media consumption limits the ability of the devil to work against your life. KIK/SNAPCHAT/SELFIES ARE INDICATORS OF SOLIPSISM, A HUGE RED FLAG.
>No body modifications
Tattoos, hair color changes and piercings are signs of self doubt, as the person doesn't believe that they are interesting enough on their own as representatives of God.
>Sexual Responsibility and Family Mindset
You want children and desire a traditionally Christian household. State that you don't want sex before marriage. No sex until marriage respects not just to your partner but to yourself. No fapping either.
>Sexual Roles
-Men should have a Sunday best for church (blazer, shirt, tie, slacks, and dress shoes), business and/or casual in general, and be assertive in regards to considering themselves, their woman, and the people important to each other.
-Women should enjoy wearing dresses and skirts in church and in public, use modest amounts of makeup and jewelry (if any), delight in submission, and earn respect of themselves from others.
>Misc Demographics
Recommended height up to +/- 6in or 15cm, aged +/- 5 years from each other. To taste.
Similar body types, gym/church attendance rates, intellectual pursuits, income levels, race, etc.
"OPPOSITES ATTRACT" IS A LIE
https://web.archive.org/web/20180724181848/https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science/science-news/12170295/Relationships-opposites-do-not-attract-scientists-prove.html
FAQ
>What will people think?
Don't worry about it. Care about your goal of embarking on a proper Christian journey of marriage with a mate you will see as your peer.
>I can't find my denom, what do?
As long as you both believe the Nicene Creed and the Chalcedonian Definition, personal, doctrinal, and familial tastes and compromises apply.
>First date?
Coffee shop. Low investment opportunity to see if the truth lives up to the small talk.
>Fission Mailed, what do?
If you don't make a lasting connection in 3 months of honest effort, take a break, continue to improve yourself in Christ, then try again when you're further along.
>Why are girls so hard to find?
Instead of focusing on the woman, focus on making yourself the kind of man that your ideal woman wants. Stop hiding your cowardice and self hatred as inability on your part or impossibility on her part.
>What's your personal experience?
There are tons of lovely christian girls 18-25 on these sites. I was starting to burn out because I was in my late 20's and all the christmas cake on the site were either divorced, had kids out of wedlock, hit the wall, desperate, etc. If you are younger should have much more success than I did if you're just as devout. I got the six month plan, got burned out 2 months in, met a nice girl who was 3 hours away, then managed to find my waifu right before the 3 month mark, and wasted the other 3 months I paid for. I am certain that my personal adherance to all of the above mentioned was essential to my success but your mileage may vary.
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