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39a57f No.4807

I'm in a situation in which I'm raising my daughters on my own. I've got as much as the parenting stuff down as I could and thats fine, but I worry about my children not having any positive female role models in their life. My family aren't very good influences so thats out. Is this something I should worry about or am I overthinking it?

769cdc No.4819

> Is this something I should worry about or am I overthinking it?

I think you are right. Despite what it seems, sometimes it's nice to have a role model at such young age.

I grew without a father til really late, and with no male figure in my life. As such, I tended to see males with the same eyes: They were all inferior in my eyes to females.

I am not saying you need a wife. Just that your girls need to know that females could be role models too. This can be fixed with something like a TV show or movie starring a female.

Dunno if you catch my drift.


39a57f No.4823

>>4819

I get what you're saying and I wouldn't want to do the stepmother thing to them, but I'm not sure if something as impersonal as a fictional character would be enough. I've got to this point but I'm not sure how to continue.


358a9f No.4825

single parents are cancer


a798cb No.4826

There are parenting classes and developmental psychology classes out there that can help inform your next major life decisions regarding their specific needs, as well as the needs of small children in general - humans are surprisingly similar in the developmental years in aggregate.


769cdc No.4828

>>4823

> but I'm not sure if something as impersonal as a fictional character would be enough

How much time fo you children spend with fictional characters?

Most children of my generation knew and admired fictional characters. And I know even you had some that you fondly remember.

Sometimes, TV and series really are the third parent. Right behind school teachers and the actual parents.


39a57f No.4833

>>4825

;D

>>4826

I've done several a few years ago which helped

>>4828

But those same courses told me that more than a few hours of tv a week is very bad for a childs development, especially socially. I used to try going to some parent & child playgroups but I got the sense that some of the women there felt uncomfortable with a man being there, I suppose I can understand being how unusual it was.

>teachers

You might be right about this though, they're starting school soon and the teachers I've talked to seem like nice, decent people.


769cdc No.4838

>>4833

The key is not letting TV babysit them. Make it just a fun activity. Like, you and your daughters could watch TV shows and have a fun time discussing it.

For example: When my sis was 5 or so, we used to watch Digimon Adventure. After each episode, we would talk about how the episode made her feel, and what can we learn from each episode.

Kinda like when you read them a book… You do read them stories and books, right?


39a57f No.4841

>>4838

Sure, though I often make stories up on the spot and insert us into it somehow.

I think I'll take your advice and watch some shows with them, you wouldn't happen to know any that suit what I'm going for?


a798cb No.4844

>>4825

but one healthy parent can be a lot better than two who hate each other, I will tell you.

> I got the sense that some of the women there felt uncomfortable with a man being there,

Are you aware of your body language? If you give yourself an aura of submissiveness and a quiet demeanor while being friendly and distant with the other children, they will warm up to you guaranteed, after which you can drop the act once they know you're not a threat. Humans are pack animals, and there are rules, much like when dogs greet each other.

t. metalhead who wears black/leather jackets but loves chatting with soccer moms about cross-stitching and taking care of plants

>>4841

>I often make stories up on the spot and insert us into it somehow.

This is great. Seriously, keep it up. Do be sure to gradually move over to books, though. Being exposed to words you would not personally use, and interpreting sentence structures of all types help to broaden their intuitive grasp of the language,

e.g. writing "I play ball real good" doesn't "feel" right to people who have been exposed to books whose authors are competent at technical English vs. kids who were only exposed to the vernacular of their region.


769cdc No.4846

>>4841

No idea with series. Think of all you have watched and analyze it throughly.

Short books tho, I suggest "Max & Lili". French book that talk about things children need to know, and even serious topics.


39a57f No.4847

>>4844

>Are you aware of your body language?

I honestly never even considered this, but thinking bad I didn't act any differently than how I normally would, perhaps that was the issue? We do read books though they're usually quite simple, I'll try moving onto something with a bit more of a story. Thanks for your help.

>>4846

I'll give it a look and have a think, I feel like I've got some direction from this, thank you for your input.


7ed9dc No.5025

File: afd9a4229a42a59⋯.jpg (44.43 KB, 340x565, 68:113, 1 (2).jpg)

>>4819

>This can be fixed with something like a TV show or movie starring a female.

(Anime is God's punishment to America.)

769cdc No.5027

>>5025

Well, maybe not fixed but still.

You fail to realize how easy to influence children really are. Any kind of stimulation (both negative and positive) affects them deeply in one way or another. Even TV shows.


7ed9dc No.5049

>>5027

Children are easily influenced, which is exactly why you keep them far away from jewish propaganda


e79794 No.5052

>>5049

That was a nice Jewih boogeyman.

6/10


a798cb No.5113

File: fe8bd0f791d244d⋯.jpg (41.94 KB, 248x252, 62:63, 1431918564301.jpg)

>>5025

>(Anime is God's punishment to America.)

This is one of the best ban statements I've ever seen. Bravo, BO. Also, I think we did it - I think we brought the board back!


769cdc No.5133

>>5113

I see an influx of shitposts so yeah, we are back at full force.


2f85c9 No.5330

File: 8664bcea5bfc76a⋯.webm (2.21 MB, 640x360, 16:9, anime bear training.webm)

>>5025

>(Anime is God's punishment to America.)

I used to say "Japan's revenge for Hiroshima." Except I've started actually watching some with my daughter and some are quite well done.

>>5113

>This is one of the best ban statements I've ever seen.

Yeah, SG's got some bantz. Not like those hacks at /pol/. "Chronic Shitposting" is not an explanation.


769cdc No.5332

>>5330

>Except I've started actually watching some with my daughter and some are quite well done.

Sturgeon's Law. Never forget Sturgeon's Law.

I love Digimon. It just happens to be a Japanese anime.


2f85c9 No.5334

File: 2ca24c87883e0e0⋯.gif (30.31 KB, 369x356, 369:356, Gigimon_t.gif)

>>5332

>Sturgeon's Law

"90% of everything is crap." Got it. 10% is still a lot of watchable anime, and at least it's not as pozzed as current year's western animation.

>>5332

>I love Digimon. It just happens to be a Japanese anime.

I always preferred it to that copy of Digimon, because it was a symbiotic partnership rather than some sort of demented cockfighting. The kids fed the Digimon, the Digimon protected the kids. I haven't seen past the Guilmon season, but I enjoyed the first two/three. The games aren't as much fun, though, I'm afraid. The later ones are on Netflix and I just haven't found the time.


2f85c9 No.5337

File: 49c2132cee57e15⋯.png (1.55 KB, 240x240, 1:1, pokemonmutant1.png)

>>5334

>that copy of Digimon

You installed a word filter for p o k e m o n? You made me look like a petulant weeb.


769cdc No.5339

>>5337

Probably.

Also the Digimon games are good. Dont compare them to copy-the-same-formula-over-and-over monsters.


2f85c9 No.5341

>>5339

Can you recommend one, then? The two I've tried were on the dull side.


769cdc No.5342

>>5341

Digimon World, Digimon Re:Digitize, Digimon Re:Digitize Decode and Digimon World Next 0rder.

They follow the Digimon basics. And Digimon World has aged well (except for the CGI cutscenes, those are terribly awful and can give you eye cancer)


2f85c9 No.5346

File: 6af39c4ef31d4f4⋯.png (14.37 KB, 640x480, 4:3, 216844-a-collection-of-act….png)

>>5342

Thanks. Will go looking for them.

>(except for the CGI cutscenes, those are terribly awful and can give you eye cancer)

I grew up on ColecoVision and Atari 2600. I'll manage.


ee3c27 No.5483

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>>5332

>>5334

Digimon has one of the best fictional female role models in it too.


103592 No.5490

>>5483

Digimon are genderless you FUCK.


ee3c27 No.5502

>>5490

Doesn't that mean they can take on any gender they want though?

Renamon is canon feminine everywhere except Germany


769cdc No.5547

>>5502

Uhmmm. Well, yeah, you twar.

Digimon lack gender on any media except Digimon Xros Wars and Digimon Xros Hunters. A Digimon can show tertiary sexual characteristics, but they are by no means male or female. They are just a recollection of data.

Renamon herself explains it in Digimon Tamers. And Digimon official materials usually refer to Digimon as "it".

In some games, you can also own Digimon who behave in a girly manner (Leomon, Beelzebumon, Wargreymon, Ogremon), while having others behave like manly men (Lilimon, Lilithmon, Archnemon). Like in Digimon Story DS and Digimon Dawn and Dusk.

I always get a lady Ogremon in Digimon Story.

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7b8e78 No.5705

If they're not retarded then they won't really need role models.


d46b61 No.6065

>>4819

>This can be fixed with something like a TV show or movie starring a female

Only if you want her to grow up to be a total degenerate. You should avoid letting your kids watch tv as much as possible.


b8f698 No.7772

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>>4807

>I'm in a situation in which I'm raising my daughters on my own

First of all, that's not merely a "situation"; it's a privilege and a responsibility. You seem to already know that.

t. a single father with 2 daughters, aged 16 and 14, who has been doing this single parenting thing for almost 14 years now.

You Can Do It!

I did not drag a bunch of girlfriends into my daughters' lives, and you seem to have the same mindset. I figure I can date again when they grow up and move out. It hasn't been easy, and still isn't, but it was the right decision for my little family. I also worried about female role models, but I have many female friends who have been there for that, and, as my girls have gotten older, they have made friends who have good female role models in their lives.

May I ask how old your daughters are? I ask because, in many ways, the younger years are easier wait for the teenage years!, but each age has its own complications. I have been followed home a couple times and had the cops called on me at least 8 times (that I can remember) by nosey bitches who could not imagine two young girls being cared for by a tall neckbeard with no woman around! This only happens when they're young.

The best part of being a single father with daughters is you can raise them how you choose, and help them to become better women than the vast majority of women out there. There is no one to tell you, "No. You can't do that." Case in point, I chose to home school all the way through, and still am.

>in b4 Christfag. Definitely not. Just disconcerted with public education.

Home school allows me to provide experiences and activities that most kids only dream of. My girls are heavily involved in community theatres and singing groups, and their schedule is flexible enough to be a part of things most kids can't be a part of or experience. I'm taking both girls with me on a 5 month trip through Thailand, India, Nepal and Tibet during this school year, and they will gain much life experience and real education during this time.

>in b4 but I don't have much money!

I live at 1/3 the poverty level. If I can do this anyone can. Most never will. Ask yourself what is most important to you. If it is raising your daughters to the best of your ability, then do that. I am. You can too. You don't have to go about it the way I have, but, by all means, do what is best for them. Only you know what that is. Don't let other people's judgments affect your parenting behavior.

Good Luck and many Blessings on your journey, my man.

>in b4 Reddit spacing

Reddit spacing is a double space between each sentence, not between paragraphs.

>in b4 fuck your wall of text! can I get a tl;dr?

Nah. You're in it for the long haul.


3bdbc5 No.7822

File: 77b8af87647ab24⋯.jpg (18.13 KB, 375x327, 125:109, 1388316102242.jpg)

>>5547

>lady Ogremon


3bdbc5 No.7823

>>7822

>that flag

Heh, sorry about that.




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