/nofap/ - Fappers Anonymous

>>15238

Because this funny thread is worth the 2 year bump

>>10664

No one is naturally homosexual. If there was a gene for homosexuality it would obviously been bred out of existence. Homosexuality is learned either through porn or sexual abuse.

If you didn't have homosexual thoughts before you started watching porn I can assure you of you go on nofap you will stop being attracted to men.

>>10245

Definitely stop watching porn dude. When you watch porn, one of three things will happen: either you self-insert as the man, or you self-insert as a third-party viewer (ie, cuckoldry/bisexuality), or you self-insert as the woman (ie, autogynephilia). You apparently self-insert as the woman, which is probably the most common of the options since most pornography focuses very heavily on the woman's pleasure, causing you to sympathize with and eventually to identify with the woman primarily. This effect is multiplied a lot when you prefer lesbian or solo pornography. Searching for porn that focuses on the man's pleasure obviously won't help you, as that runs the risk of acclimating you to full-blown homosexuality. Stop watching porn, it's the only way.

>>15246

>Homosexuality is learned either through porn or sexual abuse.

The goyim know.

>Has anyone successfully stopped thoughts of autogynephilia by abstaining from porn and masturbation?

>Every time I ride my dildo and masturbate pretending I'm a girl an intense wave of depression comes over me when once I actually cum and starkly realize that I'm not, and will never be, a pretty girl.

>I don't think I'm gay or want to be transgender, since these thoughts only started building once I was in my mid-20s, so I'm assuming it's the result of too much pornography. I'm just wondering if it is too late for me or if there's anything I can do to reverse it.

>I've accepted that I need to work harder on actually being a man, but right now my sexual desires are that of a girl's, and so I have no motivation to enact that change.

Kek

Although I never had this fetish myself, for a while I've been observing it and people involved mainly due to visiting this place. And my theory is that it is all about humiliation and just as there are lots of people who hate women but love femdom, interracial fetishists hate niggers irrationally.

Now i'm no nigger lover, but your mind is under the influence of /pol/ virus which alters your perception of reality so that you obsses about race ("racemixing is dangerous" lol) and instead of seeing a pale female monkey of a race that does better on standardized tests copulating with a darker monkey, no, you see an AryanTM goddess getting defiled by orkish creatures representing your utter impotence and failure in an attempt to save the world from jewish gobli- wake up. Unplug yourself from this toxic media environment, get out. Not saying it's necessary to go that far, but I can guarantee you that spending a few weeks away from everything, perhaps camping would solve your issues.

By becoming a racist

>>17856

I thought you already had to be a racist to be into 'blacked' stuff?

>>17749

Race mixing is scientifically proven to be bad though. Maybe not catastrophic by your definition but making a brown faced monkey that doesn’t do as well on tests as his pale faced mother will effect the quality of a society if it happens on a large enough scale. The guy who founded blacked is Jewish. Al Goldstein was the father of American pornography and said explicitly that he did it to harm white Christians. There’s quotes from “Unclean Lips” where Jewish porn producers say that pornography is a tool of social control that makes people less violent and more open to suggestion. Whether you believe that this has a meaningful impact on modern life in western countries is up to you I suppose, but it is certainly a matter of fact that their are Jewish pornography producers that believe that what they do harms white communities and admit openly that it is their main reason for doing it.

>>17686

Look man, you’re going to spend a lot of time, possibly even years, looking for “one simple trick” to fix problems like this, but at the end of it you will discover that the answer is to just stop watching it. Trust me, I know how that sounds to you right now but whether it’s interracial porn or fast food or drugs, the answer is to remove it from your life for a while, and once your brain figures out it was actually harming you, you’ll develop a distaste and avoidance of it. Do one bad habit at a time because you will have intense urges to relapse, there is no getting around that. Just do what I do and think “if I eat this burger/ jack off/ do drugs the Jews win.” Extremely motivating imo

>>17858

Wow this board is dead.

Japanese erotic doujins.

>>17858

bump

So, you feel powerful, yet also feel like a fag from not fapping? seems like a contradiction to me, don't stress too much about it, you have suffered enough, remember that fapping is a choice, and you already decided you will be better off not fapping, so just disregard the activity, don't let it occupy your mind for a moment, if you start having sexual thoughts don't entertain them for too long, accept them as they are a natural thing, just don't let them control your actions, from all that shit you indulged in while young, it's there with you and you will have to accept it, also, you will have to forgive yourself as to not let it keep controlling your life and actions, only when you accept yourself as you are know, traumas and all, you can strive to be better, and you will be if you don't continue dwelling in your past actions, you didn't kill anyone, you didn't rape anyone, you went to pull the cow's leg, reprehensible yes, but it could be worse, and you can be a lot better, remember that, and remember there's no real reason for fapping, by fapping you are extracting the very manliness from you, leaving you weaker and unmotivated to pursue the things you really want in life, that and effectively making yourself dumber and incapable of concentrating.

I've been indulging myself, fapping everyday for the last week, wasting my time, I'm 28 years old, thanks for sharing your story, reminded me of my own goals I've nee choosing to neglect, see it like this, we don't wanna enter our thirties addicted to fapping, grown man addicted to rubbing their own cocks for dopamine like laboratory rats?, no man, we can be better off.

>>17554

Thanks for the advice, I'm very grateful.

>if you start having sexual thoughts don't entertain them for too long, accept them as they are a natural thing, just don't let them control your actions

I'm currently fighting with that. Actually when I think about it, the faggotry induced out of nowhere is actually connected within the need of sex, and in that need of sex are my memories of watching shemales and stuff. You know I've been raised in 4chan and even if you pay excessive attention, weirdness catches you here but there. It goes in my subconsciousness as I guess, "I'm male and if I banished my own self for having male ways of sex, if I cannot have active pleasure, then as I know ways of passive pleasures, which do not even belong to male nature, I should use them".

I think this is the kernel thought which I should avoid and tame over time.

I quit using computer and internet regularly after opening this thread. This also seems to be quite effective. looks like it's been over 2 weeks, and once about 4-5 days ago I've got this extreme pressure of want of sexual pleasure, what you talked about above. Fought through it about an hour, tried to distract myself and kept reminding myself of reasons and not to be regretful again for few seconds of pleasure etc etc.

I've been through it and now in the last few days I've had couple of intensive headaches, which I think have to do with no fapping. I'm alright right now, whenever I have a glimpse of a sexual thought in my head, as soon as possible I think it's gross in any way and flesh is gross, it's just flesh and earthly endeavour which only animals do and I'm no human cattle.

it works. I think I can break thru this time. I'll come back sometime later. Take care anon. In anything about life, the sooner the good decision, the better everything.

>>17563

>>17550

Accept what I say is true and humble yourself.

You're an interconnected creature. If you can run well you can squat well. If you can type quickly you can flip a butterfly knife more easily. And importantly for you, if you have resolve in one part of your life it'll reach into others. Do small things that are annoying to do but are good for you (avoid sugar a few days, read a little, etc) and eventually it'll be easy for you to pick yourself up and run around the block. It'll ultimately set your sights on the long term.

The key to your gayness is incentivism, I'll explain: There's incentive in plucking hair off of a fallen piece of food and carefully cleaning it but it's not enough to outweigh the effort and loss before the gain. You can have sex with a man in the asshole but it's dirty, embarrassing, unclean, not as pleasant as a vagina, etc. Why pick clean the fallen food when you can toss it and claim an easier, greater bounty, and why approach a man when something far more pleasing is just the other way? This may seem like a parable, but just how self control grows within you, so does homosexuality. It's a behavioral disease. Identify what your habits where the gain doesn't outweigh the loss in the long term. Masturbation is one of them.

>>17550

About the bioenergy, I remember being a kid and playing Bloons Tower Defense 5 on my iPod outside in the cold, and it would be on the verge of dying, and then I'd try to warm it up with pressure from my hands, and it would actually regain a couple percent of charge. It was super weird and even then I knew there was something strange but wouldn't have guessed that. I mean maybe the heat was just making the voltage go up but not actually recharging it, but I'm still willing to give some weight to this theory as the battery seemed to be able to be kept going almost indefinitely this way rather than only going partially back up to where it went up to when I'd done it before.

just read this book:

https://easypeasymethod.org/easypeasy.pdf

and find a friend to talk to

Not bad. You're getting there, but there are holes in your concept.

You must deny yourself masturbation and mutual companionship. Orgasm is a momentary pleasure, but a happy relationship will make you soft.

It's true women are parasitic. I mean, people in general are. Men want sex, so it can be argued that they are, though women cannot maintain relationship stability so they end up destroying them with selfishness.

The layers of the matrix are deeper than you think. You woke up from a dream and you think you're in reality, but you're in another dream.

Those people on fail compilations who get injured or die for stupid reasons. People who end up being tortured and killed or imprisoned.

Pain and lack of pleasure don't cause unhappiness. You get used to them. Likewise, you get used to pleasure and lack of pain.

Why not go the other way than the hoards of people trying to make their lives better, and deny yourself everything? Test that theory, that you can never be unhappy.

We're no different than bacteria growing on a petri dish. We can never be truly happy or unhappy, thus we can make all the wrong decisions. Why be smart, why think, why even try to wake up like you say?

You're taking an inconsequential object, masturbation, and making it out to be some sort of devil. Possibly because it appears as an angel to those who don't know any better. There are no angels or devils. They are in your head.

I agree, stay away from all forms of social media. I thought I was safe on thr SFW boards on 4channope. Redditnope. All of it is designed to bury its users in a ditch of misery and dependency. Don't fall for it, anons.

Trust in the Lord Jesus Christ. He can set you free from lusts and temptations. Seek him in his word and in prayer. He will be found of you.

>>17859

Nah I check it every day. Maybe I should make a thread to get this place rollin again

Btw I am on day 2

I've been out of the loop but still come here from time to time, right now I'm gonna do some serious introspection reading my year old thread, where I was so convinced of letting go this habit, so I can't justify anymore faping as soon as I have alone time and faping before bed every night.

I still come here a few times a week. It is at least somewhere to go when the urges are there.

Nofap doesn't work, here's a free method with a much higher success rate. Quitting porn is easy boyos, you'll do well.

:https://easypeasymethod.org/

https://www.reddit.com/r/pmohackbook

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HVxWYUvXoXU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gCE5n6RGTlc

>>17859

i come here to fap to people telling me not to fap

>>17365

If's you think it's a scam, you should question what exactly you are giving up by not masturbating. Nobody is forcing you to date or get married. In fact, if you are going to deny yourself pleasure, you may as well go all the way and abstain from sexual relations with women as well as pornography and masturbation. Think of it as a well to clear your mind and build self-discipline. It doesn't have to be permanent either. Try masturbating without pornography once a month or so and see how that goes.

>>17365

wtf holy shit

>>17716

kek

>>17365

Cope

https://easypeasymethod.org/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n01zo94Fl9Y

>>17381

You argue against sexualization of society while posting a picture of a steroid user with a homosexual message?

OP is onto something. Not masturbating for ascetic reasons might be a good thing, but only after conquering other vices such as smoking, food, drinks, videogames and internet addiction.

Diogenes is said to publicly masturbate and he was known for rejecting all other worldly pleasures.

I wish broader asceticism or real stoicism (not the poker face existentialist meme) was more popular rather than nofap.

>>17779

Zinc. Take Zinc supplements and eat food high in zinc. The best way to make it past the big urges is just to tough it out, I'd play vidya or just watch TV to get my mind off those huge urges in the first tow weeks. Just remember after a month the urges become much more manageable, once you've got through those urges then you can work on yourself

zinc

magnesium

D3 & K2

chamomile, tumeric, and green tea

(decaf)

eat plenty of ANIMAL fats & proteins

all plant forms of it will decrease your

testosterone

foods:

fish (preferably salmon)

eggs

some fiber

red meat, if you're willing to wash a cast

iron skillet every day

the main issue is learning how to keep going after you fail, and improving obvious things like sleeping habits (which

will get you for sure)

Ashwagandha supposedly stimulates androgenicity way upstream on the pituitary level. Ginger root does something but no idea how.

>>17791

doesn't chamomile have phito estrogens? Maybe just take an apigenin supplement.

>>17814

Lots of plant food contain phytoestrogens including tea, chamomile, most nuts + seeds. The only sources worth worrying about (avoiding entirely) are soy and flax. The others are fine, I personally limit my tea consumption to one teapot every other day and it doesn't affect me I don't think.

https://www.dietaryfiberfood.com/phytoestrogen/phytoestrogen-food-sources.php

This shows the relative amounts in each one, the numbers speak for themselves. Just avoid soy products and flax, there are more important things to worry about diet-wise than phytoestrogens.

Recommend reading Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules book. It kind of helps you understand that morality/religion is a set of rules that humans came up very long ago as a framework for success and happiness.

Casual sex with your friend is immoral and has great risk of negative consequences. You already know that, which is why you asked.