>>588033
>I am more concerned with how God would define 'self harm' than you.
God defined reality, reality shows us masturbation is harmful. The bible doesn't say arscenic is toxic, but we figured out it is.
Masturbation literally means self-abuse or self-deception and it destroys valuable seed, it's a misuse of our sexual function, making it self-directed, selfish, and anti-life.
>Was he punished because he 'spilled his seed' or because he failed to give his brothers widow a child?
Both.
Does the bible ever condone or promote masturbation? No. It condemns lust, even thinking lustful thoughts, and it gives us the instance of Onan who dumped his seed on the ground like a fool and was reprimanded for it. Also sex, is between man and a woman, not between man and himself. So the safest conclusion is to abstain.
>you're getting rude
what?