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3bac06 No.554198

Hi /Christian. I'm an orthodox convert for the past two years. A pregnant girl began going to our church six months ago, she is married and has now had the baby. Her husband is not orthodox and she is a new convert. She is a nice girl who seems genuine and smart. I met her husband once when I ran into her at the store.

Well I live in an apartment complex and one day im going to my apartment and I see her husband leaving my neighbors's house. A few days later I see him come in and then clearly hear him and my neighbor being intimate. A couple more days go by and he shows up with flowers for my neighbor and my neighbor tells me about her new boyfriend. They met on Tinder.

Help. I do not think the wife knows. do I tell her? Should I tell our priest? I am not sure. From what I know he is "looking for work" and she is working to support their entire family. I feel so bad. She goes to all of our social events and brings the baby, she volunteers her time and is also night studying to become a nurse. I don't really know her closely

f97459 No.554199

I'm just spitballing here, but if her husband gets intimate with your neighbor in the open like that, maybe you should record it, then show that girl?


060509 No.554201

Maybe make sure your neighbor knows. It's likely she doesn't know he is married, and from there she could decide what to do.


3bac06 No.554202

>>554199

I could just hear then because our bedrooms share a wall. I just don't want to ruin her marriage or make her feel hurt or humiliated


f97459 No.554203

>>554202

Her marriage is already ruined. Adultery is such a grave act that even our Lord considers that it justifies a divorce. Now, it's only a matter of when and how it'll blow up in her face, but the sooner, the better, or else the explosion will be greater. If you're scared to just come up to a fellow parishioner to tell them "oh yeah, and you're being cheated on by your husband too," tell your priest about this and ask for help on how to handle the situation (and maybe he'll even handle it himself, since being pastoral is part of his job description).

And of course, don't forget to tell your neighbor as well - no one wants to be with an adulterer.


148f56 No.554209

>>554202

>ll. I just don't want to ruin her marriage

It's already ruined, tell her now. My Mom found my biological father cheating on her after 15 years of marriage. It's better that she learns that this guy is a cheating piece of shit now then later on in life.


4c2237 No.554223

>>554202

The parties involved are going to find out sooner or later anyways. As a fellow member of the Church and as one of Christ's faithful, you owe it to her to tell her what you've seen.


e85e2b No.555348

Tell her anon. How despicable to impregnate your wife and then sleep with other women. Also, this would be the only thing that gives her the right to divorce him. She'll probably hope she never knew. Still, she should know. Make sure you have hard evidence or catch them red-handed. Or else she might not believe you. Happened to a brother of mine.


12a4ed No.555351

Get evidence and then talk to her privately you will have to have something clear to show her




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