>>671478
You have an odd mind, but it is good you're thinking of how you can best serve God. I doubt he wants you to hate your wife.
Ephesians 5:25 is pretty clear
>Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
If that love must be our modern conception of romantic love I don't think so, but you would have to consider her as a part of yourself and dedicate yourself to her entirely. If I was going to do that just to procreate I would find a woman I respected who wanted children as well so we're both on the same page.