>>131784
Go celibate.
At the end of the day, you can ask, she can lie.
I'm celibate, I have a complex with sex and hygiene. Specifically I never saw anal as appealing which guys around me found weird, and I never wanted to kiss a girl who sucked a dick.
You rule out blacks, but why are you ok kissing a place where another mans dick has been?
Sure it was years ago (maybe) but that's the mouth you kiss on your wedding, or the one kissing your kids before bed.
Maybe it's because my standards are higher, but when you do go celibate you eventually stop giving a fuck because you accept its permanent.
On the bright side if atheists are right, it's temporary suffering. Dignified lonely death > dying with your wife, and semen on your lips.
Also that "my gf is a gainz goblin" thread solidifies I made the right choice.