/8bantb/ - Random Banter

i dont have friends because im kind of awkward and also i spent a lifetime on anonymous imageboards so yelling about niggers and faggots doesnt do much to endear me to people

>>906

I mean I kinda contradict myself by saying I don't give a shit but would fight anyone who shit talks. Though you have to let out some form of energy, and words just isn't enough to get to people for them to keep your name out their mouth. I've grown up around pieces of shit who talked down on me to make themselves feel good. Be who you want to be and say what you want to say anon. If anyone has a problem with you don't let them think you only have words for them.

>>905

going by your post you sound like you deserve your pathetic existence

>>910

And you deserve to get raped by shitskins because your country is too pussy to do anything about it.

Your format seems like a (copy)pasta but I'll reply for the effort.

Talk less, move less, DO more. Even chant a mantra if you will.

Whatever you do for yourself is more important, or what you do for those you care about.

>no friends

>talk shit

Why? Most common thing about friends is sharing similar interest and that's all there is to it, if you don't (opposed interests) then there will be 'opinions' but most friends are understanding but if not they're only making fun of you (and they're insecure). Friends are supposed to have fun together not make fun of others.

It's best to be with people that have similar standing and have many similarities to you (like in a hobby or sport).

If you think you're way above their league, just go, and find the people who are just like you, or if you're strong enough, you can pull them into your zone but this might even get things worse.

Just know this, there are two types of people. If you're more successful and better than others, there are only two responses:

Some people will try to drag you down by doing petty things to cope for their insecurity.

Some people don't care or support you as they want to reach the 'top' too.

There are only those who want to reach the top or those who try to drag you down because they never really tried.

In other words it is crabmentality-insecurity.

I've seen a guy at a uni once, he was a lone but cool guy, like having a Ph.D at the age of very early 20s, until the uni shits tried to frame him for lulz.

What happened is he got sued by the corrupt uni, and its corrupt faculties, like those old 40+ boomers who are splitting hairs still trying to finish their Ph.D, in short they were just jealous of the man and they banded altogether, framed him to have been accusing their organization of corruption (which was proven corrupt later on but the guy wasn't even the one who accused but an anonymous shit happened).

It's hard being at the top, you should take extreme precautions, just being with friends and being slightly better than them can make them feel "insecure" about your existence and as a self-defense they will try to pull you below (especially if there is a girl in the group that had been eyeing on you and there is another man who likes that person) - this usually happens in academic environment or even workplace. It's toxic, this is why 'clubs' (like some gentlemens only club) are the way to go if you want a decent 'friend' but still don't trust a friend in money matters - Trump said so. Imagine those youtube friends trying to 'split' the revenue and end up shitting/backstabbing each other.

Friends and money don't mix

Friendships are only best when you're both in the same 'league', same with relationships.

But know this too, you only need 1 or few friends. Groups have group think and toxic insecurities, including crabmentality - people with weak goals (devolving into dragging down successful people to feel better for their shitty self).

>>913

Being able to kick someone's ass really doesn't make you any better than them. It depends on what kind of shit they're talking about you. You can beat up a billionare, but he will still get to go back to his yacht while you reside to your trailer (or a jail cell)

>>922

I don't care about what anyone has and what they have over me. My only gripe is with people who run their mouth on others and feel like there's no consequence for it. I don't believe in "being the bigger man" and letting it slide. Can you not say the same, or are you a bitch made pussy who lets others get away with dissing you? Honest question because if you answer yes to that then you should really stand up for yourself. Maybe you didn't grow up the same way I did but throughout most of my life people have said things behind my back or have said things to me from a safe distance. I'll take a jail cell feeling real satisfied but around my parts everyone hates snitches so I'm good.

>>924

This is why I ask what kind of shit talking they're specifically saying about you. Is it superficial stuff like your looks? That really depends then. If someone is really disrespecting me to my face, then my first attack would be to verbally insult them first. But if it really pisses me off then yes I would hurt someone. I would probably try to warn them though, because I don't wanna just suckerpunch someone.

Now if they're talking shit behind my back, about something really trivial, like "Anon has a big nose" or some stupid shit, I wouldn't really try to go hunt them down just for that. That would seem like a bitch move on my part. I would probably stop talking to them altogether. But if someone does say that shit to my face then yes a beating is in the realm of possibilities.

There are so many factors. When you say shit talking I don't know what you mean. Like if someone were seriously talking bad about my family, for example, then yes I think that would warrant me hunting them down and beating them. See what I mean?

>>922

>>925

Hey that's weird, I just realized that my post has the UK flag when my VPN is set to Italy.

>>925

Oh don't get me wrong I understand the difference between banter and actual intent on shit talking. I won't fight someone over banter. The shit talking I mostly hear is how people think I'm a loser for not being socially active. That I don't go out partying and getting fucked up like them is somehow weird. The fact that I won't touch weed or alcohol. The fact that I don't have every single social media account. I'm in my early 20's they're basically mad I won't do all the shit zoomers are doing these days and feel the need to put me down for it. Among other things like material possessions. The fact that I don't dress like them, have the newest phone, and don't have a car. They act like they're being genuine and are giving me advice but I can tell there's malice behind it. Like they're only pointing this stuff out because they themselves are insecure. Though at the end of the day I don't care about what they're specifically saying, if the intent behind them saying it is just to shit talk and put me down then that enough warrants a beating.

>>924

>are you a bitch made pussy who lets others get away with dissing you?

ur gonna get yourself shot lmao

>does not give a fuck

>wants to fight people

pick one

>>979

Damn, this was some of the cringiest shit I've ever posted to a chan.

Im in a similar position to OP. Such that i wonder if someone i know wrote it knowing i would reply here, just one more happening in the grand conspiracy against my greatness. Ive pretty much cut off every friend and friend group i have one by one because of an ultra materialist crab mentality that started to infect them about 5 years ago. Before that i felt everyone appreciated eachother because of the content of each others character and personality, but now its as if all the people i knew are gone. I wasnt into imageboards at all during that time but im drawn to them now. I think its because its a form of socialization where your material and societal status isnt known/doesnt matter. The raw and unfiltered part is a huge plus too because when people start getting a mass psychosis of insecurity and bucket crabbing they tend to filter everything they say to the point youre no longer talking to them just a shoddy caricature theyve carefully crafted to compete in this jewish rat race of cannibalism.

I've went from being introverted to straight out anti-social. No contact with family, no friends. I hear my coworkers talk behind my back how I smell bad. I'm not overweight or anything just sweat a lot and shower before the work, fresh clothes and deodorant don't help much. When I hear their insults I don't even feel upset, it's as if that part of my brain stopped responding to those emotions. I don't feel suicidal or even depressed, and no I don't feel like going out and shooting people like a loser faggot, I just don't give a fuck anymore.

>>980

don't cut yourself on that edge

Your words, felt like they sprung from my mind. i related a lot.

fuck them people, beat the shit out of them if you ever see them, trying to lower you just to feel better about themselves, find newer better ones, plenty of fishes in the sea.

work on yourself. fuck them up with success.

>>994

What edge? I related life reflections on a chan. It was pretty pathetic for me to post it even though it did help to vent.

>>905

ITT: OP pretends to be tough for the good boy points in hopes it makes him feel better about his sad life.

Hang in there bud it gets better and if it doesn't the business side of a 12 gauge should do the trick.

I am so tough, I am using my cat as toilet paper.

>>1005

You got it declawed first, right?