>>71803 (OP)
I don't understand the scorn that gets thrown at cloth-backed disposable diapers by the ABDL community. I'd have to guess it would have something to do with the older generation being brought up in plastic backed diapers. Just like the Baby Boomer ABDLs that only want the old school folding cloth (pin-on) diapers and rubber pants.
I've lived with incontinence since childhood, I can tell you cloth-backed disposables are far more comfortable (in most cases) if you have to wear diapers day and night. The best in my opinion are Abena X-Plus Air-Plus, and Seni Quatro. I still wear plastic backed Drycare 24/7s, but only to bed or if I'm going to be home all day.
Cloth-backed diapers are great for reducing chaffing, avoiding rashes, being quite under cloths, and having a softer feel - compared to plastic. They do tend to let smell through pretty easily, so you'd need to change shortly after having an accident (the oder neutralizers work well for about an hour max).
As far as the weak tapes and leaking side wings: sounds more like a cheap diaper problem. I had the same issue with store brand, and "institutional" diapers (i.e. adult diapers used in US hospitals and nursing homes).
I realize that I'm in the minority here on the ABDL side, but as long as adult diapers are marketed for medically incontinent users, the cloth diapers are going to be in demand over plastic ones.