/abdl/ - Adult Baby - Diaper Lover★

>>90165 (OP)

Yes I totally get what you're saying. Just to be able to give up all adult responsibilities and just be diapered 24/7 completely relying on a caregiver for everything whether you want it or not. Not sure if I could actually be regressed 24/7 but the idea of it sure does sound like fun and if given the option I'd probably take it. The real world sucks I just want to go back and not have any adult problems or worries. Never would happen but like you said the idea sounds great and the peak of regression. Nothing you could do could make you feel more little. Going through a tough time atm and wish I could just be diapered and cared for all the time.

Absolutely i love the idea of having a mommy that would take care of all of my decisions, what to wear, what i eat,when i go out. It all sounds amazing and to be diapered the whole time would be heaven

Yeah, that would be pretty damn nice. I wish I could be a little boy forever, so having it actually happen would be a dream come true. I've come to believe that no adult is actually happy, they just cope with reality as best as they can, be it drinking, buying stuff, or starting a family to distract themselves from how unhappy they are. I'm not sure if full-time diapers would be as fun in reality as the fantasy, but I would gladly do it was a way to be a little kid 24/7. I think I would rather be kept in pull-ups or training pants, so I could still go on the potty, but if I have an accident, then that's ok too.

>Has anyone else felt sometimes that it would be great if you could "give up your adulthood"? Like you could just give up control to someone else and let them be in charge again?

You're on a board dedicated to the adult baby diaper lover fetish, the fuck dya think?

>>90179

Sure, I know. It's sorta weird though as I think I like some of the more forceful parts of this interest you know? Also, if anyone has any good stories or content to share about "permanent" status loss type stuff please! That would be awesome!

Yes, but only if I also have the ability to stay permanently aroused.

As soon as I cum, I know I'm going to want to go out and drink beers with my friends, etc.

>>90224

This is true af. Post nut syndrome is so weird lol

No, if I could have it on demand that would be cool but I have too many hobbies I enjoy and my arousal comes second

>>90170

>I've come to believe that no adult is actually happy, they just cope with reality as best as they can,

Well I agree with coping with reality as best as you can but I have trouble thinking every adult is unhappy.

Some people got it a lot better than pthers.

Still I've asked this regression question on non abdl boards before. By asking people if given a chance to change their life would they if given a chance wanna regress to early childhood, potentially being young enough that you'd need diapers for a bit, skip ahead to old age but be very well off money wise, or change nothing. I see more people saying yeah they'd love to revisit childhood again without a 2nd thought. But I've seen plenty of no ty responses as well. (People who had shitty childhood for example, but even then it varies)

No one wants to be in a future setting no matter how well they'd be.

Granted the boards I've asked this to are on gaming boards so I wonder if that is a fair example of the internet's pop.

For me, this is the story closest to my ultimate fantasy…soooooo hoooootttt…….

https://abdlstoryforum.info/forum/stories/board-member-stories/5716-kate-and-bobbi-chapters-1-6

I wouldn't mind it if it came with some mind control/mental regression (doesn't have to be a lot, but at least some) to suppress the parts of me that want to take responsibility. I suppose I'm fussy like that, but with the right conditioning/mind control, it could be all right.

I'd love to be mommy's little girl forever, even if when I try to do big girl things I'd fall on my butt and need a good cry

This is truly my dream, and I will live it one day. I am aware that there are responsibilities I need to maintain until I find someone who WANTS to take them from me. I do not want to be a burden. But I know there are people out there who want and enjoy people being dependent on them and I will one day find the person who is seeking that ultimate dependence. To be truly needed.

Mommy? Daddy? Where are you? ;.; I'm tired of pretending to be a grown-up…

there was a news story i read a while ago about a middle aged woman in (i think?) Michigan who became the adopted daughter of someone five years younger than her and acted like a little kid to make up for lost time

it was really cute but i can't find it anywhere

>>90165 (OP)

There is a heavy burden of responsibility on us all. It could be to our parents, our society, or some other point of authority and/or dependence. Need an example for that second one? Your spouse or kids will do just fine. The point is: Especially in the USA, previous generations have passed on their burdens from one to the next, and in most of our lifetimes the price of that burden is going to have to be paid. There is no avoiding it any longer. The burdens of the past and the responsibilities of the future are in our hands. This is an ever-constant reminder that does not cease. With everything weighing down upon us this way and with careers amounting to what seems like pointless endeavors: people have given up hope in a bright future. It makes a great deal of sense to retreat to the past when you feel like you have no future. Its our defense against the psychological pain of reality. It feels great, to me, because it feels safe. While my hope in a bright future is not present, at least I can rely on the dreams of the past. Thank you for sharing your feelings on this. I can very much relate to them.

Not really. After a while, I'd get insanely bored and I would just want access to all my hobbies and shit again. Here's a thought exercise for you, though.

Imagine two dimensions. In one, you're your normal adult self. In the other, you're cared for by your (mostly) ideal caregiver, kept in diapers, but you have absolutely no decision-making authority over your own life and you never will. Your caregiver's word is law and they're not gonna let you do what you want 100% of the time and any adult stuff (mature movies and video game, booze, drugs, most of the websites you're on right now I imagine, etc.) is all right out. Let's say for the sake of argument pretty much all of your kinks and desires when it comes to the ABDL shit would be hit in this dimension in exchange for 100% of your freedom and control of your own life and a good deal of your pleasures and hobbies.

You can press a button that'll switch you into the dimension with your caregiver. You'll go into the caregiver dimension and the you that was there will take your place in this dimension (assume for the sake of argument they will not suffer massive shock and will function as an adult as well as you currently do). The only way for you to leave the caregiver dimension is for the other you to hit the button again and willingly go back. So, three questions.

1) Do you press the button?

2) On average, how long do you think it takes the other you to press the button and take your place?

3) After they do, how long does it take you to press the button again?

>>93722

1) Hell yes!

2) I'd communicate with the other me via crayon messages and try to convince them to never press the button. On average though, before that happens, I doubt it would be often at all. Imagine never having freedom to choose anything and then being given that freedom? I doubt they'd ever want to go back.

3) Immediately, because fuck this gay dimension.

>>93722

1. have diapers, chastity and cuckolding fetish

2. the other you finally gets to fuck someone (your wife)

3. they never press the button

4. you fall asleep every night for the rest of your life, locked in chastity and diapers, in a crib listening to your new "daddy" fuck "mommy"

It'd be fun for a while but I don't think I could press the button myself

Is it too much to ask for both? Is it too much to ask for a loving mommy who will diaper and baby me for a little while every day, maybe take a whole day a week, putting me into my mittened sleeper and giving me plushies to hug while I watch cartoons, but she accepts that I have adult interests and an adult life?

If I could actually trust her not to fuck me over in one way or another, I would have no problemletting her make decisions for me.

Is it too much to ask to be actually cared for?

>>90165 (OP)

I have thought about this a lot. I feel very similar to what you said appeals to you. I want a partner who knows more than me and let's me know that. They choose most things because we both know that they are right most of the time. I'm often so shy and indecisive in my daily life that it negatively affects me. That's why I wish I had a partner that was confident and sure about their decisions. Whether that means they are choosing the most basic things for me like clothing and food and stuff is inconsequential, as long as the big decisions are made by them.

The one thing that puts me off from it is the controlling aspect. There are days when I'm moody and looking to get away from people. There are other days where I'm outgoing and want to be social. I hope that wouldn't be hindered by a partner who would basically force me into doing something different.