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Nofap and Sex Anonymous 02/04/17 (Sat) 00:18:14 No.6587

Does anyone else have this problem? I've had sex a lot more than your average 20 year old, regularly in relationships since 15 should have married the first one I know but I didn't have a father who taught me morals, I had to learn the hard way. For this reason I'm struggling now it's looking like it might be months or years before I have sex again.

Whenever I get to around 14 days of nofap, it's like my brain is in total beast mode, and I find myself seeking sex constantly, like the rational side of my brain is just overpowered by hormones. How do I push through without falling to the degeneracy of casual sex?

I'm attractive and experienced enough to be able to find someone to fuck if I really try, and I'm almost in a trance like state where I don't realize what I'm doing until I've had my orgasm inside her and come back to a more rational state. This has stopped my semen retention spree several times now. I got a gf for a while off the back of this rampant horniness before realising what I was doing (objectively she wasn't right for me long term). Am I a sex addict? I find it pretty easy to not look at porn but the temptation to go to a club and pull someone is fucking strong when I'm just sitting with a hard dick on a Friday night trying to concentrate on a book or something.

All I want is a stable and loving relationship but I think I've trained my brain to see sex as a starting point for that. I want to be chaste now until I find a wife but I know in a few weeks I'll be so wound up that I'll jump on any opportunity, no matter how much I discipline myself now. Also the reality that finding a wife material might take years kind of contributes to the "fuck it, let's fuck" attitude when I'm super horny.

Faith and patience are what's required, but my brain loses the ability to think rationally after a while of nofap. I think the problem is knowing pussy is available if I try for it. I need a way to stop my animalistic, horny self wanting to fulfil its animal instincts I guess. Just thought I'd post and see if any anons have the same issues/have overcome this.

Pic related is something that's helping.

Anonymous 02/04/17 (Sat) 02:02:32 No.6600

Bye-bye normal fag

www.reddit.com

Anonymous 02/04/17 (Sat) 08:53:59 No.6620

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>>6587

>I've had sex a lot more than your average 20 year old

Stopped reading there.

Anonymous 02/04/17 (Sat) 09:20:29 No.6623

>>6620

Why? Only autistic virgins allowed here?

Anonymous 02/04/17 (Sat) 10:33:28 No.6628

so get married and get sex from a trusted source, what exactly is your problem?

Anonymous 02/04/17 (Sat) 12:01:20 No.6629

>>6628

I will asap it just takes time to find a good wife. In the meantime I'm nofapping and the greatest danger is I'll succumb to the temptation of casual sex, not fapping.

Anonymous 02/04/17 (Sat) 14:36:45 No.6637

>>6628

you degenerates need to stop acting like sex is something you need have. its only purpose is for procreation. (((porn))) has corrupted your mind

Anonymous 02/04/17 (Sat) 16:04:09 No.6642

>>6587

>pic related, it's my wife

AHhahahahaha what a slut, shows her tits to millions of people.

Also what is she holding? Is that supposed to signify a tit (as in, look at my tits)? A mere cookie? A vagina? A butt/butthole?

>/POL/

Wew.

Anonymous 02/04/17 (Sat) 16:11:39 No.6643

It could help to turn it into an ego game. You've already done one thing right, which is express an earnest desire to do what is right vs what feels good. Realize that this desire comes from your higher faculties of thought, the part of the brain that makes you more human. The desire to fuck comes from your reptilian brain. All sorts of animals have those desires, but only humans think and plan about the future to such a degree that they can override their impulses.

So, you may frame it as an ego check. Who is in control? Are you no better than an animal, or are you human?

Also, seek pride in doing what's good for yourself and others rather than what feels good in the moment.

Anonymous 02/05/17 (Sun) 15:38:18 No.6680

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>>6642

That bait has so low energy, even Jeb! would be ashamed of it. And I excpected nothing else from /leftypol/

Anonymous 02/06/17 (Mon) 00:43:06 No.6698

>>6642

Why do you live?

Anonymous 02/07/17 (Tue) 17:57:19 No.6756

>>6587

OP you are just a nigger that should take your 7 foot tall testosterone ridden ass back to Liberia.

Anonymous 02/10/17 (Fri) 05:43:36 No.6821

>>6587

>haven't jerked it in two weeks

>get really horny

>drink a bunch of water

>edge

>3+ hours

>still don't feel like cumming

>get bored of fapping

>hand and cock is raw, cock actually has a cut on it now

>sweat is irritating

For some reason, it seems like pre comes out only when I am not completely hydrated.

Anonymous 02/10/17 (Fri) 07:40:00 No.6824

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>Does anyone else have this problem? I've had sex a lot more than your average 20 year old, regularly in relationships since 15

Lad…

You do know where you are, right?

Anonymous 02/10/17 (Fri) 12:19:13 No.6836

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>>6680

>>6698

Pics related, it's my white aryan gf.

If you think she's a slut I'll fucking wreck ya mate >>>/leftypol/ kys you're obviously niggers >>>/africa/

Anonymous 02/10/17 (Fri) 14:07:55 No.6841

>>6836

Get a life, kid.

| 02/10/17 (Fri) 14:36:29 No.6844

>>6587

>Am I a sex addict?

Your addiction to sex is mainly driven by an overactive sex drive

>All I want is a stable and loving relationship

You better find yourself a nice christian girl who only wants to have sex for the purpose of procreation otherwise your relationship is gonna lead to sex and you can kiss your semen retention goodbye

>I want to be chaste now until I find a wife

Such a hurry to get married. You're gonna fuck your life up OP

>Just thought I'd post and see if any anons have the same issues/have overcome this

I've never seen anyone successfully fix their overactive sex drive problem. I suspect it's the main reason people fail nofap

Anonymous 02/10/17 (Fri) 15:24:19 No.6847

Haha, I havent even kissed a girl and will be 29 in may

God bless being 5'4"!

Anonymous 02/12/17 (Sun) 19:03:22 No.6943

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So you are now after living a life of degeneracy think you can just reverse gears and get the pure wife you desire? This is the fate you deserve, you chased sluts and now you are just coming to terms with how you lived your life.

Anonymous 02/13/17 (Mon) 12:12:42 No.6989

>>6836

You let your woman post pictures on the web?

Anonymous 02/13/17 (Mon) 20:48:16 No.7014

>>6943

>how you lived your life

I'm 20, not fucking 60.

>chose

Yeah, I chose to be born in the UK, the country with the highest teen pregnancy and alcoholism rate in Europe, to parents who didn't teach me any morals so I had to learn them all the hard way. Where I'm from, kids are experimenting with oral sex at 12 and getting pregnant at 14, merrily supported by the state education system who teach how to use condoms to 13 and 14 year olds, and ultra-liberal happy shitty hippy parents who are glad to see their young teenage daughters "experiencing life". I was one of the relatively "sensible" ones because I had a girlfriend and "only" at 15 did we do anything.

I don't expect a 'pure' wife as that would be hypocritical and I know I'm going to be working on myself and my resources for years until I deserve someone good. Excuse me for waking up to the degeneracy of my culture and lifestyle and trying to do something about it.

Anonymous 02/14/17 (Tue) 10:46:44 No.7038

>>6943

low test moralfag beta male detected

>hurr you managed to get laid degenerate

>durr you dont deserve to be happy again just follow my advice and lifestyle and fap to hentai for 20 years then post moral superiority on r//nofap 2.0

Anonymous 02/14/17 (Tue) 17:53:09 No.7048

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>>7014

>UK

Ah there's the problem, just assumed you were another burger my mistake. Not gonna lie it looks like you Brits are fucked, but at least you aren't Sweden or Germany. Is Brexit going to help at all or is shit too far gone by now?

Anonymous 02/14/17 (Tue) 18:07:06 No.7049

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>>7038

Anonymous 02/14/17 (Tue) 22:12:25 No.7052

>>7048

>is shit too far gone by now?

I don't know. I don't want to lose hope but anyone who's switched on knows our millennial generation is pretty much fucked. Alcohol, drugs, casual sex, blowing huge amounts of borrowed money on useless shit, and a 'yolo I don't plan for the future' no-responsibility attitude are rampant everywhere across all classes. There are doubtless clever people out there who aren't degenerates, but honestly they can't be more than 1/1000th of the population from ages 16 to 30. Rampant degeneracy is an understatement; heavy drinking, sexual deviancy, and to a large extent hard drugs are 100% part of our youth culture.

It's not like America where you have so much space. Everywhere here gets the same media, and almost everywhere is easily reachable from everywhere else. This means the city cancer spreads much faster and to an extent 'urban' culture is everywhere. Rural areas are equally amoral and most young people move to nearby cities to study or work. There are no bastions of religious morals apart from individual families, and to be a non-degenerate is seen as weird, old-fashioned, boring, and undesirable.

Therefore while I know there are plenty (maybe 60%) of good and pure 16 year olds around out there, unfortunately the chances of them making it to 21 without falling into this culture are very low (maybe 10%). At the very least I'd expect them to love drinking and have experimented sexually, probably had their hearts broken too. Given this, I can't see the next generation being anything but totally fucked up, and I have to manage my expectations.

Anonymous 02/14/17 (Tue) 23:23:54 No.7056

>>7048

Brexit is even worse than before LMAO.

>snooper's charter

>no more human rights

>no more bill of rights

>no privacy no freedoms nothing

gg no re

Anonymous 02/15/17 (Wed) 17:19:30 No.7073

>>6587

>Develop a healthy hobby

>Collect firearms

haha HAHAHAHAAH HAAHAHA

HAHAHAA

Anonymous 02/15/17 (Wed) 20:29:32 No.7079

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>>7056

>>7052

>RIP UK

Anonymous 02/16/17 (Thu) 03:45:22 No.7093

>>7052

>Alcohol, drugs, casual sex, blowing huge amounts of borrowed money on useless shit, and a 'yolo I don't plan for the future' no-responsibility attitude are rampant everywhere across all classes

That's been the US for at least 3 generations. You'll pull through.

Anonymous 02/16/17 (Thu) 07:01:05 No.7095

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>>6587

"Animal Instincts" means you need to do some sort of exercise, kiddo. Most people realize this at 20 or so, it took me until 21.

We're all animals. Think of the difference of characteristics in species that exercise and are active, and species that don't. Sex is good cardio, but what if you were doing other cardio on days you weren't having sex?

Taking walks is a good place to start. Then start running after a week or two.

Anonymous 02/20/17 (Mon) 19:12:50 No.7277

>>7095

>kiddo

>Taking walks is a good place to start

I've been training since I was 11 m8. I normally run the couple of miles to the gym every other day where I do my calisthenic routine. Probably the fittest guy on this board, which might be why the animal instincts are harder to control.

I am now seeing someone however and she knows I'm abstaining. Pretty proud of myself, and she loves it. >>7275

Anonymous 02/20/17 (Mon) 21:12:57 No.7286

>>7073

Hey, at least he is not drawing cartoons

Anonymous 02/21/17 (Tue) 00:57:36 No.7311

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>>7277

I don't care, your girlfriend is a niggerly airhead whose going out with you because you're a trendy gym homo, and dare I say a predictable normal cunt as well. Fuck out of here with your boring antics and don't blame other people for losing your virginity at 15, you degenerated Briton.

Anonymous 02/22/17 (Wed) 10:36:38 No.7393

>>7311

>a support group for getting your fap addiction under control

>support group

You're just throwing shit like some triggered ape. As if I care about an anonymous opinion on a board full of porn addicts. I'm putting this stuff down as a kind of diary that is helping me and hopefully will benefit anons from reading my experience.