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>you will never have socially awkward, depressed furry bf
;_; I feel so lonely
▶ No.71278>>71279 >>71302 >>72931
It's a tragedy really that there are so few socially-awkward depressed single guys in this fandom looking for a girlfriend like me. Well, we can always hope one might some day come along (˶◕‿◕˶✿)
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>tfw your neighbor's dog will never rape my face
why even live?
▶ No.71284>>71290 >>71292 >>71302 >>71543
>>71279
In that case the moderator of >>>/eerie/ is single furry depressed socially awkward gay looking for a boyfriend. He's not bad looking in his videos either. Go start a relationship with him.
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>>71284
that'd be cool but I'd want to hug someone and he probably lives i America and I'm from eastern Europe.
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>>71284
>He's not bad looking in his videos either
Oh? Where can I find them?
▶ No.71302
He has a youtube channel, I think. If you dig around in >>71284 I'm sure there's a link in there. Or if you just ask him for it in any of his threads.
>>71284
>>71278
Are there two of you using this name? Why?
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>>71277 (OP)
Fuck I forgot to respond to the thread topic. Statistically, I'm sure that's the major demographic of the western fandom. I'm sure you'll find someone given enough time. On the other hand, looking for a furry gf seems to be much harder.
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▶ No.71468>>71471 >>71543
>>71277 (OP)
Fetishizing mental illness is for tumblrites anon
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>>71468
I'm not fetishizing anything, I'm shy as fuck and depressed and I just want someone who's like me. I'm never comfortable around "normal" people. That's why I don't have friends. I believe that if I knew people like me, I'd be comfortable around them.
▶ No.71543>>72623
>>71284
>looking for a boyfriend
most bizarre bullshit i've seen people make up about me in all my years here. that was a good one.
im already in a happy relationship with a fictional character and im volcel as fuck otherwise. im misanthropic. and im so mentally ill i'm not sexually attracted to human beings and haven't been since i first started masturbating. a 10/10 roman god could swing his ass in my face and i wouldnt care.
>>71468
hanging out with normalfags is about the most unfulfilling and disgusting thing a mentally ill person can do. you're better off just hanging out with a 13 year old girl, they give about the same life advice as a 20-30 year old normalfag. "you just need to be more confident bro". they have no empathy for fuck ups and think mental illness is just a switch you can turn off at any time and that you're simply retarded for not doing so.
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>>71277 (OP)
Where'd you get the image?
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>>71277 (OP)
You say that, but, seriously, a relationship is a union of the heart and a promise to elevate one another, but it's very possible instead to go into a relationship making it a crutch for your personal lingering issues or, worse yet, a way of taking your own personal issues out one way or another. You need your partner to be capable of emotional integrity, and you need to be capable of emotional integrity yourself, and while I can understand there being a certain positive mindset loosely associated with the image of the person who's socially awkward and depressed, those qualities themselves are problems you'd either want your partner to not have or that you'd want your partner to be able to work themselves out of in entering into a relationship with you, definitely not as something you'd want to define a relationship in the terms of.
▶ No.71581>>71624
>>71277 (OP)
I'll be your BF, fam. I'm pretty much that. Would be nice to have someone to hang out with again.
▶ No.71624>>71629
>>71581
how does it work, can we hug now?
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>>71624
As long as it doesn't last more than ten seconds, sure famalam. You bring the vidya, I'll bring the snacks, we'll make a date outta it.
Snuggling, on the other hand, can last as long as you'd like, I reckon.
▶ No.71634>>71649 >>71680
>>71629
snuggling with someone and playing video games all day is literally my biggest dream
▶ No.71638>>71643
>>71277 (OP)
>you will never have me as a furry bf and I'm incredibly socially awkward
How does THAT make you feel?
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▶ No.71649>>72113
>>71634
Then do it. Shoot for the stars. You are amongst multiple people on an image board who do the exact same thing, and want the same thing.
Problem is, it means breaking anonymity, which personally freaks me out a bit myself. Here on a Japanese Fishing Board, you can stay private, and still talk with others. Yet the moment you put the actual you out there, you run the risk of everything being dumped if something should go wrong.
I'm afraid, personally. I don't know about you. Are you willing to take that sort of leap to talk to a person on a Taiwanese Knitting Board?
Because I wouldn't mind at all someone to cuddle with while slashing away at fridge heads on Warframe, or fucking about with a new build on one of the Dark Souls games.
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>>71643
Forgot to mention I'm also depressed.
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>>71669
Sorry to hear that man. Recommend the 4AM threads on /v/. Nice guys. Just don't go swinging the fact your a furry around. Helped me in my time of need.
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>>71634
trying to play videogames while someone else is also playing videogames is super cancer, believe me.
you will never get any personal quiet time to just be immersed in something or to talk to your friends on voip. dont even get me started on trying to talk to people on voip while someone else is also doing the same thing in the same room.
▶ No.71733>>71735
I have a boyfriend who's exactly like this. It isn't worth it. The existential dread and lack of connection hurts in him in a very deep way, to the point where it explodes out into anxiety and angst, beyond the help that my mere love can give him.
I wouldn't trade him for the world, but don't kid yourself and think loving a roughed up person is some sort of hidden ideal.
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>>71733
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▶ No.71737>>71765
>tfw cant find a single clingy socially awkward depressed furry bf
▶ No.71755
> TFW Socially Awkward and Depressed dude that can't find a BF
▶ No.71756>>71762 >>72113
>no bf that just wants to laugh at lolcows, watch anime, play video games, and shitpost on forums with me until we get banned, then hold me down and nip at my neck while growling in my ear while fucking me until I pass out
▶ No.71762>>71766
>>71756
Sounds like an incredibly unfulfilling life, anon
Got any hobbies or passions?
▶ No.71763
Well at least i know that i am the kink of some anons around the world, lmao.
▶ No.71765
>>71737
People WANT clingy? I always end up alone because I'm clingy.
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>>71762
A very fulfilling life, just not a very consistent one. Life as an RPN taking on secondary RN roles is filled with periods of restless intensity followed by periods so devoid of momentum that time feels like it's stopped. I don't think I'm capable of carrying a genuine relationship, though.
▶ No.71767>>72036 >>72059 >>72253
>>71678
I'm sure that helps considering my dream was to be a game designer, so I studied and shit but it turned out it's all about profit and making stupid shit for stupid people, not actually making cool things up. And then I never got a job in the industry, not even as a community manager or social media manager and now I got NOTHING.
I will die poor and alone.
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>>71767
I wish I could hug you
▶ No.72059>>72074
>>71767
>I'm an idea guy pls gib me moni
▶ No.72074>>72138
>>72059
Lol no - but ironically, those "idea guys" work at the industry unlike me. Those dumb fucks who present their new project but all they show is lore and no business system and gameplay.
Where did I go wrong?
Hell, I know someone who hates every movie and videogame (teh edge), he e.g. said that Uncharted 2 sucks because he never managed to finish the tutorial level. That guy works at a large streaming channel that runs 24/7 and has his own shows there.
I studied aside with people who didn't even finish school or skipped the entry test because they "had no time".
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▶ No.72113>>72251
God dammit reading this thread is reaaaally making me want to put myself out there, but like >>71649 said it's sketchy as fuck. For the most part I've gotten better though, but I know a lot of you would still at least want to talk with somebody about how you're feeling. I know I did. It doesn't help either that the last time I tried doing anything with anybody, I had a nasty scare that lasted an entire year that's still stuck in the back of my mind even though it thankfully turned out to be nothing.
Warframe/DS and chill sounds fuckin amazing, too. So does >>71756 especially the neck biting part god damn
▶ No.72138
>>72074
Unfortunately we don't live in a meritocracy. If you want to be noticed, you have to talk to people and make contacts and pull strings. Doubly so if you're in a very oversaturated market like game design.
Find some other way to break into the industry. I'm a tools programmer for vidya and they're way more in demand.
▶ No.72212>>72215
>>71277 (OP)
that's me to a T. although i don't let the few friends that i have know that i'm depressed
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>>72212
take away the bulge and that'd be me uwu
▶ No.72217>>72218
>>71277 (OP)
sauce?
I don't give a shit about your problems, go whine to your therapist
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>>72217
oh no, this anon doesn't care. i guess that means no one does.
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▶ No.72251>>72282
>>72113
R-Really anon? I mean if you are still around, and want to do a thing n' hang out on discord or sometime...
This is going to end terribly, innit'? But my need for finding someone with roughly the same interests overpowers such want to avoid these dangers.
Also, yeah. Anon with the advice here. You have a discord or something? We can just game n' chill for a few days or something.
▶ No.72253>>72299
>>71767
Sometimes, adjusting yourself to fit with the growing trend of the world is the only way to breach into the sector you want to be in.
Not all of us can do that, it's true. I couldn't myself, and dropped that dream. Seems I do that with most aspirations after seeing what actually goes on behind the scenes.
Don't give up. Do it. Push through the bullshit. Master it. Overcome it. Gain the resources you need.
And when the time comes, split from it. Gather your resources, the connections you made, the people you got to know. Bring them in, and make the project you dream of. Be the one who shakes off the shackles, and makes something for the ages.
I might be a depressed arse who spends most of his time working retail, and playing Warframe now, but I believe in you Anon. You can do it. You can be better than me. I know it.
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>>72251
Here goes nothing
Grandma#6891
Don't expect me to get back to ya quickly if you find this today, heading off for a closing shift soon
▶ No.72283
What's with all of the spoilers?
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>>72282
I'll toss you an invite later tonight. Running a 2-11 shift now. Shit is p' bad.
▶ No.72286
I'd settle for a furry bf in general tbh. Everyone around where I live is either so deep in the closet they're halfway to Narnia or not a furry. I'd settle for an online guy too, just someone to chat and be lewd with or something would go a long way.
Though I'd prefer someone who was into shitposting, anime and vidya, all that shit'd be nice too.
▶ No.72299>>72335
>>72253
Recently I'm streaming more often with a friend and realize how my creativity massively flows back. Only sitting around alone makes you dumb and sucks out your ideas.
Motivated as hell to get shit going. I even have a webcomic idea which doesn't waste too much efford if it fails and is uncreative and hilarious at the same time enough that casualfags would suck my dick for it. I'll be the heir of Weaver.
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>>72299
That's good to hear. Keep it up man. Interaction with others does push one forward.
Have a cutiecario for a job well done. And some imaginary headpats.
Fuck, now I want headpats. I miss those days when I got headpats for good work.
▶ No.72339>>72435
So, this sorta turned into a mix between a meetup thread, and a 4AM thread. Should we make this pretty much the first official 4AM help thread of /fur/?
▶ No.72346>>72354
depression and existentialism are hitting me hard and I'm rapidly losing the motivation to do anything. i've been unintentionally psyching myself out of furry shit recently which has furthered my depression as well. im losing myself and my grasp on anything sensible
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>>72346
Maybe a break from the fandom will do you some good. Take a break for a few days, play some vidya. Read a book. Take a walk.
Hang in there anon.
▶ No.72375>>72439
why is everybody here a whiny little bitch?
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>>72339
4AM is fucking cancer
▶ No.72439>>72686
>>72375
whining about whiny bitches makes you a whiny bitch too
▶ No.72450>>72554 >>72615
>>71277 (OP)
If you don't mind plain/ugly people you have a non-issue. If you want a sexy, socially awkward, depressed furry bf, your options get slashed, since most attractive furries will manage to be either not depressed by the statistics alone or not social awkward because being hot greases the wheels a good bit.
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>>72450
thats what you think
t. reasonably attractive male who missed out on many a gf unless they asked outright during school and at work because socially awkward
▶ No.72615
>>72450
I'm scared of good looking people
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>>71543
>im already in a happy relationship with a fictional character and im volcel
/thread
anyone who doesn't do this is a fucking faggot
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>>72439
I've faced real adversity in my life, bitch, I have real, actual problems to deal with, I don't have time to be a little fucking faggot who whines about being "depressed" or suffering from some made up mental illness that doesn't exist, like "anxiety", I have to tie shit down, I don't have the privilege of being a giant fucking baby.
How about you go out in the world and actually do shit instead of just sitting on your ass being a useless faggot? "Depression" is the biggest load of bullshit I've ever heard of, you're a middle class millennial, you have it better than 90% of people in the world, you have no fucking right to bitch about how oh so god damn fucking miserable you are, harden the FUCK up.
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>>72686
t. angsty child with no perspective on life
▶ No.72849>>72875 >>72879 >>72908 >>72944
Are any of the thirsty anons in here female or is it just a sausage fest?
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>>72849
Definitely sausage fest
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>>72849
What do you think Anon?
▶ No.72931
>>71278
I used to have a socially awkward, depressed furry gf. On paper we should have been a perfect match but we had too many issues that we couldn't resolve. We were friends for a long time, we still talk sometimes but post-breakup it was kinda bad.
I still miss her
Sometimes I want to give it another shot with her
I know it would end in disaster again so I've never brought it up
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>>72849
Females are fucked up
▶ No.72962
>Socially awkward for most of life
>Got so used to it I can spend entire weeks without saying a word and it wont affect me
HOWEVER
>When im around someone I like I become way too hyper and talkative to the point of annoyance
>Thanks to this overthink lots of garbo
>Still want a bf though
I'm trying my dandiest to iron out the kinks of my personality so I can make my future bf as happy as possible but at the same time the fear I'll be too much of a retard and never even find someone is starting to close in.
>>72686
I've tried this coping tactic where I convince myself depression isnt real and use anger to try and overcome it. But be careful anon, this kinda thing only lasts for so long before it becomes too much and the floodgates are forced open and all your repressed emotions start hitting you in waves making you even more depressed than anybody else here. You also become a massive asshole and kill any hopes of a relationship when your partner inevitably comes to you for emotional support and you can't offer anything for them.
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>>72686
>"Depression" is the biggest load of bullshit I've ever heard of, you're a middle class millennial, you have it better than 90% of people in the world, you have no fucking right to bitch about how oh so god damn fucking miserable you are, harden the FUCK up.
Depression is something that predates millenials. It's even something that manifests itself in animals.
A good example is monkeys get depressed. And they noticed when monkeys get depressed it's usually for very specific reasons. Like in their social hierarchy there's a rigid structure, there's always a monkey at the top and one at the bottom. And they noticed that monkeys get depressed when their social standing is challenged in some way and they don't do anything about it. It's essentially akin to an intellectual surrender.
Intellectual surrender is a very good characterization of depression. And most people who are depressed surrender before they are actually defeated because they're afraid of trying and failing at something. Which are hard skills to learn and can't be learned by just telling someone to "harden the fuck up"
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>>72686
>brain chemistry don't real
▶ No.73032
>>72686
this isn't a competition. get lost.
▶ No.73089
Is this one of the threads where /pol/ implies depression doesn't exist?