/abdl/ - Adult Baby - Diaper Lover

>>62555

Same anon here with a minor update.

So after that first night I proceeded to go the next night with no overnight wetting of any sort. Just the usual stuff as I diapered up and played games before sleep. Wake up to a minor full bladder which I proceeded to quickly empty, kicked around the house a bit and eventually filled that one before changing out. Since I’ve got the next few days off I figured I’ll do a brief 24/3 stint. Well last night I had a “it’s my weekend so I’m gonna kick back some drinks” night, drank a good deal of spiked tea and played online games with friends. Managed to push a Simple Ultra to its limits doing that, drunkenly changed into (but surprisingly very nicely done) another and passed out. Now I imagine the alcohol had everything to do with it but I awoke to an absolutely drenched diaper this morning (no leaks thank god). This was a very interesting experience as I have no memory of doing anything after sleeping and I’m not one to black out while drinking so I’m guessing it was a genuine “accident”. I haven’t ever wet the bed drinking in my life and haven’t wet the bed since I was like 10-11. No clue what’s happening tbh.

Keep in mind I’m not attempting to untrain or even just bedwet untrain but my body seems to be (under proper circumstances) just registering my diapered state as “okay” to wet. I’m sure that this 2 week diapered nights trial period won’t have any lasting effects as it’s too short a period for something so drastic as becoming a bedwetter to take hold but it was still an interesting occurrence I wanted to share with you all! :)

It's been a week and a day since I started 24/7. I have been scared of wearing to work and would just change right into a diaper when I got home but a week ago I was feeling really nervous about having an accident at work. So I started wearing my diapers to work too and it has been interesting. I can't make it through a whole workday on one diaper or if I do I don't really drink enough, so I have to change and that is scary. That said, I also leaked a little yesterday so…that's worse. I wanted to talk about my diapers and how nice it feels to finally go 24/7. But I am not sure about pooping in them it is gross and I hate having to clean it up but I'm getting used to it.

>>62873

If your worried, i'd just go for old fashioned tip of wearing or atleast bringing to work some plastic pants

>>62565

I'm in the same boat. I've gone like 5 days diapered 24hrs, and while it was amazing and I wish I could do it all of the time I won't due to the changes, leaks, bulkiness, etc. I've never really enjoyed the humiliation aspect.

>>62565

When you get to the point of doing 24/7, it's usually not about the fetish but the lifestyle. It has almost nothing to do with enjoying wetting or messing, but everything to do with becoming diaper dependent. That isn't to say that you can't be 24/7 for the enjoyment, but most people that become 24/7 are in it for how it makes their lives and their body feel better, rather than as a sexual expression. Every 24/7 I did some caretaking for, never was in it for the sexual fetish, and those I cared for that were fully in it for the fetish would never dare going 24/7.

>>62567

This can work, sure. But for some people it could kill their sleep schedules.

>>62873

It's only been a week. You'll get use to all of it soon enough if you do it enough. I'm sure you can do it! Nothing to be scared about.

>>1169

Personally no. Dark side it is.

>>62911

While I definitely have a strong interest in it sexually, I’m also very interested in at least trying the lifestyle aspect of it one day when my living situation allows for it. It just seems like it would be an interesting experience since it would be so different to the norm I’m personally used to. I’ve done a bit of messing of underwear and I really like the sensation, even from a non-fetish perspective

I am in situation, where i can commit 24/7 untraining, but i think it may easily ruin my effort for good work, relationships, it would be strange for broader family. I cant even think how to work with diapers in lets say office, everybody must sooner or later know. And i think i would become quite passive about my life. Sry just had to share this.

>>62984

That's fine. You should try it if it becomes something you want to do.

>>63077

It could ruin parts of your life. Sometimes it may just make it harder to live in. What would you be happier with in 5-10 years? Would complete dependency on diapers be one of them?

>>63234

I’ll definitely post ITT if I ever decide to try it out

>>63675

I'm no use here. Plus I'm sure there is differences between what happens in Australia than burgerland.

But general advice is never make false statements, especially when it goes on your record. Leave your reason for being incontinent out sure, but never lie.

>>63675

i have no experience with anything like this, so take my comments very lightly. if i were in your position, i would mention the leaks as the start of it, then mention your preference to wearing diapers to deal with the issue. you could mention your increasing reliance/dependency on diapers due to this, but im not sure how a doctor would react. going through all those tests seems silly to me (and maybe even a waste of the doctors time).

>>45893

I don't know who you are

and I don't want to be overdramatic but I'd die for you

>>63675

I've read a few posts about people going to the doctors, check this one out while diapered. Not sure if most of them were actually incontinent, but this might help.

https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=8851

How much of a stash should I build up before going for the gold?

Who here has actually become legitimately incontinent from 24/7? How has it affected your life? Is it everything you hoped? Would you do again? What would you say to the killjoys who say this is self harm?

Asking as someone on the fence.

So I did a thing.

I’ve just started a new job in a new city where I know nobody (one friend kinda nearby but he isn’t going to be around enough to matter). I decided right before going into work today to diaper up in a Simple Ultra (packed an extra just in case SOMEHOW I go through this one) right before having to catch my bus to leave myself no time to actually change out. Jumped on the bus and I’m currently riding into work. Looks like I’m spending the day diapered.

>>63956

No problem. Definitely interested. One question I have is how you manage to keep the odor from being too strong. Likewise, when changing messy diapers, what's your routine? I always feel gross, but I suppose over time it wouldn't be as bad.

>>63675

I have no experience with this, but I have some ideas.

First of all, how long has it been since you saw your doctor, and have you ever given any indications of continence issues before? I feel like if a doctor hears that all of the sudden a patient is totally incontinent when 12 months earlier they were totally fine that they might get a bit concerned and look for some kind of underlying cause/look into it more, and I feel like that if/when they dont find any medical reason for it happening so suddenly, that they might kind of question what is going on. I dont think they would assume it is intentional, but when someone looks into something, the chances of them finding something, even if they are not looking for it, increase. I would tell them that you have had continence problems for a while, and that it has just gotten steadily worse or something, and you just havnt found it necessary to mention it up until now.

>>63955

As a follow up I figured I’d post here. So today’s diapering was decided by a coin flip (call it right gotta diaper).

Getting home today I decided to flip again to try and free myself, calling right gotta wear tomorrow. I got it right. Double or nothing and decided to wager the weekend or free myself. Still called it right. Double or nothing and I’m free or I spend all of next week… still called it right. One final wager for the whole month or I can be free. Well you guys can guess the pattern…. still called it right. I DO have enough diaps to get me through to Friday and I’d placed an order for a case of BetterDry’s thinking 60 would last me a while. Looks like I’ll be needing to reorder next month. This should be an interesting month…

>>64017

Apparently I didn’t learn quite enough of a lesson because I wanted to try one last time to reduce my own time. Well two more wins(losses) later I’m looking at 4 months… I honestly don’t know if I’ll be able to make it that long without seeing any changes in my bladder but with me staring 4 months of 24/7 down the barrel I guess I can afford to do monthly updates. ._.

I honestly can’t beliebe the number of times I’d called that coin right and I honestly was worried that another doubling down would do some serious damage to my otherwise spotless potty training O_o

>>64147

>actually a double sided coin

>>64149

You would think I gave myself one more out opportunity before leaving for work. I managed a loss, a win which being fair I agreed to shave off 2 months since the odds were massively tilted in my favor at this point and shaving everything felt like cheating and then yet another loss (at that point I was counting calling it right as a straight loss). Simple math will tell you all I need to say about how I’m apparently looking at a year in diapers. I don’t know if I’ll be able to commit that long tbh but I’m going to go at least 6 months and see where my life is at that point. I’m only really onlynplanning to use for #1 and as much as I’d like to say I can manage not doing any serious damage to myself, I already have a habit of wetting at the first sign when I’m diapered. I’ve always been a skeptic about the written experiences of losing your training from extended long time use, I suppose this will be a good crash course for myself at this point for better or worse.

>>64150

You can literally just keep doubling down until you win and don't wear at all.

I'll believe it when I start seeing monthly updates from you. No way in hell is anyone committing to six months in diapers just because, oh nooo, what are the odds that this would happen, guess I'm stuck spending hundreds of dollars on diapers and potentially changing my entire life because of coin tossing lol

Go roleplay somewhere else.

>>64155

*shrug* believe what you will I’ve been meaning to try a long term extended wear in diapers for years. Now that I’m on my own I just needed a push.

>>64155

Gonna side with this guy. I'm okay with people talking about their plans to get started going 24/7 and I'm generally okay with dumb dare type stuff (although typically separate).

But it seems very much like you're just making this up as you go along (called it right too many times in a row, no real rhyme or reason to your "rules", etc.). If you want to go 24/7, great! If you want to go 24/7 but feel like you "had" to do it, do one of those faproulettes or something where there's at least some structure.

>>64236

Not really sure how else I’ll be able to prove myself currently so I guess we’ll all just have to wait for next month. This is honestly a case of me having wanted to do 24/7 for years now but needing some sort of reinforcer to give me that first push. Who knows how things will go 1,2,3 months down the road but currently the plan is a 6-month “trial” with an additional 6-months potentially racked on.

As I previously said as well, I’ve always been a bit of a skeptic and wonder how much of the actual loss of control is fapfiction so seeing will be believing in my case. 6 months SHOULD ave more than enough to give me a feel for if it’s real or not. If it is I can always just retrain myself if need be.

>>64278

You do know that muscles atrophying from lack of use is real scientific fact right? You can look this up if you want.

This is why doctors tell you that if you have control issues you shouldn't go to the bathroom as soon as you feel the urge, because you'll make the muscles degrade and your control even worse. It's also the entire reason kegel exercises exist. You know, those things where you exercise the muscles as much as you can to strengthen them?

I'm all on board for doubting stories that are like, oh I became completely incontinent in a couple of weeks, or, suddenly I'm a bedwetter after wearing diapers to bed for a few days, but it's kind of dumb to just straight up not believe the entire concept as a whole.

Ever see people in wheelchairs with tiny legs? Muscle atrophy bro.

>>64280

There's like 2% chance he called that many in row. Don't waste your time on the guy writing "fapfiction" about himself lol

>>64280

Well aware of atrophy. That’s not the part I’m a skeptic on. The skepticism is more on the “OMG I’m unable to ever retrain. Things are uncontrollable forever.” part. It’s great in stories but I’ve seen plenty of conflicting testimonials about this over the years so I’m looking to see which side is telling the truth. If it winds up irreversible I’m prepared to accept that since I’m more than asking it to happen at this point.

>>64281

Well aware of the odds. Also well aware how fapfictiony this whole things sounds. I’ll just have to check in with updates I suppose to prove anything and even then it can all just be dismissed as being made up to fap to. This is precisely why I intend to give this experiment a real effort. Everything you read on the internet is made up as far as anyone knows so the only way to truly be sure is see yourself.

>>64282

Why are you trying to "test" something people use for clear fictional fap material? There's plenty of examples of people in this very thread discussing losing all control and then retraining later (with varying degrees of difficulty). There's a lot of non-realistic things in most stories (the success rate of hypnotism, giantesses, people being kidnapped and willingly becoming babies and everything ends well for everyone, literal magic in many cases, losing complete control in a matter of days, chemicals that regress people mentally and/or physically).

This thread is very accepting of people wanting to try out going 24/7 (for comfort reasons, for fun, to "experiment") it's the weird guise of coin flipping that is off putting (and how that also doesn't connect to the "goal")

>>64304

If I just drop the initial trigger and say I’ve still decided to go 24/7 for a set period of time can we stop making a huff out of it? It was what made me make the first step but after my third consecutive day I can say I’m more than willing to proceed forward, coin or not for a while. My shipment of 60 BetterDry came in today ANYWAY so I’ve got ample stock to last me the next few weeks if nothing more.

>People wanting to wear 24/7

I mean that's some hardcore dedication But don't you get bored? don't you have other fetishes making you want other stuff? don't you fap to vanilla stuff some other times? I mean it's hot when you think of it but when you think of it logically it would get eventually boring so boring that you will abandon diaper porn for a long while. well that is how i see it.

>>64330

Generally the people who wear 24/7 for long periods of time or who never stop, it isn't a strong sexual fetish for them. It's a lifestyle / comfort thing.

So they don't get bored because it's not something that constantly turns them on.

>>64330

If I lived alone, I'd probably start wearing permanently.

I enjoy diapers as a fetish, but I think I enjoy just wearing and using them normally and constantly much more, from the few times I've had the opportunity to try it.

I have no idea what the appeal is, but I love it.

>>64369

>>64341

>Lifestyle

Yeah the lifestyle thing is really weird (The Irony)

. But yeah i kinda don't get the appeal for it if it's not for the sexual stuff

Seeing everyone having so much sucess makes me realize how much I really want this. There is some sexual aspect to it for me, but really I think I'd be happier. I have severe anxiety issues, and I think wearing all the time might actually cut down on it. Just something to plan for once I finally move out.

>>64855

I thought this as well, until I tried it. It increased the anxiety to the point of me not leaving the house anymore. You're better off observing the anxiety through meditation than to use some object. And if you still feel like doing it after that, it can't really do that much harm if you're not socially awkward and willing to give up certain things.

>>64862

The more incontinence "success" stories I read, the clearer it becomes that it's usually mentally unstable people who go for it and follow through. The reason cited most is an avoidance of something, either explicitly or implicitly. Maybe I should talk to a professional to curb my degeneracy because it won't solve the root problem, whatever that may be.

>>64875

Me >>64862 again. It's not a mentally stable thing to do to, to basically make yourself disabled. I would never claim otherwise, that's why I sometimes warn people about it even though I've done it to myself.

>>64877

If you knew that, why then do it in the first place? Was it too unbearable a thought to not follow? Why not seek help instead? When should you second guess your desire in your view? There's too much circle jerking here. Either that or everyone who has followed through on it has experienced it as positive, which I'd find hard to believe considering how impactful it gets in the long run. I already feel kind of trapped thinking about the long term consequences of my carer making me wear diapers every night these days. He says it's good for me to be padded every night. I have to admit that it's pretty comforting and whenever I doubt whether it's a good idea or not, I get comforted by him.

>>64886

When you say you "get comforted" by him, I can't help but read " reinforces your conditioning". Not that there's anything wrong with that if you ultimately want to be conditioned to need diapers despite any doubts you experience, but if disregarding your misgivings wasn't part of the agreement, then you need to step back and do some real self-evaluation. JMHO.

>>64890

I'm going along out of envy of people who manage to follow through and enjoy it. Yes, I'm that competitive. I also said I would, so I am.

Suggested treatment for BIID would include CBT, antidepressants and worst case scenario mutilation. I'd add meditation to that. It gives someone the ability to see thoughts and feelings for what they truly are, which make them easier to deal with. It takes a while to get it. Doing meditation should in theory bring you to the point where it doesn't matter whether you maim yourself or not, which you then logically wouldn't do.

>>64904

LOL, talks down to someone for untraining and says meditation will fix everything, still says he's going to untrain himself just because he's soooo competitive.

Is it fun being a massive hypocrite?

So, I kinda want to track my progress. What would you guys recommend for doing that?

>>64931

Reverse potty chart, obviously.

Get a set of schedule calendars with room for more than one sticker, and start marking off days you went completely padded with smilies and frowns for ones you didn't. Once you start having accidents, switch to stars n stuff.

Have fun with it!

>>64932

That does sound fun. I think I'll do something like that. Aside from regularly posting here.

Sometimes I wonder if I'm crazy for wanting this, but then I realize if I'm cognizant enough to ask this then I'm probably fine. So remember, don't let your dreams be dreams.

>>64931

For fun, the reverse potty chart.

For something more "scientific" (using this lightly since it's far from an actual experiment or anything), you could do something like track the times you wet/mess, the severity (tinkle, flood) and maybe changes over time, if it was conscious, etc. That could be interesting data for yourself.

Granted heavily tracking it could make you more self aware for better or worse.

>>65122

That would certainly be interesting.

>>64341

Not sure that I agree, but I'm definitely biased. Maybe I'm an outlier, but it's a massive sexual fetish for me. Like, diapers are a requirement for any sexual enjoyment, full stop. There are a few other reasons that I enjoy 24/7, but honestly it's just a massive thrill to know that I'm in diapers ALL the time, no matter what. It's kinda like the ultimate form of submission as an AB imo, whether you're doing it just for yourself or if there's a partner involved too, though doing it with a partner makes it way fucking hotter. That thrill hasn't dulled in like, 10 years, so I'm not thinking that it ever will. Comfort, convenience, and the more innocent aspects of little stuff all play a part too, ngl, but they're minor in comparison, plus they feed into the sexual side of things when such times come around. I suppose if they weren't so great I might not be attracted enough to 24/7 and untraining to follow through. They are though, so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I do think your overall statement about it being comfort/lifestyle is right, just that I'd include fetishists under the lifestyle category. You don't do this sort of thing unless you get enough genuine enjoyment out of the day-to-day aspects of being diapered/untrained, sexual or otherwise, to make up for the social cost of being an adult in diapers. It basically has to become a lifestyle that you're willing to put on an equal level or above other important things in your life (work, dating, friends, family, health, etc.) in order to maintain.

>>65501

I would qualify myself as more of a fetishist than anything else (I still get the comfort and whatnot from it but it's mainly a turn on). For myself 24/7 is super appealing but I've historically, been unable to sustain it longer than about a month (either by talking myself out of it, or life getting in the way).

For me a big part is I know eventually I'll have to explain it to people I don't want to (for one reason or another) and because it's very fetishized to me it feels "dirty" or selfish.

>>65501

Fair enough. I think there's probably a decent amount of people out there who do it with the fetish in mind (I know probably 10 or so from other social media), but it definitely seems like a decision that's more likely to be made by people heavily into the roleplay aspects or with BIID. I don't mind though, I'm just happy that there are others out there that I can share with about wearing diapers and learning to need them!

>>65517

You're sounding a lot like I did when I first started in with the on-again, off-again shit. Still happens to me sometimes, where I'll need to take a few days or a week without diapers (Except at night…the bedwetting ship seems to have sailed for good), but it always rebounds back to thick, crinkly padding between my legs. Does the same happen to you, where you always come back to it? Do you feel like your times between 24/7 stints is getting shorter or anything?

And hey, for what it's worth man, doing this is only as dirty or naughty as you want it to be at a given time. To anyone on the outside that you might need to explain it to it's definitely weird and awkward, but it's also just something you, the person that they know and are close to, enjoy. If you make it clear that you put in the effort to minimize exposure to other people and that it otherwise hasn't changed who you are, most good friends/family aren't going to sever ties or look down on you too poorly for it. Obviously I don't know you or your situation, but I just wanted to reinforce that it's completely okay to wear all the time, even if it's primarily for a fetish.

>>65536

Yeah, that's not too far off from me. I've been into this shit for about half my life (so about 13-14 years). So I always come back to it. I've always binge-purged hard but since college it has leveled out more and more (less obsessive and less time between "getting out").

I fantasized about being 24/7 for a long time; it wasn't until about 2 years ago I first tried making it real. In general I've only attempted a few times (first lasting about a week, then two, then recently about a month with the help of an online friend). Stopping for health reasons (got really sick one time and didn't want to add that on the list of things to deal with); and other times getting worried about how a potential significant other might react (being into diapers is one thing, same with being incontinent; but being incontinent by choice without any outside motivation seems like a lot to throw at someone).

Bedwetting is probably the most realistic (since it cuts out many of the concerns like work, etc.). My main issue is whenever I've tried I leak well over half the time (no matter the diaper type). I use plastic coverings to make cleanup easier but still it's a huge hassle. Plastic pants cause me to overheat way too much.

Anyway, now-a-days I've been holding off. I have some other priorities in life to work out, but I've been thinking of using going 24/7 as sort of a reward for certain milestones perhaps.

Plus, I'm sort of like that coinflip guy above where I like the idea of it not being my choice (even though we know it has to be); and get into nonsense like faproulettes and GetDare cringe stuff.

So that's my personal ramble on going and not going 24/7.

>>65536

People who say they're 24/7 and untrained but they also take days off when they're not in the mood can fuck off hey. Learn what words actually mean.

>>65537

Hey man, if it's not for you that's cool too. It'll always be there for you to come back to, there's no rush or anything. Even when you do, you don't need to go the untraining route if it doesn't fit into your life. I'm sketchy on daytime incontinence myself because it definitely makes shit like work or events, where leaks can sometimes be a bitch to handle, way more difficult. Fwiw bedwetting is pretty easy to manage on its own though, so maybe that'd be a good goal for you. Even when staying overnight somewhere, camping, etc. it's really not too hard to discretely diaper up and dispose of it in the morning.

>>65541

Fucking gatekeepers lol. I'm at the point where I go unpadded for maybe a couple weeks total per year, usually in one big chunk. I haven't been out of diapers for 7 months this time around, then 9 months before that, and 6 before that, a year and change before that…if that doesn't qualify as 24/7 to you then you're welcome to ignore me, but I'm not going to stop using the term or posting in this thread lmao.

>>65550

Yeah. I think for the time being I'm happy "trying" again every so often. If it sticks I clearly am enjoying it, and if not, nothing really lost.

As for bedwetting, yeah like I said my main issue is just leaking well over half the time. I love the idea of it, that's just a big mess to deal with on a regular basis.

>>65554

Fuck yeah. You should throw an update in here the next time you end up in diapers. Always nice to hear other people's experiences.

I can understand on the leaking, though half the time is a pretty crazy number to me. Do you wet while on your side or something? Ever think about trying cloth instead?

>>65572

I sometimes wet on my side but typically I have to half-sit up because it still doesn't come natural.

And yeah. I started trying cloth diapers a few months back. I didn't really notice it being any better. I assume plastic pants would help but as said before it always feels so hot in those.

more of this.

Bumping to ask everyone how their progress is going for any new 24/7ers, and if any of the possible ones have made the step yet.

I'm really tempted to go 24/7 but I'm a domme and I'm not sure my sub would like it

>>66355

If you’re the dom why should you care whether the sub likes it or not?

>>66357

because she's my girlfriend and relationship works on consensus

>>66358

The best answer. Dom doesn't mean "controls every aspect of the relationship". It means there's a mutual agreement that sexual encounters will generally be controlled by the dom.

I'd say talk to your gf about it and see what she thinks. A diapered dom is a bit unconventional but not impossible.

>>66359

Yeah in the end everything comes down to communication. Hint to everyone out there looking for a mommy, talk to people and make friends. That's how she met me.

>>66359

In fairness, they also could have just said "I'm not sure my gf would like it".

>>66360

That face is horrifying.

>>66314

I've been wearing to work (but not using) for over a week now, so I'm teetering on 24/7. On kind of a whim I bought a carton of Abena M2s and some stealthy onesies sooo may as well use 'em

>>66395

Well, a diaper should be used. That is what they are there for.

So yesterday morning I had the pee dream. Nothing too special, but what made this interesting is that it all took place in the 9 minutes between my snooze alarms. I woke up dry, as normal. Hit snooze. Wake up 7 minutes later being about half way through my bladder. It was also a "pee dream" that I remember vividly. In my dream I was wearing a diaper and peed in that. So yeah, weird.

>>66372

you can thank Babystar for that

>>66440

How long have you been trying to bed-wet? I'm trying to get the same results, but the dream won't come for me.

So i've thought on it and I think my plan for moving out would be to start stocking up Tranquility ATNs and once I build up enough I'll start. Where would be the best place to order them, and how much do you think I should build up?

>>66650

I mean the amount depends on a lot of factors.

How many you go through in a day (assuming being 24/7 is the goal), storage, personal finance, etc.

If this is your first time trying 24/7 I'd probably go for a case (~80-100 diapers), or a few packages, and see where you are about halfway through. You want to order in bulk to save money. But ordering hundreds at once and not using them is worse.

>>66651

Thing is about buying alot of diapers. Even if you don't do 24/7. You will still have alot of diapers that you will use.

>>66652

Sure, but there's a lot of reasons you might not make it through that bulk if you aren't consistent (a binge/purge cycle results in tossing them, tapes going bad over time, body size changing, etc.). Plus if you're only using them occasionally, the storage space they take up can be a more relevant issue (especially in a smaller apartment for example).

I'm all for stocking up but I'm just recommending being reasonable. After a certain point the savings from buying in bulk disappear, so the advantage of stocking up diminishes (especially when they aren't a "need" yet)

>>66651

I was just thinking a case would probably work. Just to give me an idea of how many I'll go through. I'll probably do that.

Anyone order from amazon before? Trying to determine the best seller to buy from there.

Been wanting to try a week straight for a long time but after a few days I always cave and revert back to boxers. So today was a rare Friday off work for me (desk job that honestly lends itself heavily to being diapered and not caught) and after getting a bit high I decided to box up all my boxers and mail them to myself with a “signature required” labeling. I plan to ignore the mail tomorrow and then be forced to wear until at least next Saturday since I head into work before the post office opens and get home after it closes. It’ll be a literal impossibility for me to pick them up for the next 7(8 counting today) days so looks like I’m in for a treat for the next week.

>>67533

sounds like a solid plan, but what if something goes wrong? I might recommend you to get a backup plan in case you need your boxers.

>>67547

The plan is to have no backup plan! =D if for whatever reason I get caught in them I’ll make up something about needing them and move on. There’s nothing in my day-to-day that FORCES me to wear boxers so diapers 24/7 it is. :)

>>67550

This is a good way to start, actually. It's very 'cold turkey'. Good luck, keep us up to date how it goes

>>67555

Yah it’s been a long time coming of me ACTUALLY attempting 24/7. I know if I’ve got even a single paid of boxers laying around I’ll find an excuse to wear them (usually after masturbation). Luckily for me, getting high lets me care less about things to come and let me make the cold turkey jump into this trial period. I’m excited for this coming week to say the least.

>>67564

As a quick update, I officially have ignored the delivery and scheduled it for actually two fridays from now. I’m sure by the end of two weeks I’ll have a solid handle on how much I enjoy it or if the 24/7 lifestyle is not for me. The only issue I’m running into right now is I have plans to have a female friend of mine over this coming weekend and likely spending the night. All things considered it’s going to be difficult to entirely hide from her but if it get to that point I plan on just explaining it as a temporary issue that I’m dealing with I guess.

As much as this reads as a slight fapfic I assure you it’s all true. Admittedly high me is much more into exploring how far this can go than logically thinking me but at this point there’s no turning back. Will post again this coming weekend to update on my first full week in diapers and what came of the possible reveal.

>>67611

Hey whatever works to make you give it a shot. Me personally I wouldn't have to do anything like that cause I've really been wanting to do this for a long time. But I wish you luck all the same.

>>67613

At this point, the only thing I could see going really wrong is I get TOO high and tell my friend it’s anything more than just a short temporary thing. High me couldn’t care less if I’m diapered forever and wouldn’t mind being stuck in a lie because being diapered is great and comfy. Sober me is much less on board with that idea. 😅

Just wondering how long did it take you guys to get used to being wet? The reason I ask is I’m starting to need to urinate frequently, and since I’m already a dl I was just thinking instead of doing meds I might just start pissing myself. Have any of you ever been in this situation if so which option do you recommend?

>>67801

Not really long at all. It stopped feeling gross after about, like, the third time.

>>67706

>>67613

I'm assuming you'd just say it's medical

>>67811

Oh of course. Even in my highest moments I’d never think to inflict the fetish’s parts on someone else. I just have to hope high me decides to stick with something that is vague and clear enough to clear itself up in a rather short period of time.

>>67813

I think I've heard people mention stents being used for kidney stones which greatly reduces if not completely removes the ability to hold it. Could always use that as an excuse.

>>67833

Will keep that in mind!

>>67840

So small week 1 update:

Firstly, my friend wound up not coming over due to real life issues keeping her occupied so never had to have “the talk” luckily.

So at about Wednesday, I had started to wane on wanting to wear. Luckily my lack of boxers kept me diapered regardless. After last night however things have stopped feeling so cumbersome and it’s like I’ve clicked over to this being my new “norm” for the time being. As if to signal this change I ended up leaking last night when I slept. I vaguely recall waking up once to wet but am fairly sure that time I didn’t leak. However I woke up today significantly swollen (I wear betterdrys) and a medium sized leak on my bed. I think it should be noted I’ve been wearing diapers to sleep on and off for years but this is my longest stint in them by several days and I have been actively drinking a good amount of water before bed. Before now however I’ve never once leaked like that and am considering if I had a moment at night where I woke up wet and rolled back over without considering it. I DID have bed wetting issues up until the age of 14 so I’m hoping those aren’t flaring back up again. Will keep an eye on this as the next week progresses I suppose.

Other than that my frequency of wetting has increased slightly but that’s more likely due to increased water intake than anything.

That’s all I’ve got for now.

>>68130

Are you planning on using them to mess too?

>>68131

I hadn’t planned on it no.

>>68151

I guess it is not for everyone

>>68152

Yah. Also I do work in an office building in close proximity of others. I don’t want to be the guy that smells like shit.

>>68153

If it's only a matter of smell, they sell supplements which will eliminate the odor of your shit.

>>68164

It’s not exclusively the smell, but I honestly have never been super into that end of things.

>>68153

t. Smells like stale piss

>>68130

So I’ve got a final 2 week wrap up post. Warning: it’s not going to be eventful.

The most eventful thing I’ve managed is waking up, wetting, and going back to bed. It was a step in the right direction given I’ve had massive trouble peeing laying down in the past but never once was I not in even the slightest bit of control.

I can say that after this 2 weeks though I’ve gained a new found respect for those that take the plunge. It’s not an easy lifestyle choice to make and it definitely complicated more things than it simplified. I’d rather make more quick trips to the restroom than longer ones spent changing and worrying about noise/etc.

When my boxers came in the mail I was genuinely happy to have them back. While I’m not about to purge my stash, I think I’ll be taking a hiatus from diapers for a while. They’ve lost a bit of the fun factor for me over these two weeks and we’re more just a thing on my waist at the end.

TL;DR

Learned a valuable lesson about 24/7 lifestyle. Planning to take a break for an indeterminate time after losing interest in them due to extended exposure.

I'm not currently 24/7 by any means but I had a little oopsie last night. I'd diapered up before bed with a depends 3 tape(with packing tape reinforcement) and a insert.

I woke up at 1am with a poopy diaper though. Which was a major pain because I can't and shouldn't sleep with that, so I had to get out of bed and change myself.

Seems I'm waking up slightly and think "I'm diapered, I'll just go in it" without thinking of the consequences. Not that I remember doing that, but I wouldn't have done it when not diapered.

>>69101

Did you wake up already having messed or did you wake up in the middle of the messing? Unpotty-training myself for being in bed is one thing I want to try and messing is a big part of the fantasy

>>69107

I was already messy when I was (consiously) awake.

I did wake up in the middle of the messing once, though that was a very bad time, as I was in a hotel room with my parents and brother, and not diapered. That was a fun night.

>>69108

>I did wake up in the middle of the messing once, though that was a very bad time, as I was in a hotel room with my parents and brother, and not diapered

Hopefully you got that cleaned up before anyone smelled it!

>>69101

That's wild, I've had the hardest time being a bed wet/Messer. It'd be an awesome experience to have that happen even just once for me.

I can pee or poop in basically any position but going while asleep is a huge milestone I'd like to overcome.

Been 24/7 for about a year now with very little luck in that department, but it seems like every milestone has taken me longer than most 24/7' ers.

>>54694

Rainfurrest was also sabotaged, but honestly drugs were the biggest problem. If they limited it to social doses of hooch, they probably would have been fine.

What was it like when you guys started having messy accidents? What was it like getting used to it?

Where does everyone order their Diapers? Trying to find a place where I can order a case of ATNs without shipping killing me.

>>70166

It depends on the person, but typically as long as you keep yourself aware of the urge to wet and act on the urge, you shouldn't see yourself losing your control.

What you may feel after a while, especially on the first days not diapered, is that it may feel "normal" to just go ahead and wet with whatever you are wearing. Not a loss of control, but a bit of confusion until you train yourself well enough.

It's still worthwhile doing, one of the littles I've worked with in the past did it and it worked great for him. Keep us up to date on how it works out for you!

>>69128

What kind of drugs were they taking? And how much?

I want to hear stories, because that sounds hilarious!

>>70454

Have you tried amazon?

What I’m about to ask about is not something I plan to put into action for some time but I’ve been thinking about its feasibility so I’ll ask anyway:

Is it possible to train my body to realize that while I am diapered and at home I can just let go and use the diapers but while out of the house retain my potty-training? I only wonder if I’d start to lose control outside of the home since I’d be spending more time at home than out so the times I would be diapered in this plan would be mornings and nights (plus sleeping). Does anyone here have any insight? I’d love if this idea worked since I really like the idea of becoming diaper dependent for both wetting and messing but would like to retain times where I would retain some control

>>70631

I've never heard of anyone being successful with being diaper trained only when in diapers. I'm pretty sure if it was easy to do, everyone in abdl would be doing it.

But you won't know unless you try.

>>70624

Honestly not, I'd always be worried that it'd come in some kind of marked packaging.

>>70650

>>70631

I feel like I'm halfway there, I pee pretty uncontrollably when I am diapered for the weekend/evening, but can hold my pee for hours at work…

>>70623

Internet Historian made a video about it. It's the first search result when searching "Rainfurrest" on YT.

>>70657

This seems ideal.

(id might have changed)

>>70650

>But you won't know unless you try.

True. I wish I was in a situation where I could test it out and get back to you guys. If I ever get around to and this site is still around and not dead I’ll be sure to though.

>>70657

How about your control over messing yourself?

>>70795

Assuming you don't use drugs/diet modifications, I don't see why you couldn't keep your control, but it would require conscious effort.

>>70802

I assume you'd have no trouble whatsoever. You aren't using drugs chronically to modify your biological functions, and the routine of going back to 'normal' during the weekdays would probably lead you to harden up as the weekend comes to an end.

Is it wierd that I don't think Diapers by themselves are a big fetish for me, but the act of wearing really childish clothing is? Like I want to go 24/7 but that isn't really because I 100% of the time get my rocks off on diapers.

>>70795

I change at work all the time. It's amazing how placing your dirty diaper in a bag suddenly make's it virtually unnoticeable to people as you casually throw it out. From my experience, being diapered 24/7 for the vast majority of my life, people aren't very aware of what's going on around them. Just act natural, and no one will catch-on.

>>70971

That's not very weird at all.

I'm probably the only one in this thread that isn't into wearing, but is instead into others being 24/7. That's more weird.

>>70673

>>70772

>do occasionally have messy accidents because I trust the diaper and something about sitting in pee

>never any real problem making it to the toilet during the vanilla times

>>70656

All the diapers I've bought on Amazon (Rearz, Abena, etc.) have all just come in generic Amazon boxes.

>>71032

sounds like a dream come true for me XD id love to be forced into diapers 24/7

>>71032

Alright fair enough. Although I'm more of "help someone" than "making someone".

>>71071

I'll have to keep that in mind.

Anyone know what happened to DiaperTrainingAshley? Looks like her tumblr has been put down.

>>1169

>>71109

>DiaperTrainingAshley

Perhaps it was taken down in the tumblr purge, apple deleted their app because of cp and other stuff so tumblr deleted a ton of sites a long with diapers because of the risk. I think they used a bot. so several abdl tumblrs was deleted.

>>71109

>>71121

Good riddance.

>>70974

You must not work in a small place if you can get away with it that easy.

>>71086

>Those 24/7 girls whose boyfriends insisted on changing them.

A golden age for this thread.

>>71195

>>71187

Things change, obviously. Two or three years ago there were a number of people asking for moral support for their 24/7 needs. It's difficult for me now to find someone who just wants support and encouragement anymore, but I'm not complaining about it - it's not my style to be forceful. More power to those who can be, so those who need it can reach their goals.

>>71187

This is such a mood. If someone only forced me, like the whole thing. Catches me having an accident because of them not letting me, then forcing me to wear a diaper for the rest of the day, then slowly making me wear longer and longer until deciding I don’t need to wear underwear and throws out all my underwear and just forcing me to use my diapers until I give up slowly unknowingly even to myself as it becomes a norm then just slipping into dependency. it’s a dream I’ll never experience due to lack of girls like that. v_v

>>71276

>sometimes that isn't enough to keep me doing it.

Exactly this. The world of difference someone just taking away the right from me would make. I genuinely feel it would take only the lightest blow to knock over the house of cards too. Just the slightest push would be all it'd take.

Well if we had the room to keep you all in one house and limit your underwear options to only diapers, I'm sure we could fulfill a lot of dreams.

>>71276

Positivity is something I can do. I could make a weekly post or something about it too, like you first suggested.

Shit, I wonder what's gonna happen with Serah's blog now that tumblr is doing the great purge. It was a fun time to have her in teh thread.

>>71410

I’d say I’m more emotionally dependant on diapers than physically so maybe my perspective on this isn’t what you’re looking for, nevertheless, I’d say it’s worth it for me. I’m generally calmer and feel more “whole” when diapered. No regrets so far. I’ve been in some very awkward situations due to diapers, but nothing I haven’t been able to get over. If nothing else they make for fun stories to tell.

If you’re not prepared to deal with the possibility that friends/family may find out I wouldn’t recommend going 24/7. Hope for the best and prepare for the worst applies here.

There’s a lot of variables when it comes to relationships, but the broadest advice I can give is to just own the fact you wear diapers. Don’t let them define you, but don’t treat them as some horrible secret either. They’ll definitely limit the dating pool, but if you have positive qualities besides, you’ll be fine. Incontinent people have relationships too.

>>71276

>>71261

I'm game for some positive re-enforcement too. Really, I kinda wish I had a friend who was doing this too or something. Although, admittedly it will be several months before I can actually start perusing 24/7.

>>71451

To counterpoint:

Outdoor recreation is no issue for me, except for chafing, and that happens with most underwear. Sweating happens to everyone.

I wouldn't try Everest, but travel is otherwise not that hard. You either order a pack to your destination(good hotels are very helpful) or you pack as much as the average woman.

Incontinence doesn't really require accomodations at a workplace, so they just straight up don't care if you don't say anything.

Don't know where else to post this so I'll post it here.

I'm thinking of trying out cloth diapers and am looking for suggestions. I live in the UK and would rather avoid large shipping costs.

I've already got a pair of plastic pants (from Drylife) and while the same people also make terry toweling squares they don't seem to sell pins for some reason. Also I've read that terry isn't considered the best material for cloth diapering these days.

Does any one here have any experience with this?

>>71276

I'll do my best to help.

>>71517

Once you start going 24/7, I can be there to check in as often as you'd want and give you encouragement and a positive attitude.

>>71825

I know that struggle. I've looked around for cloth diapers in the uk too but haven't found anything. If you want toweling squares you could try Cuddlz but aside from that there is unfortunately not much choice in this continent.

>>71965

I don't know if these are worth it but they're in the UK.

https://www.thedottydiapercompany.co.uk/product/white-cloth-diapers-4000ml/

So thanks to my next job being a remote access position for the next 6 months I'm offered the unique opportunity to work from home for a long period of time straight. I plan to use this time as a "trial" period for the 24/7 lifestyle. I plan to only use my diapers for #1 as often possible and as soon as I notice but still plan to do all #2 using the toilet. It will still be a unique and fun experience as I've always wanted the opportunity to try for a long stretch of time but due to working in an office I've never had the bravery to make the jump.

I'm currently on day 3 right now and not looking to stop yet. Will keep updated if anyone is actually interested. :P

I started about last Thursday, I've gone all week 24/7 except for messing. Been using Abena M3 for daytime and NorthShore Supreme for nights. I've never been able to go laying down, even if I drink a lot when laying down there is no urge, just pain until I stand up. But I can go standing on problem.

I also wanted to get new pants that could hide the bulge better, and went while diapered to a clothing store and checked out pants there. Was in only a diaper and my top in the dressing room. Wasn't really a rush it juts felt natural and comfortable at this point.

>>72011

[chanting] One of us! One of us!

Is your intention to untrain or just live like you have? Either way I hope you check in from time to time.

>>72031

Going while laying down can take some practice. Try different positions, sipping a drink in bed, kneeling and sitting instead of standing, or taking extra precautions against leaking.

>>72230

I think it's some mental thing to do with me not wanting to damage my bed. Since I can laydown in the tub just fine and go without evening trying. Maybe I should invest in some plastic sheets and see if that helps.

>>72269

I can wet standing, sitting, laying, just about any position, but I often get rather nervous before I do so when sitting or laying on a couch or bed or chair or whatever. I think its the same issue, that im worried about leaking. Especially since its worse when Im already wet. Also, I might be able to start wetting just fine, but then after a couple seconds I lose my nerve and worry that I might flood the diaper and leak, so I stop going. I recently tried using a booster for the first time, and it was actually much easier for me to start wetting and then keep wetting. My guess is that having an absolutely waterproof layer between me and anything else Im sitting/standing/laying on would also help a lot. I kind of want to get a pair of plastic pants.

But yeah, I would recommend getting a plastic sheet or something.

If you want to try it out without spending money on it, try getting a plastic trash bag and cutting it so it becomes a long sheet and sitting on that while you go and see if that helps. Anything waterproof will also serve as a suitable substitute.

>>72011

I work from home pretty much permanently which is another reason why I think I should be able to give this a real go when the time comes.

>>72230

Currently the intent is to untrain but we'll see where my heart is after a month or so :P

Seems the thread is more diaper focused but is there anyone that's tried out being an adult baby with a partner for a decent period of time? Say you had a weekend or annual leave off work and no commitments.

When I got involved with my local fetish community there was one couple who did it more or less full time, a mommy and her little boy with the crib, the play room, diaper dependence but online I've never really come across anyone who's done similar

Now that my school's fall semester is over, I want to try doing a 24/7 weekend, where I am not allowed to used the toilet at all. And I have enough diapers, too. I think it's gonna be fun! Has anyone done this before?

>>72445

Looking after an adult who is acting like a baby 24/7 for weeks or months at a time would get extremely annoying, that's why people don't do it long-term.

>>72482

Yeah I know but it's still an interesting thought. It's not that it'd have to be full time baby either as long as there'd be that big/little dynamic 24/7 and they could still do normal things, watch movies, play games, hang around friends.

Maybe there'd be a TV in the crib and when they're put to bed that can be their alone time to do whatever they wanted but the rules state they can't leave.

It's definitely something I want to do one day from the big perspective so I think about the reality of it a lot and how you'd really go about doing it.

>>72482

That’s called long term illness lol

>>72621

You still have control because you haven't let your bowel control go. It's pretty obvious.

How do you expect to lose muscle control while still exercising muscle control?

Well I have been forvisning om becoming regular in my bowel movements, 98% I guess happens in the morning, in my diaper.

I started to become suspicious whether me holding back from messing could interfere with staying relaxed in my bladder muscles.

So now I mess in my diaper every morning, so I can stay relaxed during the day.

>>72423

So as a bit of an update to this, apparently I AM going to be abandoning the toilet all together. I took a small break before two days ago (kinda considered the before time a "warm-up" before the jump).

Well for the last two days I've been using my diapers for 100% of anything bathroom related. Something in my head said "hey just give it a try" and now that it's happened once something in my head seemed to have flipped over (by what I can guess is) permanently to see that as the only actual thing that I SHOULD be doing. It's hard to explain. But it might be better explained this next way. So I'm a fairly consistent smoker of "the herb" and one thing about it with me is there's "High Me" and "Sober Me". Until recently, High Me has always just enjoyed the aspect of wearing diapers. That isn't really the only thing now though. I noticed that High Me (much moreso even than Sober Me) today wasn't really able to understand not wearing a diaper at all. I've been listening to some hypno at peak highs lately and for a genuine second I didn't really understand why I SHOULDN'T wear diapers forever.

It's really hard to explain but it feels like some mental connections are being made behind the scenes maybe? I've also noticed that even a very wet diaper is becoming much less distinguishable from a dry diaper. I'll know I've wet but the feelings of the two are blending more together slowly. No actual progress on any genuine bladder changes, still have to bear down a little bit to get most flows going unless I'm SUPPPPER relaxed but I CAN wet in bed with some pushing. I'm currently approaching this next 100 days or so as a test run I think. I'm giving my body every imaginable chance to fail me in any noticeable way by allowing 100% of my toilet activities being at first notice in my diaper. I'm interested to see how far we can go before Easter and then I'll probably stop. I'm unsure if I'm really prepared for full unraining but I imagine even with all the help there won't be too much that happens to me in 3 months.

>>72621

I hope its not you in that pic

wearing these shitty ass excuse for "diapers"!

>>73128

This thread seems to actually be dying but I’ll keep using it for now for any updates.

Currently on Day 10 of 24/7.

Mentally my comfort level with diapers increases every day it seems. In my mind I’m rapidly seeing them less as just an object of arousal and more as something that I need to keep myself in as much as possible.

My bowels are quickly becoming more regular I’ve noticed the last few days. Where I would at most have to poor daily (or usually more like every other) I now with 100% consistency the last 4 days wake up and have to mess within 20 minutes. Additionally I’ve even had a second time in the same day twice now without changing my diet.

Wetting is becoming easier to accomplish. I’ve long since learned to wet while sitting but learning to wet laying down is becoming worlds easier (usually). Most of the time I now require little to no pushing to get the flow going. Today actually marked the first day I woke up, wet, and was able to fall right back to sleep.

Nothing else really significant that I can report yet but will keep posted. Prolly make another update post in a week or 2.

>>73128

>>73932

Keep us updated, anon. I love to read people's 24/7 stories, they make me jealous

>>73934

Haha I'll be sure to do so. Once the mental connections are made I doubt there will be more consistent updates to make but as I notice something change I'll be sure to update.

>>73932

I'm going 24/7 as well. I know this is going to sound autistic as fuck but I plan on telling some friends of mine about my incontinence. The past few times I've tried to go 24/7 I always chickened out when planning some social activity that lasted more than 2 or 3 days (weekend camping during the summer).

Last time I made it 6 months, and I've become a permanent bedwetter since then (A lot of people have a problem with wetting at night I know but I guess I have a predisposition to it). I imagine I'll catch up pretty quickly once I get back into the swing of things.

I'm pretty sure a lot of my friends already have an idea I wear diapers from time to time, so I'm just going to tell them I had on and off issues that have gotten progressively worse and that the doctors I've been seeing are just giving up treatment. I'm going with neurogenic incontinence since that fits all the criteria I need to be convincing.

>>73942

I mean this sounds VERY permanent of a solution but if you're ready to take that leap I think that it could definitely help push you over the edge. That being said though, a lie of that magnitude carries with it a level of complete and utter permanence with it that I don't think I'm personally ready to have haha.

Oh as a side note for my own records:

>>73932

I started this 'journey' having 150% bladder and bowel control fully. Just wanted to mention that for my own comparisons later.

>>73946

That is an excellent point, but if incontinence is the goal than I'm just telling them ahead of schedule.

Also, just to be clear, I don't plan on leaving a "I WEAR DIAPERS" on facebook lol. I'm just going to have a sit down with 2 or 3 friends to help keep me accountable and to have someone who can have my back in case we're in mixed company and I don't want them to know. That's the plan anyways.

>>73948

Fair enough. I'm just making sure you know 100% that it's what you want. Once you tell them you might as well just consider yourself incontinent for life because there's no coming back from that one. :P

For curiosity sake how long did it take you to become a bed wetter?

>>73952

About 6 months, but tbh I've always worn at night and have been for at least the last 6 years, but I was recording myself during the 24/7 training and started to notice results pretty quick. When I gave up 24/7 I just kept wearing at night.

>>73973

Care to elaborate on "pretty quick"? I drink above average amounts of water before bed but most nights that I even wake up I usually have to prop by back up with pillows and push a bit to wet. Most nights I just sleep through it and have to do the same thing in the morning.

>>72445

muh fetish.

oh god.

>tfw you'll never find a mommy to 24/7 baby you and keep you in diapers

>>74137

Sleep with a body pillow or something between your legs. I've noticed I have a hard time wetting when I'm on my side and my thighs constrict my penis/diaper area. Having that cushion there helps everything flow better.

As for pretty quick, I've had a history of bedwetting and bowel incontinence since I was little, and I've got some mental shit going on that is comorbid with bedwetting. Try going to bed a little wet, as sometimes it's harder to start the flow in a dry diaper.

That's pretty much all I've got for advice, everyone's body is different and mine just wets at night easy. Practice and being at ease is paramount.

>>73932

Day 17

I doubt these weekly updates will continue so consistently and I don't have a ton to cover here but I did promise to update on any noticed changes.

First, the mental changes: I noticed sometime a few days ago when I was brushing my teeth in the morning in my wet night diaper that the diaper no longer struck me as an odd article strapped to my waist. This one is kind of hard to describe but I guess the best comparison is this: When you're normally standing around wearing whatever your primary underwear of choice is, you typically register that as the "normal". Like as a guy, if you wear boxers, you never will look at your boxers and go "Huh, THAT'S different." It's just expected. That's what I'd describe diapers as for me now, "Expected".

For physical changes, there's really only two things worth noting currently.

Firstly, my issues from >>74137 seem to have quite literally taken an overnight turn the last two nights. I kicked up my fluid intake a bit more before bed and make sure it's right to sleep with me. This seems to have done the trick as last night there were two separate occasions where I remember vaguely waking up, wetting, and then going right back to sleep. There was no sitting up required, no adjustments whatsoever in fact. I don't even really recall fully waking up so that's pretty neat.

Finally, messing. So today is the real reason I'm posting at all because the learning to wet and go back to sleep seems fairly innocuous of an update on its own. So today started like any other, I woke up, didn't actually have anything to "clear out of the system" because of my night wetting, however I did have to mess. I've never been able to mess laying on my back so I got up to stand and mess, after about 30 seconds of relaxing I messed as usual, but it was not nearly as much as I've come to expect in the morning. I shrugged this off though figuring that some days will just mean less perhaps despite having three full meals and a snack the day prior.

Well I get changed and decide I'll take my shower after my morning run. It was a bit earlier than I usually wake up so I nodded off for another couple hours. After waking back up around 11 I grab my phone and start doing my morning routine of email, facebook, etc. checking and notice my stomach has another cramp. I didn't want to use another diaper yet so I decided to finish checking emails then I'd just use the toilet for messing.

This is apparently when my body had a different plan in mind however. Even deciding to use the toilet I have been making active efforts to make sure everything is kept relaxed but I figured another 2 minutes wouldn't make the difference. What happened next is something I've never really experienced before and it's super hard to explain but I think it's whats defined as a "Reflex Push" in the 12 month program.

Once I felt a second gurgle that was all she wrote. About 5 seconds after that my body started pushing! Like i didn't resist it because that'd be going against the rules but I sure didn't INTENTIONALLY start pushing either. This was a very surprising experience for me because

1.) I was laying on my back but my body seemed to have thrown away it's inability to mess like that out of the clear blue sky.

and

2.) I was actively filling a barely used diaper (as I messed I started wetting too but other than that it was dry) after my body decided "Well if you're not going to listen to me the first time, we're going!"

It was definitely an interesting experience and when I was done I didn't just have another small mess, I'd FILLED my diaper and needed to change again. I got in the shower after getting wiped up and started my day from there.

So yah, like I said, it's not a ton to report on but I figured I'd keep the thread posted :)

>>74595

Good update. How is your view towards diapers sexually after deciding to commit to 24/7? I really view messing and wetting sexually and that is part of the reason I want to eventually go 24/7 when I get the oppurtunity alongside more regression related issues. If you are like me, are you horny a lot wearing them? I imagine I’d have a big problem that as I like to masturbate after I mess, which would be unworkable with 24/7 untraining

>>74596

Haha the best thing I can say to this is this:

Diapers still are a sexual thing for me, however they've become something I DECIDE when to be turned on by now. When you're 24/7 and kinda begin accepting this is your life, your body kinda gets tired of being aroused non-stop. At least mine did. I can still get off in a wet diaper and to some degrees, the fact that I haven't had to pour water in a diaper to get it completely soaked in weeks is also a turnon (I seem to be wetting more frequently but less per wetting which helps everything distribute worlds better). That being said, I'm not consistently horny any more as opposed to previous times when I'd wear maybe 2-3 days in a row at most. Diapers are my underwear now and when I'm just going about my normal day-to-day stuff I don't pay them enough mind to get aroused about them most of the time. "Oh I'm wetting? Alright who cares?" then I continue doing what I was doing. I'm definitely paying it all much less attention these days because honestly, after your 50th diaper you really stop caring about the state of your diaper. My life is more or less 80%wet/20% dry these days as far as the time I spend in diapers.

>>74600

Since your around where I usually break I have a couple questions.

How have you been handling skin care (powder/lotion/etc.; how consistently) and have there been issues with that?

How much variety are you using in your diapers? (Cloth-backed, plastic back, thick, thin, cloth, etc.)

>>74606

So, I've got the liberty of working at home so discretion in the work place isn't an issue. Because of that I've just super stocked myself on NorthShore MegaMax since there's literally no reason not to wear the best possible diapers ever.

For skincare I've had a minor rash for a couple days in the beginning because I was still pretty horny and essentially every wet diaper I'd hump the shit out of before changing. This has significantly changed as I mentioned earlier and now that I'm less horny those rashes have entirely gone away. I've got a small tube of diaper rash cream and that shit works like magic. Other than that, for skincare. I'll occasionally put lotion on (once a day after my shower typically) and I ALWAYS powder. Doing this in combination with very high quality diapers that wick well and it's hard to get a rash without asking for it. :P

>>74607

Nice. When I wear regularly I try to powder each time, but I'm never sure when to apply lotion (in my head they apply the same effect).

And yeah that's my biggest hurdle is work. I work in an office setting with a private restrooms (just have to get the diaper in with me) which helps. But about once a week I have to wear dress slacks and it's basically impossible to wear anything thicker than pull-ups under those (and just wearing looser pants doesn't really work there).

>>74611

Lotion and powder do similar things but some lotion once a day after a shower will never hurt. Consider it just an extra barrier to protect and hydrate your skin.

Regarding your office setting, I'd say just get some thinner diapers for your "slacks days". You can definitely 100% manage it if you really want to and in the end, nobody will give a flying fuck what you're wearing underneath. I've been diapered in public more times than I can bother to count at this point and never been stopped (even if accidentally getting caught might be a bit fun I don't actively go seeking getting caught).

>>74615

I've found I don't really use lotion unless it's right after I shave down there. Sometimes I don't use it then either.

I shave in the shower, the use soap all over where I've shaved and it kinda moisturizes the area by itself. Could save some $$$ on lotion if you can go without.

My CG and I really only use it if we wanna play some or she just wants to make me smell even more like a baby before we go out somewhere. Always always use powder though, that stuff is amazing.

Though everyone's PH balance is gonna be different so some need that extra protection for their skin more often than others. It's been like 2 - 3 years for me being 24/7 I only really got rashes near the start of it, my balls hated me for awhile haha.

>>74611

I'd say you could get away with wearing some cloth backed thin diapers (like preschools) or maybe the Tena Slip Maxi diapers. Those are both pretty discreet and hold a wetting or two, so you may have to change during the day which could be an issue.

It's really up to you though, if it's something a person wants they will always find a way.

>>74621

>if it's something a person wants they will always find a way

Too true. I occasionally pop into Omegle and I can't tell you the number of people that go "OMG So lucky! I really wish I could go 24/7!" Then when I ask them why not they give me weak excuses like "Well I would be afraid of getting caught.".

You can't have your cake and eat it too with 24/7. If you decide to go this route you have got to be willing to accept the fact people will eventually find out if you give it enough time. It seems like most people want to be 24/7 but never have to worry about awkwardly admitting that you wear diapers. These two things ARE unfortunately mutually exclusive and while you CAN mitigate who finds out and realistically, you can avoid EVER being caught in public, someone in your life will eventually find out you wear diapers.

I for one am not ready for a more permanent lifestyle (currently, who know with all the mental changes going on how I'll feel in 2 and a half months. If how fast things have been going is any sign, it seems my body is already very on board with losing control so who knows) which is why I've given myself a cutoff date currently. I am dedicated to making it the whole time though before deciding where I want to go from there though.

One idea I’ve had is I wish the medical establishment knew more about untraining. I mean it was basically invented by diaper lovers in the internet. And we have like forums dedicated to it and it’s all just random people giving advice. I wish it was more like sexual transition where there’s lots of medical studies and pamphlets about it.

>>74623

I feel like one thing that'd be interesting is if I ever started having the bladder spasms, I'd like to visit a doctor at that point. They're currently just classified as this unknown thing that people know means you're making progress but nobody knows why they happen or why they fade away after only a couple weeks. I think it'd be super helpful to maybe get an x-ray or other examination to see exactly what's happening down there during that mysterious phase.

>>74622

That "I'm afraid of getting caught" excuse is so ridiculous, 98.769% of people don't care at all what you're doing, wearing, or what noises you make while walking so long as you aren't jumping around going "HEY LOOK AT ME I'M IN DIAPERS!" They're all too busy being just as paranoid as you are about what people think of them to focus on you. I even go to the gym in shorts and stuff and haven't gotten any odd looks or had anyone say anything.

It's been years and still only my brother and my caregiver know I wear diapers…well them and all the playmates and people who are already into diapers that I've met. I like to think it's pretty easy to hide this part if you don't want people finding out, but maybe I'm just lucky?

I'm all in as far as permanent goes, I mean, I'm getting a crib and changing table built for a room in my house and not even worried about someone finding it. Just lock the door and bam, nobody can go in there. If I really wanted to hide it I could put a swinging mirror in front of the door…but like…why do that?

>>74626

Yah tbh I feel like if even half of these individuals wore to work even once in their most OBVIOUS diaper they'd get over their fear in a single day most likely, I know that's how I broke my fear. By wearing an ABU Space with an insert I proceeded to do all my classes for a day in that same diaper through college. I stayed very hydrated and wet whenever I could make myself (Back then wetting was much more of a thing I had to really focus on) and never once got stopped. Diapers aren't this all-inhibiting thing that makes you change your life, they're an article of underwear that you throw away after you're done with it.

>>74629

Exactly. End of the day you can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink I suppose.

Hey everyone. Just a reminder that you're all doing good things for yourself. If you're untraining keep it up! I hope you're reaching your goals.

So, I'm new-ish at going 24/7 long-term (around 4 months at this point) and just starting to get to where I can let go readily regardless of whether I'm in public/sitting/lying down/etc. This has been exciting, but it's also meant my daytime diapers have been getting wrecked way more thoroughly while I'm out and about, including a few leaks.

What does everyone else doing this atm wear for daytime protection? I'm in Tenas right now and would like to go "one step" high in thickness/absorbency, basically, without being too much less discreet.

>>75043

TBH it sounds like you're in the first of the tipping points. At this point, you might want to sacrifice a bit of discreteness in favor of a thicker, more absorbent diaper in general.

>>75043

I've been using lil paws, safari, or barebums for most of my daytime needs. I know that's kind of extreme though. It can be a little costly but my CG and I buy in bulk…we still have so many from the last time we ordered and that was a few months ago haha.

What this anon said sounds about right. >>75046

You've got a few choices: You could start using a stuffer in your current diapers, start bringing a few changes with you while you're out and about, or upgrade to thicker diapers.

I've always been a bit of a heavy wetter so it's hard for me to guage what's best for you.

I guess I'd suggest moving onto some M4s from Abena (It's what I was mainly using for daytime until switching over to only using AB diapers) But I also like preschools from ABU for daytime use. They're fairly cheap if I remember right and hold a bit more than some other diapers on the market, they also have high leg guards which is especially nice if you plan on using stuffers with your diapers. Not to mention that they have cute designs on them! But that's just an extra bonus.

>>75046

Guess this is a good point. Ended up deciding to try a range of options and got a bunch of Abenas, thicker ABUs, and ABU stuffers, so we'll see how that goes!

>>75131

chlorophyll tablets, fiber and water

>>75131

Messing in an office setting is risky no matter what. Plastic pants will help but that comes with its own drawbacks, like excessive poofiness. Definitely eat a healthy diet, and take a charcoal or chlorophyll supplement. In addition you need to change immediately. This is also difficult since there's no guarantee you'll be alone in the bathroom, unless there is a private bathroom with a lock. Even then, you may look suspicious carrying your changing gear into the bathroom with you.

Tl;dr, it's not something to take lightly.

>>75131

If you haven't already then immediately tell your boss that you have a medical problem and need to wear protection.

>>75184

According to WebMD it'll reduce the absorption of Acetaminophen, Digoxin, Theophylline, and tricyclic antidepressants. Just take nullo instead.

https://www.amazon.com/Nullo-Internal-Deodorant-60-Caplets/dp/B000Q6HBIW

Change quickly, also your boss doesn't need to know you wear diapers unless you think it's an absolute necessity.

>>74595

So it’s officially day 30 (technically the day isn’t over but I can fairly confidently say that I’ll be spending the rest of the day diapered).

So where am I at? Not too much farther but once again, there is definitely things going on behind the scenes. So I’ll start with the mental side first.

Firstly, this is something that I stumbled across about 3 or 4 days ago. I’d previously talked about seeing myself in diapers no longer looking foreign. Now that’s all well and good but for this last 20+ days diapees have been an “extra”. Something that isn’t my norm mentally. Well that’s definitely changed as I don’t even consider boxers for my underwear anymore. Like my brain has (at least temporarily) switched some switches and diapers ARE my underwear. When I get out of the shower it’s shirt, diaper, pants and that’s expected. This leads me to my second point. Anxiety!

Now this isn’t any nearly as bad as the word hyped it up to be. What I mean is mental diaper anxiety when I see 40 or less diapers in stock. I’d reached my last 3 packages and mentally had a tiny anxious pang like “hey, you NEED to get more diapers”. A quick order from NorthShore though and I’ve got 40 more coming later today. :) I guess you can say this is good or bad depending on perspective but I’ve still got more time to the end of my little 3 month stint than I don’t so I might as well be realistic about my diaper consumption.

Finally I’ve noticed one last minor thing. Fairly used, fairly THICK diapers honestly don’t register for me as much as they once did. I’ll know “yah this diaper is pushing my things apart a bit.” But I can no longer accurately gauge how wet my diaper is without actually checking. This doesn’t mean I don’t know when I wet I just honestly no longer mentally record each wetting. They happen, I do whatever I have to do to wet, then I go back to what I was doing. It’s becoming much less cumbersome and it’s DEFINITELY becoming easier to release when I feel an urge. They come pretty automatically when I’m standing now and decently easy when sitting or laying down.

Finally the stuff you all are interested in, the physical changes. Well I mentioned one of the biggest ones (surprise there isn’t a ton of change in 11-ish days). Wetting laying down has become much easier when I’m awake and (surprisingly) even easier at night when I wake up to wet. These events are usually so quick I’m barely having to wake up before I wet and go back to sleep. This is also happening every single night due to my extra water before bed which is nice.

Secondly, I’ve noticed that I have been definitely wetting in smaller but more frequent times. I’ll still have long 10-ish second floods when it’s been a while since I felt the urge to go (it’s very sporadic currently).

Finally, my bowel control. This is the one that actually surprised me the most but you all night not really think so. So 3 days ago I woke up and rolled around in bed like usual on my phone for a few minutes. Usually I’ll be out of bed in about 20-30 depending on what I’ve got to do that day and what’s on my phone. Well at about 10 minutes I got my first stomach gurgle. It wasn’t another 2 minutes before I realized I could mess. As if got ready to get out of bed I figured I’d try messing in bed just to get used to it more. It didn’t take me 5 seconds from mentally accepting that until I’d started filling my diaper and as surprising as it was I just helped push a bit more and before I knew it I was done. I know this may not sound like much but the amount of urgency that I messed with as soon as I decided to do it in be just caught me a bit off guard.

So at the end I don’t think too much is changing with me but maybe it’s just familiarity blindness. I’m trying to log as much as I can to properly check where I’m at because it could be a fun read to see the subtle changes in hindsight down the road.

I know I’m no blogger or anything so I’m sure these catalogs aren’t quite as interesting for most but I’ll keep logging as some people seem to get enjoyment out of it.

>>75442

Just wanted to let you know I'm definitely interested in hearing about your progress. Keep up the good work!

>>75468

Doing this is a great way to accumulate hemorrhoids quick fast and in a hurry. Don't do this.

>>75488

>first on /leftpol/

>now here

Fuck off shill

>>75488

Kingdom Hearts is for lonely Neckbeard Faggots

>>75468

Why would you want to make yourself incontinent if you lack the will and/or money to wear diapers?

>>75442

keep em comin, you obviously put a lot of thought into each update

>mental diaper anxiety when I see 40 or less diapers in stock

definitely been there, in fact I'm still making my way through this one carton I bought months ago on that kind of whim

>>75541

Haha luckily my diaper wall is now back to 70 but even that’s doesnt feel like enough 😅. In a perfect world I’d have a thousand of them lining my living room walls but I’ll have to make sure with 70+.

>keep em comin, you obviously put a lot of thought into each update

I’ve been trying my best to anyway haha. It’s half to give people real content, half to make sure I’m not missing stuff/forgetting the subtle things that I might otherwise not even realize I need to mentally readjust to when I finally graduate out of diapers (even if every day currently, my control seems to slip just another 1% of so lol).

Of interesting note, I counted up the days and realized because of my starting date that Easter is actually after the 4 month mark and should I decide to pass on going home Easter, I wouldn’t likely head home again until a theoretical almost 11 months from start date.

Only the future knows how long I’ll remain diapered but I’ll give myself a solid cutoff of 1 year (at which point I imagine I’d have to do a lot of potty training haha). I’ll keep everyone updated either way on everything as it changes either way.

Any other questions people might want to throw my way feel free to ask literally anything related and I’ll try my best to address them.

>>75490

>unironically going to any kind of /pol/ board, especially leftypol

an hero pls

>>75488

Aeris dies!

>>75568

So I'll hopefully have a better update come the two month mark (11 more days!) but today will just be a little mini-update on two things I've noticed. This stuff might not even be worth mentioning but again, I try to record as things catch my interest.

Firstly, I've noticed that I no longer can accurately tell someone what wearing boxers feels like. Like that sounds like a strange thing even to type out but the best thing I can compare it to is the unfamiliarity we all had at one point before we put on our first diaper. You have an idea but these days I genuinely can't perfectly remember what it's like to have on boxers and not having some bulk between my legs. Obviously when I shower I'm not diapered but it's not the same as far as I can recall haha.

Secondly, I have noticed in the last couple days my wettings are becoming slightly surprisingly frequent and short. I'll have <5 second wettings almost every 30 minutes or less it seems these days. This has led to me completely losing track of how many times I've actually wet and if you held a gun to my head, I couldn't tell you how many times I've let go through the duration of a full diaper any more.

I suppose this leads to somewhat of a third thing in that, wetting is so easy to do now. It used to be that if I was playing a game, I'd have to take a breath to let go, wet, then return to playing my game. The last 3-4 days however it's: Feel the need to wet > Start Wetting while playing game >Don't really know when it stops if I'm not paying attention.

Some of these changes have been coming much quicker than I honestly expected and I'm interested to see where things go from here. I'm hoping to have more to report come Month 2 but at the rate I've been progressing, it almost feels like I'm running out of steps to accomplish and I feel I might hit a wall soon.

This thread definitely seems to be not as active as it once was but I'm always happy to come back and report any progress. :)

Is it weird that I'm almost 30 and I still want to do this?

>>58853

Oh god i want this so fucking much

For those of you who did it and talked to a doctor what did you say? I need to get a new doctor anyways because I moved cities.

>>77018

Well I just told mine somewhat the truth. I've had bowel issues for years (constant diarrhea, leakage, stuff like that.) They did a colonoscopy found 9 polyps. I just told them I wear as a precaution now..You only mess your pants in public a few times before you do something about it.

I haven't gone "true" 24/7 because I'm military but at home I spend most of my time diapered. Certainly most nights. It's pretty convenient because I tend to dribble if I've had alcohol, and go excessively often if I'm drinking a normal amount of water/coffee/juice/etc. I always wake up at least once or twice a night to go pee, and I've had a few genuine accidents when I've gone to the pub not diapered. And when I am diapered, I go through one or two Rearz Rebel diapers easily. On Christmas Eve, I went out and went through three and a Tykables Overnight, went straight to bed, and woke up in a puddle. I think I have a lot of very minor bladder issues that come together to make one moderate-to-severe one.

If I had a different job, I'd probably wear diapers to work, but untape them to go pee normally unless I'm in a long meeting or can't leave my desk or something. Diapers for me, when I'm out and about, are more for not interrupting stuff and not wetting myself during long waits/commutes/etc than for having fun waddling about and soaking it to the max (though that part is still fun)

>>77018

The lady I saw at my local clinic once basically just said "cut back on your fluid intake, dummy", but even limiting myself to just two cups of coffee my whole workday, I still have to go a couple times and still often end up dribbling a bit. It's minor and definitely doesn't warrant wearing something thirsty for 6700ml of piss when thicker underwear already do the trick, but it still sucks.

>>74628

>they're an article of underwear that you throw away after you're done with it.

On this note, oh holy hell the amount of waste. Just enjoying a pack of premium diapers over the course of a few months, it doesn't seem so bad, but going through 2 or 3 diapers a day is a goddamn environmental disaster. I wish these things were recyclable or at least that I had one of those super high heat incinerators or something.

>>77072

I mean…. you're on an ABDL board on a 24/7 thread. Do you expect everyone to just wear cloth because of environmental outcomes that still have a fraction of the actual impact from one person than driving a car down the road?

>>77074

I'm not an environmentalist, and I'm not here to get into a flame war; I'm just saying that I personally feel bad about it. If nothing else, it's an annoying amount of extra trash to haul to the curb.

Today I wore for the first time at my new job. It was nice not having to go to the bathroom there, but I was constantly hearing the crinkling of my diaper, and quite worried other people could hear it.

How do you guys deal with this worry?

I also wonder if people will notice me not go to the bathroom as much.

I'm wearing Northshore supreme lites, which are super quality, and I wasn't worried about leaking at all, but I did change during my lunch hour. No private bathrooms at work if I need to change outside that though.

So, I'm probably a few months from moving out, which means it will only be a short amount of time before I can really start this. I'm so looking forward to it because I've always wanted to and my living situation would completely allow it.

>>77107

Hey :D

So you should wear some boxer briefs over your diapers, the extended legs on boxer briefs are what you want so your diaper will experience near equal preasure all across the surface so that they function normally.

Next, you will probably be able to hear the crinkle but this is because as apex predators we have good senses and worrying and stressing heightens our senses because we go in a more survival state, so while you will be able to hear it no one else will.

Is it just me or does working at home function as really good boon in favor of 24/7?

>>76465

So I’m going to TRY to keep today’s post short but since I’m officially over the 2 month hump it felt wrong to not post at least SOMETHING.

When I started this journey, I’ll admit that I was doing it as more of a way to “get it out of my system.” My previous longest stint had been less than a week before I grew tired of it and put boxers back on so I figured “If I can push myself to go a bit longer like a month I’ll get over it and maybe my desires will die down a bit.” I can now confidently say this massively blew up in my face. (Oops? 😅)

What I mean by this is after a certain point I mentioned that diapers began feeling routine. Somewhere along those lines I’ve noticed that they are no longer routine but they’ve become something I mentally feel I “need”.

Obviously 2 months isn’t enough time to lose any noticeable control but I will say that if I’m staying hydrated, I seem to have entered the “dribble” phase. It’s all still things I’m aware of but I’d be lying if there aren’t several times an hour I seem to be dribbling before I actually need to acknowledge it. Sometimes I still need to push to get the flow going (especially when I’m high since THC acts actually as an inhibitor for urinating strangely enough) but once it starts I don’t have to actively focus on continuing it and can return to playing games.

Additionally, for the time anyway, I’ve given up messing. I’ve learned I’m not a huge fan of it and would honestly just prefer to wet them and make it to the toilet for #2. This hasn’t really inhibited my wetting as far as I can tell but it just seems better this way.

Finally, there seems to be an even greater reduction in my ability to tell just how wet I actually am. I’m finding a majority of my diapers these days need an actual physical check on my part to understand my diaper’s current state. I’m guessing this just comes with being so used to being in a wet diaper it’s like how you forget about your nose without thinking about it.

I’m likely going to be skipping returning home for Easter and instead will just wait until Christmas to do so. Whether I stay diapered until then I’m not sure but I CAN say I’ve got a recurring auto ship set up now since I have grown tired of ordering more diapers every other week.

It’s funny because I originally went into this expecting to be dreading things by this time and counting down the days until I can get out of diapers. I can fairly confidently say I’m likely to at least wear 24/7 for another 3-4 months now as they’ve become such a comfort item for me that I’m truly losing the mental reasoning to justify why I shouldn’t wear longer. After all, when I finally DO go back to boxers it’s going to be annoying getting up for the toilet so I might as well extend my convienience for a few more months.

That certainly turned out longer than intended so sorry about that! If anyone ever has any questions please feel free to ask. :)

>>77572

I think I’m the end I’m just looking to experience “the beginning of the edge”. I’d like to at least go far enough that I one day find myself in a soaked diaper that I have little to no idea I’d even wet.

I’m not currently FULLY onboard with permanently losing control but I’d like to lose SOME for a time if that makes sense. I can always retrain at a later date but I feel like it could be super interesting to actually see this through for a longer period. 2 months has flown and I’m sure by 6 months I’ll have a better grip on if this is something I’m okay with for the rest of my life.

As a side note, I’m not obligating myself to that long. However long it takes for me to feel like it’s time to consider turning back will be a good start for now.

I have to be 24/7 because I'm legit incontient.

>>77107

>How do you guys deal with this worry?

No one who isn't looking for diapers even knows what they look/sound like.

>>77604

I'm guessing that you were BORN incontinent or something? You gave so little to really go off of or respond to here that I had no idea how to acknowledge this.

>>78062

If you know someone who's good with a CAD program like Solidworks or AutoCAD, or who's good with carpentry in general, they can probably knock out a simple blueprint for a crib built around whatever size mattress or pad you want. If you think you can handle some very basic woodworking, then it would just be a matter of buying the materials and putting it together. Most home improvement stores or lumber stores will cut wood for you to whatever size, so they'll do a good chunk of the work for you right there. Depending on the size, you're looking at anywhere between $100 to $300 for the wood. But that's if you think you can put it all together yourself.

>>78062

I recently built a crib by buying two baby cribs and sort of fusing them around an existing queen bed base. Took a bit of modding but the results were quite acceptable.

>>78099

Have you got any pictures?

>>78103

Apologies but I try to make a habit of not posting abdl related photos online. I will say that all up it's cost me about $400, but I'm still figuring out how to make one side drop down to actually make it practical to get in and out of.

>>78062

Not the same thing but these bed tent things exist (mostly for autistic kids) that may scratch a similar itch.

At one point there were also extra long bed rails on Aliexpress that would fit an adult size bed. IIRC they were mesh-ish instead of bars like a crib though.

I'm curious to know. For the men, gay and straight, who have gone 24/7 in their diapers.

May I ask how does forming relationships go? With vanilla men and women?

Do your boyfriend or girlfriend baby you or change you at all?

>>78270

date people who like you

If someone actually likes you they won't care

If they really like you a lot they'll be into it

source: am assigned male at birth agender polyamorous person in successful decade long relationship with a woman who babies me sometimes and have had several other relationship which included abdl dynamics with a variety of people of various genders, most of whom were not into ABDL previous to dating me

>>78334

>am assigned male at birth

You're not assigned a sex at birth. The doctor recorded the sex they observed based on anatomical features that are determined by your genes.

Your sex was set in stone (or code, if you prefer) when you were conceived. You can use surgery to change your appearance, but there is not yet any technology available to the public that would allow you to change your genes.

>>78335

I think they were referring to being assigned gender, not sex.

>>78348

>implying it's not the same thing

Putting on panties and a bra doesn't make you a woman, sorry. Some guys can look fuckable but they will always be men

>>78358

>>78348

>>78335

>>78334

Good job assholes, you fucked up a perfectly good thread.

>>78362

Just move on. We need 1 more comment after this to get that damn video about bladder control to stop autoplaying when I expand all imagines (maybe I'm dumb idk).

To come back around to the topic. I'm sort of using going 24/7 as a reward for being healthier/losing weight. So far I'm about 15% of the way to my goal (after about 2 months ish) so not great, not terrible. I always feel guilty going 24/7 because it's costly, bad for the environment, and will be a further detractor on things like dating (not saying it's impossible but in most cases it definitely isn't a "pro").

So that's what I got going on in the world of 24/7-ness.

>>78335

Its honestly kind of incredible that you still believe sex is a pre-discursive reality in 2019. read a book lmfao

>>78364

I've always been curious on what people do about dating and 24/7. It seems like to me you'd be totally destroying any chances at dating beyond finding an ABDL gf

>>78366

This is person who is 24/7 but dates and has had multiple relationships, above. Not bothering to engage the trolls.

It isn't a big deal. Seriously. Every once in a while someone won't understand or like it, but that person wasn't going to end up in a relationship with you anyways because that isn't who you are. Anyone who actually likes you and you have a chance of having a good relationship with is going to like you anyways.

Most of my partners I have introduced to these kinks after we started dating. Some of them are no longer dating me but are still into these kinks. Relationships are supposed to be about communication and growth. The less you hate yourself the less others will hate you.

I didn't think I'd ever prefer *chan-level hate and trolling over Tumblr "discourse" (and now Twitter thanks to the migration of some users) complete with arrogant "educate yourself" mock activism and intentionally obtuse vocabulary, but here we are. 'Grats guys, I'm just here for the fetish but now I know which kind of person here grates on my nerves less.

Actually trying to contribute to the thread now, if my family ever goes on a vacation for a week or longer I usually stay behind because it's too much for my anxiety. If that happens I want to order a pack of good diapers and go as close to 24/7 as possible. I've seen a lot of talk about the Abena M4. Is Northshore the website to order from if possible? Do they have a fast shipping option for 2 or 3 days?

How do they handle flooding? I'm into the desperation part a ton, so I want to put the diaper on when I'm really close to wetting myself. I figure if I have trouble letting go at first it'll be easier that way. I want to mess if possible too, but I don't want to take a laxative or anything else that will make it runny. Has anyone tried suppositories, and what kind? Those just trigger the body into pushing it all out, right?

I'm also a little bit interested in the ageplay part. I've slimmed down a lot in the past year and fit into 32" jeans comfortable. Some guys have mentioned fitting into boys goodnites with that waist size, but I've read conflicting opinions, especially for when we get hard. I don't think I'll be able to get them anytime soon because of embarrassment but for future reference when I finally get my own place.

>>78365

I seriously hope that's a joke.

If it's not: A rose by any other name is still a fucking flower. Language communicates, labels identify. They do not have the ability to change a thing no matter how much you want them to.

You cannot control something by naming or renaming it, power words aren't real. Nor can you influence thought by limiting vocabulary, as people will just find or create new words to express their ideas.

>>78451

fucking hilarious that you wanna tell me power words aren't real then turn right around and try to will gender into being with language. you're like a little baby. go ask a frog if it knows what a gender is and realize what a bell end u sound like rn

>>78454

I'm not willing gender into being with language, I'm recognizing what is.

In Algebra letters are typically used to in place of numbers to show relationships between things. But you don't need to use letters. You could use words like cat and dog instead of x and y. The labels you choose don't matter, what matters is the relationship between the things (the formula).

Identity is a negotiation with other people, it's not something that you can simply declare. You can call yourself a Princess of a country, and claim that you're entitled to rule there, but if the people of that country reject your claim then you're just pissing in the wind.

>>78479

But DNA of the male frog is slightly different than the DNA of the female frog. And the DNA isn't significantly changed by the environment. If it is, the radical mutation is usually fatal to the cell or to the whole organism.

I don't hate trans people. I just refuse to accept that things can be changed simply by changing a label. A 56 year old man can call himself a 3 year old girl all he wants, but that doesn't mean that he is, or will ever be what he claims to be.

Can everyone shut the fuck up about trannies? I'm here to hear about people's untraining progress and 24/7 experience, not the same internet battle repeated ad nauseam

>>78488

Literally fucking THIS

You guys want to argue about transgender issues take it somewhere else. Not a single thing that you’re bitching about has anything to do with this thread.

Seriously all I did was mention how I identify and it spawned this stupid conversation.

>>78497

Nobody cares what you identify as, what mental disorder you suffer from, the color of your skin, or anything else. Putting it at the start of your post is just begging for attention and trying to bait a conversation about the shit, which is exactly what happened. The whole point of the board is to be anonymous, not to bring up how much of a special snowflake you are.

>>78498

It was relevant to the topic at hand, fuck off. I know how a goddam imageboard works.

>>78498

>>78499

Holy shit. Drop it, everyone. Nobody fucking cares. Move on.

>>78499

>It was relevant to the topic at hand, fuck off. I know how a goddam imageboard works.

Apparently not enough to fucking sage.

>>78497

>Seriously all I did was mention how I identify and it spawned this stupid conversation.

You did it because like all trannies you are inherently an attention whore who CAN'T not mention it and shove it into every conversation like anybody but you gives a fuck.

Nobody cares what genitals you have on a diaper board.

TL;DR, kill yourself faggot.

>>78270

I asked a good question about going in diapers 24/7 and forming a relationship.

And I get that fucking trans snowflake giving me all this liberal SJW shit.

Everyone who has commented since are right; just fuck off you attention seeking nutter.

This is the 24/7 diaper thread! Fucking gender bender!

>>78515

lol k, whatever you say samefag

sorry I triggered you so hard by answering your question

Now at least everyone knows your question is irrelevant because no one will ever form a relationship with trash like you

>>78517

>no one will ever form a relationship with trash like you

Wow, it’s the classic bitch argument of “no one will ever wanna fuck you hurr”. Fuck off tranny and join the 40%

>>78519

Indeed. Thank you.

Anyone have a good way to prevent diaper rash that doesn't fuck up the leak guards? I've been using Zinc Oxide 40% for a long time , which helps my skin a lot, but it always dissolves the glue on the leak gears by my butt. Coconut oil has done the same, but to a lesser degree. But it's a bitch to put on and can fuck up the tapes if it gets on the exterior of the diaper.

>>75043

Slight update, just because I'm both excited and a little nervous about it: Hit 6 months of being 24/7 this past week, and lately I've been waking up wet without really remembering going during the night. I'd gotten to where I was usually waking up briefly to go, so I was hesitant to get too excited at first, in case I'd really just done that and not remembered it–but this morning I got woken up to find I'd seriously leaked and was basically lying in a puddle. (Fortunately I had a mattress protector.)

This is the first progress I've seen that I'm actually sure is for-real and not just in my head, which is super exciting. On the other hand, it also feels like this is probably the point where I need to make a long-term decision about whether I want to commit to trying to achieve real dependence or back off some.

(As far as daytime goes, switching to thicker padding has been a big help with no real downside? I worry about my butt looking poofier, but no one else seems to have noticed even a little.)