/nofap/ - Fappers Anonymous

Wet dreams are the mind's way of resetting. As long as you don't give it too much thought, you're fine. There's a difference between reminiscing and wishing.

Answer is no.

>>12953

Not sure how relevant I am after 7 days replying to your post, but i'll give you an honest and relatively objective view on how you should feel about that.For years your body needed to be overproductive creating the semen you unloaded mercilessly into the cosmos, and your body is STILL in the state of recovery so it is and will massively overproduce for -depending how deep you were in the pit - for a while. Years of damage can't be undone by weeks.It isn't a battle it's a campaign.

Until your body is adjusted to your healthy decision you'll have wetdreams, and you should not feel guilty, not many people can consciously control their dreams and I'm not one of them either. Also you should try flexing your penis muscles during cuming to prevent or minimise the amount of cum you lose.(I don't know the name of the muscle and I'm too tired to look it up.)

>>13004

Thank you for the insight.

Wet dreams mean you are doing good. You cant get them on fap

>>12953

It depends on the mode of nofap that you're doing. Some people count ejaculations during dreams as relapses and some of them don't. As I see it, semen retention is necessary to get the benefits of nofap, so I count it as a relapse whenever it happens. Depending on who you are, you may have to deal with lots of the kinds of dreams that typically lead towards nocturnal emissions, or you may not. If you are disciplined enough to reliably avoid relapses while awake, you can do the same while during dreams, you just have to use different techniques. I developed my own techniques by characterizing the situation as "A barely conscious, horny, low IQ idiot is soon going to be in control of my body for a while, and this is going to happen repeatedly. What memes can I reliably inject into his mind such that he is guided away from relapsing while he is controlling my body." The "part" of you that is still there in dreams is what you need to focus on reprogramming. Learning to lucid dream doesn't necessarily help with this.

>> 12956

> Wet dreams are the mind's way of resetting.

Wet dreams are your dream-self failing in the same way that your waking-self fails when you relapse while awake. Lots of people may have sex-related dreams and relapse during them, but it's still a failure.

>>13004

There's no such thing as overproducing semen. Any amount that you create gets reabsorbed if you don't waste it.

> Also you should try flexing your penis muscles during cuming to prevent or minimise the amount of cum you lose.(I don't know the name of the muscle and I'm too tired to look it up.)

Don't do this unless you know exactly what you're doing. As far as I know, and I've never tried this, the "correct" way to do it actually just redirects your semen and you pee it out later. So, you're still losing your semen. If you're past the point of no return when masturbating, don't try anything weird, just let it happen and don't do it again.

>>13050

> You cant get [wet dreams] on fap

Not true.