Hey, /nofap/. I'm not a regular user of this board, but I am someone who has made it to 90+ days multiple times over the last ~4 years, in part thanks to boards like this one.
However, I have a problem; every time I get that far in my streak, I get incredibly horny. This typically leads to me fucking random girls I meet at bars and shit, which while it gives me a physical release, is pretty risky as far as STDs and the like are concerned.
Ideally, I'd like to quit jerking off for good, but I always end up going back to it because I figure it's better to jerk off a few times a week than it is to catch herpes. Which brings us to my question.
Is there any way to refocus all of the sexual energy nofap gives me into energy that can be used for productive things? I feel like if I can do that, I'll kill two birds with one stone; relapsing, and lack of productivity. Thanks in advance.