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>>545481

Nothing except move out of her house.

Forgive her, though it will be hard. Have pity on her, because her heart has been so darkened by wrath and hatred that she could say such a thing.

Pray that God will have mercy on her.

>>545481

It's not you, it's her. You're just on the receiving end of her problems. Try to look for solutions through the church or get out of the house.

Would be better to move from the house. If you cannot afford to live on your own, live with your relatives or friends.

But know not to hold hatred against her, for our Father in Heaven loves even filthiest and most degenerate sinners and we should be perfect as He is. Forgive her, but move and leave her if you can.

This >>545482

Flee from her ASAP. Don't rebel, just flee.

>>545481

whats a cover letter?

>>545523

a sort of resume

>>545481

>she said that over a cover letter

>>545523

Basically a letter explaining why you want a job.

>>545523

get a job, sluggard

>>545482

this and

>>545492

this

Forgive her, but do not tell her yet because she isn't sorry - it will just piss her off probably. But you need to move out and get away from her. Cut her off entirely and stop talking to her.

Then when she realizes she actually loves you, as she is your mother, she will be sorry. This may be years down the line. Then, as you forgave her a long time ago, you can then tell her that you forgive her.

But never move back in with her - even if you do patch things up.

Honor her the extra mile

>>545578

im not anglophone so I didnt know you meanie!

>>545483

You think this is a joke?

>>545481

Abuse is such a terrible term. You have to give details. For some people, abuse = mean words. We can't help you until you provide details.

>>545659

Did your mother attempted to murder you?

Did she attempt to starve you?

>>545645

your OP is vague and sounds like a bad joke, yes.

sage

>>545618

That's not what that means. We aren't obligated to serve those who torment us.

>>545492

This.

Disappointed it took three posts for someone to say it.

>>545492

I cant forgive her. She abused me for years

>>545694

You little cunt

>>545481

How old are you?

You should be stronger than your mother, if so just grab her hand the next time she tries to slap you.

>>546004

You dont understand do you? She lashes out at me by slashing at me with a knife. You think I could just beat her up like that?

>>546012

>She lashes out at me by slashing at me with a knife

Forgive her.

You will lose the chance of vengeance at earth, but will be reward in heaven.

(Still try to move out)

>>546012

Call the cops and in the mean time use use a long weapon or just restrain her in her sleep.

>>546013

>>546017

She is normal now. I might try to get her some psychiatric treatment. I want to avoid dealing with lawyers atm.

Also, I got a girl pregnant and my gf is now asking me what to do with child

>>546063

Yeah…I am a mess

Move out and cut off all contact. Never speak to her again.

>>545824

As a Christian, you must. We are called to see Christ in everyone, even those who hate, revile, and abuse us like animals. We must love and forgive our enemies.

>>546435

And to add to this, I'm not saying that this forgiveness must entail you allowing yourself to continue to be abused or forcing yourself to live with her. You must also consider your own safety and wellbeing, and I think moving out would be a good idea.