No.404884
Just wondering, what if I find the cute boy of my dreams and we fall in love and want to be together forever, what happens when he hits like 25 and starts looking like any other man and isn't the cute boy anymore? Will it not matter to me what he looks like after so long, has anyone else been here? I am pretty cute myself but I've always focused on being with a cute boy instead of being one myself, I don't really care what I look like. I don't look at porn of myself after all, I don't imagine myself cuddling myself to sleep each night.
and suppose I still do love him and want to be with him, but I still like looking at cute boys. Would it bother him if I was looking at cute boy porn regularly, would it bother me if I felt like I was missing out. Just how important is it to identify as or be with someone who is a cute boy.
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No.404885
>>404884
Idk, you could always find a new one.
But fyi good idea to stay out of the sun and not drink in the meantime. These things are shit for skin and hair and body.
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No.404889
>>404884
>Will it not matter to me what he looks like after so long, has anyone else been here?
That heavily depends on whether or not you actually love the person you have chosen to spend the rest of your life with, or if you only wanted to be with them because of a sexual preference/fetish for younger, boyish men. If it's the former, then congratulations: you found true love. If it's the latter, then you're just chasing after a carnal desire that has no real emotional connection; it is purely hedonistic. It's for this reason that a lot of religious types want to get rid of the gays, by the way.
>I don't really care what I look like.
then why should you care what the person you love looks like?
>>404885
>find a new one.
this makes perfect sense if your partner is only for sex.
However this isn't straightforward if you actually have a real emotional connection. You probably won't find that it easy to just go out and find another person to love, especially if it means breaking the heart of the person you already said you loved.
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No.404891
>>404889
>It's for this reason that a lot of religious types want to get rid of the gays, by the way.
It's because buttsex is gross and/or they find gayness confusing or threatening tbh. The deeper repulsion has a fundamental connection to a straightforward fear of same-sex-relations moreso than it does any other moral crusade that gets tacked on to justify it. It's mostly a combination of sexual confusion and devotion to doctrine.
t. has had sex with a devoutly religious person who became viscerally terrified afterwards that God was literally punishing him for the act itself
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No.404894
>>404884
If you're asking this you probably never loved him at all
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No.404898
>>404894
That's probably true. If I stayed boyish, but was scarred in an accident 7 years later, I'd hope that he loved me enough to not just leave me. And that I find someone who I will love no matter what they look like.
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No.404902
>>404884
>t. has had sex with a devoutly religious person who became viscerally terrified afterwards that God was literally punishing him for the act itself
sounds like there's a story here
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No.404903
This is the reason that I can't go into a relationship. Sadly I've been much more empathic and caring so much about other people feeling. I really miss my brat time, I just was a selfish, apathetic and proud boy, my life was much better because I just cared about me. Today I'm a faggot that care about other people feeling and wan't hurt them feeling even that hurt me.
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No.404913
>>404903
I never lived like that kind of brat, unfortunately.
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No.404922
Suppose you do meet him, you should at least tell him this is a very real possibility so that you don't waste 7 years of his life
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No.404937
>>404902
There is, but I honestly shouldn't tell it.
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No.404945
>>404884
love doesnt last just become a hermit and learn to live by yourself
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No.404989
>>404884
This'll sound crazy, I'm sure, but I'm anon, so who cares, right? Learn to energy manipulate. Teach your partner to energy manipulate, things like telekinesis and low level telepathy (sorta what I would term everything between empathic telepathy and explicit telapthy), and learn to affect reality with your intention.
It'll exercise your energy body, which is almost always neglected by people. I can only theorize, but I think that's something that has kept me looking young. I'm almost 30, but people still ask if I'm really 18. Search for something along the lines of "Psion's handbook by Peabrain"
The source of all psionic abilities. In the same way that you can move things telekinetically or influence people telepathically, you can have an effect on your aging process (at least in theory).
I've gotta go, but I'll fish out the ebook and post it when I get back…
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No.404990
Reality manipulation seems to be the source of all psionic abilities*
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No.404997
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No.405008
>>404997
Oh believe me, lots of weird things happen in my life.
Here's a link to the ebook https://megaupload.nz/haBfc9U1md/psions_handbook_pdf
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No.405340
>>405008
okay so I used the book, but now I look *too* young. I was hoping to look about 16 but now I look 12, how can I reverse it and add 4 more years?
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No.405361
>>404989
>I got fortunate with genetics and live a reasonably healthy lifestyle but it must be these magic powers I've concocted in my head
Reality doesn't work that way, anon. You're just confirmation biasing your way into delusion
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No.405362
>>405340
Have you tried aging?
>>405008
Weird things happen in my life too, but there's nothing psychic about it. Just a load of bad decisions and a pot of bad luck.
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No.405524
then is it really love?
if their appearance is a deal breaker for you after 7 years, do you really love them?
is love as superficial as 'they lost their looks so i lost my feelings' ?
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No.406942
If you're going to spend the rest of your life with someone which could be like 70 years, and if they really can only be cute and boyish for about 10 of those years, or if I only have like 10 years of cuteboy left in me, then why bother with the cuteboy thing at all. I may as well focus on guys who have a stable job or a good sense of humour instead if I'm thinking about those other 60 years.
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No.406946
>>406942
You’re always going to be the younger one.
Some guys want someone younger, not within a fixed age group. Personally, in a relationship with a younger partner (which is my preference) I’d want both of us to grow and mature together and not be stuck with someone who’s perpetually in his 20s.
I guess there are guys out there who habitually dump their partners for new models but they don’t speak for all of us.
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No.406947
>>406946
I guess I wasn’t reading very carefully but like, partners grow up regardless of the age difference.
After a few months it shouldn’t be all about looks anymore.
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No.406983
This kind of thing is stupid to be honest because we're al;l gonna get old. I'm a feminine guy who is 27 going on 28 this year and I think I look a lot better now than I did when I was 21 but that's only because I've been following a workout plan since I was 23 and stayed with it all the way up to the present as well as refining my personal style.
The point is that just because a feminine guy gets older doesn't mean it has to be downhill if you take care of yourself to the best of your ability. I think people have this bad image in their head of the overweight, old, bad skin guy in a cheap wig and an ill-fitting dress but that's not the average feminine guy, that's just a sissy who fetishizes and is not actually feminine because I noticed guys like me who don't fetishize being who we are tend to put more pride in their appearance from fitness regimen to opting for styles that work for our body type.
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No.407143
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