/fit/ - Fitness, Health, Exercise, Dieting, etc

>>133798

It certainly is good as a list of warning signs. Sorry, I must have misunderstood your post though, it's just that I got the initial impression you were trying to advocate just forgetting about her as of now.

She and I are still undecided as of now, so who nows, it could end up great, or just a painful falling out.

Ok broberg, if you want my take on it: Seems like she's giving you the old "I need time"/"I experienced X in the past and this is somehow your problem", and I would back out if I was you. Based on my past experiences, women say this when they're not that into you but they want you to stick around and try a little more so she can feel important. If she's legit, she'll get back to you on her own and then you can still decide whether you want to continue seeing her. But until then, I'd just keeping looking elsewhere. Sorry.

>>133801

I should also add, that she did explicitly say on our second date that she likes me and would like to get to know me more, we spent around 4-5 hours talking while bar hopping that night. Overall, it was a pretty good date, even if she didn't reciprocate my feelings that night.

She hasn't said that she needs time, but I'm just getting the feeling that she's conflicted at the moment on how she wants to go.

>>133802

Tbf, she avoided you on valentine's day which is an indirect yet very clear message.

I don't really care. I'm not in a point in my life where I can have a relationship, I'm waiting for foreskin regeneration first. There's no point until then. I've had opportunities with two seemingly perfect girls, and it hurts to think about. But it wouldn't work, not now.

>>133794

>she's just gotten out of a long relationship and doesn't want to go out this week

Sounds like rejection to me, tbh fam.

>>133797

My advice is to avoid one-itis in this case. Especially if she's playing the "I need time" game. She sounds like she's keeping you on the line as a backup plan. You made your intentions clear, but she's not invested enough.Get another girl in your life and make sure the original knows about her, she'll probably change her tune.

Source: Played girl's games in the past. Lost. Don't make that mistake.

>>133794

Oh, and fuck V-day hopelessness. V-day is for basic dudes who have no idea how to romance a girl on any other day of the year and need a reminder to get off their fat asses and buy a box of chocolates at Walmart on the way home from work.

> went out on a few dates

> falling for her

> heavy feels and life lesson imminent

Women are tricksters. She's keeping you around for her ego while she bides her time for a more ideal man to take her to Pound Town.

>>133808

The aussie speaks the fak'n truth, cunt.

I don't get the point of valentines day. I'm married. It's like the holiday doesn't even exist.

Still picked up a bag of Australian strawberry licorice on my way home because fit husband doesn't like sweets.

>>133810

Nice larp

>>133810

>>>/cuteboys/

also, licorice is estrogenic and thus not /fit/-approved

the gym was almost empty tonight. there was one guy that's usually there on his own, tonight he came with a date. to the gym. thanks bud.

anyway, i'm getting really bitter famalam and it feels like that type of bitterness you can't shake off anymore. i've had all kinds of fucked up experiences in my past dating and social life. i got so fed up with it that at some point i just bailed and stopped pursuing women, started avoiding people in general. i've been living in this bubble for 5 years and it's like i'm too far gone to go back tbh. i'm not autistic (at least that's what several therapists have told me), i'm just horribly socialized and i feel paralyzed in socially overwhelming situations because i spend most of my time alone.

>>133815

Don't get bitter, just get better. I've been in a similar situation to you and it's not hopeless. I know exactly what you mean about the social anxiety, but confidence there is key as well as maintaining your frame of mind. As long as you like you and you don't care too much about others' opinions, you can survive. Get a little loud and a little passionate about something and people will think you're a total extrovert.

Also, since you're in the gym you gotta be in decent shape. As long as you have that, at least one decent hobby and a plan for the future, you should be able to bag a girl. Just avoid the damn thots.

>ask girl from one of my classes out for coffee on Tuesday, in said class

>says yes, gives me her number and agrees to meet

>Valentine's Day

>get to the meeting spot just in time

<straight outta the gym lel

>she meets me a couple of minutes later

>"anon I… didn't realize what day it actually was today, I have a bf"

We went and got coffee anyway because I didn't want to be an asshole but fuck me I just can't find any single women I swear

>>133807

Honestly this, fam. If you've been in a long term relationship you know it is just another celebration.

>>133794

I've been single for about a year, got out of a ~6 year long relationship. Haven't tried to get women since, I'm looking to get /fit/ before I bother trying again, got some girl to compliment me yesterday out of the blue. Though, she wasn't really good looking tbh but I'll take the ego boost.

>>133807

This guy is right, it really doesn't matter. Just some corporate bullshit meant to nag Joe Six-pack a little more.

>>133826

>We went and got coffee anyway because I didn't want to be an asshole but fuck me I just can't find any single women I swear

She was the asshole for not letting you know she had a boyfriend. Don't be a cuck.

>>133854

It's not like I'm going to want anything to do with her outside of class again though

>>133797

>>133796

>>133798

A lot of what you people call MGTOW now is what men have always talked between themselves about.

>>133819

that's a great start, don't give up now.

>>133861

There are a lot of truths to some MGTOWs. Terrence Popp is a good example of a justified MGTOW. He tried his best to be a husband and father and got put through Hell instead.

Lots of other MGTOWs are just incels who are bitter about females. They're reverse feminists.

>>133860

Good, that broad is trash for agreeing to that with you in the first place. She knew what day it was, girls don't forget. She just wanted the ego boost.

>>133866

While many are bitter being MGTOW as a man makes sense.

Being a feminist as a man is completely illogical and equals being against yourself.

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