Christmas is a good time, or at least I try to make it be one.
I'm not the cheeriest chap out there, but I think is positive, regardless of your beliefs, mood or capacity to experience innocence and naive wonder of childhood to take a while and cheer memories, friends that I think, many here know how hard those are to come by, family that we don't hate and all the things that make you warm and fuzzy inside and make you forget about how shit everything is and that of course includes poners, so hug her tight anon and cheer for a while.