I just read Finding Love Through Female Dominaition by Renee Lane. I wish an interested woman would read it and get back to me about having such a relationship. I doubt I could go as far as the man in this book but I’d like to start the journey. You can read Ms Lane’s book on Amazon Books for three bucks with the Kindle app. Well worth it. It was brilliant, crazy, intense, and a must have for anyone who is genuinely kinky. It's like reading "Venus in Furs" but as told from Wanda's perspective. Renee Lane does not write with quite the introspective elegance of Sacher-Masoch, but she writes well enough, and she definitely gets her point across. If Masoch is a crop, Ms. Lane is a cane. The scenes with her and Butler are the high points, and that rabbit hole just gets deeper and longer. Ms. Lane is a renegade, an outlaw, and this book isn't for the rule-book waving scolds who endlessly chant their "Safe-Sane-Consensual" mantra; but it deserves to be read. Ms. Lane is earnest in her pursuit of her goal–and Butler always has a choice–even is we all know what he's going to choose. It's consensual, broadly. And, mostly safe. I say sane, but that's up for grabs. She is all over the boundary lines, and that's what makes it a fine and fun read. Ms. Lane has told a dark and little understood truth about who we are. Also, unlike most books in the genre, it ends in love. There is no doubt that Ms Lane and her slave are a real couple. I've communicated with her on Fetlife. Read the book and please get back to me if you liked it. I'm ready to start.