>>15223
Not OP, but I can try to give you some perspective.
I'll start by saying I'm in a happy and committed LTR. This kink doesn't interfere with my real life and it's not something I would ever act on. So I'm not a true cuckold, I only enjoy hypno sessions. Like (I assume) most of you do, I separate my hypno kinks from "the real world."
The elements of submission and inadequacy that are found in cuckolding files are comparable to aspects of a lot of different femdom hypnosis files and the rest of the community seem to enjoy those just fine. Perhaps it's because my relationship is so secure and fulfilling that this kink really *gets* me. I like entertaining this fantasy because it's something I don't really want to experience and more than likely never will, but nonetheless the fantasy is just thrilling to me.
I disagree with it necessitating a lack of self-respect, because I feel that my comfort with my relationship is what makes it appealing to me. The feelings of vulnerability and submission are a real turn on. I could see how for some people they could be fetishizing their own failures and shortcomings, but that's not the case for myself. I don't claim to speak for everyone with this fetish but I think most would identify with my sentiment on the matter as opposed to the latter.
That being said, I think some people could be very put off by the subject matter. I don't mean to make assumptions about the types of people who so aggressively blow off this kink, but I could see this kink being unattractive to people if they lack a relationship or are insecure in their current relationship(s). Like I said earlier, it's something I enjoy because of how happy and secure I am in my relationship. It makes reveling in the fantasy that much more enjoyable.
And that's what all this comes down to: we're all members of the hypno community, to a lot of us this is all strictly fantasy. A lot of people who absolutely fucking love sissification/bimbo files don't actually go out and start identifying as female and sucking cocks.
tl;dr: it's just a kink, bro