i can't fucking believe no one has mentioned eSuccubus yet. Most of her stuff is gender neutral and a lot of it appeals to women, because of her perspective.
Other outlets with potential for females: Fiona Clearwater, Siren (ViVe's associate), Arkadia aka Charlotte Grey, Emma Evans, Kei, Madame Y, Samantha Bandler, Miss Mary, Shelle Rivers, Ellechemy, Amethyst, Ember Larimar.
No guarantees, but that list should help narrow things down considerably!