No.401492
I have a fetish for NEETs, shutins, asspies, incels, and other people with social anxieties and very bad self-esteem issues, who almost never leave their home and play video games all day, have given up on relationships and maybe even people in general.
I would caress, satisfy, and offer myself to such a boy sexually and emotionally with the force of a thousand suns. We would fuck, cook together, play vidya, and I would make his life happier and fulfilling. He would be like an untapped well, pure and pristine and I would be the one to "open" him, both figuratively and literally :)
Dunno, maybe I'm fucked up, too, with this white knight complex and everything, but I don't care.
It is, however, most difficult to find such boys. Distance is a giant factor, as I live in a 3rd word EU country. Most boys I've met are not actually NEETs or incels, they're just sluts who fuck around and have Grindr accounts and just act as if they're the real deal. There's not enough gay population around. Real NEETs and incels are also notoriously shy and wouldn't even make contact, due to social anxieties. Fuck my life!
I tried Wizards, they're downright aggressive and dismissive, some have an inflated sense of self and they wouldn't accept a blowjob from a guy, even if they're miserable and desperate. I know I would accept, but I guess some people are completely straight, no matter the circumstances. I tried furries, I don't share their fetish, but I wouldn't mind fucking a dude in a fursuit or even dressing up myself, if that's how he would like it, but furries are notoriously promiscuous, and not in the target population for me. I tried bronies, but most bronies around are retarded 13yo kids and there's no real community or fandom; I also guess the MLP franchise is dying everwhere. Dating apps and sites are obviously out of the question, no NEET would willingly put out an ad for sex or cuddles. IRL bars and clubs are also out of the question.
I have the most frustrating fetish :( Any advice on where I could get to know such boys? I know for sure there are people like this out there, there have to be, and this makes it even more frustrating.
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No.401496
You will probably never succeeded in an exneet hikki and I can tell you that this is almost 100% futile some of them change and become a lil gay but outside of inline chat your almost hopeless.
They are to awkward I have been working for a couple years now and I'm still to awkward and have no social skills.
Also most if then are not attractive because they don't look after themselves.
But I reckon the best place to look would be /r9k/ try and meet them on a one on one level then get contact info.
But again a true hikki will almost never ever give 9ut personal stuff social anxiety disorder is no joke. I still have it but not as bad as I used to I stomach it with booze nowadays.
Used to be I could even be seen by another human. It was pretty bad.
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No.401497
>>401496
>Also most if then are not attractive because they don't look after themselves.
Don't care! I do not judge, I do not expect anything! It's not like I would meet and fuck the next day, I can have online conversations for months and gradually build trust & try to raise his self esteem. With enough self-esteem, one starts grooming himself and hell, maybe even meets and fucks at some point.
>But again a true hikki will almost never ever give out personal stuff social anxiety disorder is no joke. I still have it but not as bad as I used to I stomach it with booze nowadays.
Are there like AA groups for people with social anxiety disorder? :))
>Used to be I could even be seen by another human. It was pretty bad.
Sorry to hear that, man, glad to know you're better now.
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No.401499
>>401492
haha
you say that now
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No.401501
>>401497
>With enough self-esteem, one starts grooming himself
That happened to me after I started LDR with my bf. I want to be attractive for him. And he wants to lose weight too.
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No.401502
>>401501
Ditto. It's amazing what one person caring about you can do to a neet. That being said it's also pretty pedatory since if you get through to one they're likely to be dependent so people tend to manipulate them.
Thats what happened with me. Not a full on neet, but my ex wanted me to drop college to live with him and I would've if it were not for a mutual friend snapping me out of it.
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No.401503
my bf loved the idea of fixing me, ive been doing my best and have made noticeable progress, but he has grown bored of me, its not good enough apparently
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No.401504
>>401497
When you go full hikki you never really get better it is always there on the back of your mind. I;m just saying maybe a normal neet sure but a full on hermit even if they are working or whatever is gonna be some almost impossible shit.
I spent 4 years in a room with no contact.
Some spend their entire lives.
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No.401506
I'm gonna be a wizard in a few days, I'm so desperate for any kind of affection that sexual orientation doesn't matter anymore but I do love dicks (mostly fap to futa). I have a job but I don't get along with my coworkers and have zero life outside of work. I just come home and watch anime or play games, masturbate 4-6 times a day, and eat garbage food. I am obese as a result and I don't think you'll find any fit neets unless they eat nothing and are skeletons. The lifestyle isn't good for a body.
If you're wondering why I'm even on this board, I was jerking it to the foreskin thread.
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No.401531
I wish I could find someone who wouldn't mind my flaws and could maybe sympathise, but I'm not sure if such a relationship is a good idea. I'm not prison gay either, so I guess I tick all your boxes. People like me aren't good partners, I have no clue why you would want to subject yourself to a relationship like that.
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No.401535
>>401492
I can't imagine this kind of dynamic not turning toxic. It kind of reminds me of feeders. They just end up killing their partners or resenting them for trying to turn their lives around. Neet isn't something to be encouraged or supported and enabling it is akin to poisoning someones life imo
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No.401566
That's… a pretty strange fetish as a NEET myself.
Would be nice to have a Misaki (male) type to help me but ah well
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No.401573
Hunger both physical and emotional changes people. When something's not working you try something else. Who's gonna pay for your shit when your relatives had enough and how do you maintain your sanity when you talk with no one for long periods of time ?
You're young now op. Consider becoming stable financially as something other people have to try.
Is sigur suta la suta ca Romnigeria nu are autismbux asa ca nu vad cum nu te afli in aceasi situatie in care eram si eu o gramada de timp in urma.
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No.401579
>>401492
I kind of get where you're coming, though for me I am more into a housewife type role. My current relationship is honestly ideal for me. NEET boyfriend (looking for a part time job to have something to do which is fine enough, but still not full time) who is always available to go on dates with, cleans the apartment, does laundry, dishes etc. while I'm busy so I don't get distracted with other stuff, but still goes out to play games with people so is not totally dependent on me socially. Been together over five years now, and it really compliments my busy lifestyle, I can't imagine being with someone who has their own career aspirations. My boyfriend likes taking photos and even has a couple guys he does art/film projects with, but it still doesn't impact his availability to me. He's still always there to take care of home and is always available to go out for dinner or go out for a walk in the park on my days off.
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No.401587
>>401579
Do you actually like that?
My SO (and their mom pressuring me, and chastising them for not pressuring me enough) wants me to go to work, but I'm hella anxious and its caused me to either quit or get fired from several jobs.
I am a motivated worker, but it just never paid off or showed any results. So I've been at that point for a few years where maybe I should just get neetbux and live like an actual loser.
Sidenote though, my SO really likes the idea of me being a stay at home bf/dad/whatever in the future, but it makes me feel terrible that I'm not making money, or doing anything worthwhile in life. I just really got off badly coming out of highschool, and haven't made anything decent in life since and I'm 26 yo.
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No.401591
>>401587
>my SO really likes the idea of me being a stay at home bf/dad/whatever in the future, but it makes me feel terrible that I'm not making money, or doing anything worthwhile in life
Wives have done that for centuries though? Your SO puts a roof over your head and food in the fridge, and you give them joy and sex, maybe cook and clean since you're the one with more spare time. It's a perfectly fine arrangement with nothing to be ashamed about, it's just atypical for males.
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No.401594
>>401587
>but it just never paid off or showed any results.
Explain. Exactly *what* kind of payoff or results are you expecting? Out of what kinds of jobs?
May not fit for you, but lots of people have seriously unrealistic 'expectations' and goals from jobs.
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No.401602
>>401591
Very true. I'm just expected to provide in the typical male fashion, and honestly it makes me uncomfortable. I'm happier looking after the home, building, running errands, taking care of my family and SO, all that.
I have some physical and mental issues that make work kind of a bitch, I'm not able to hold up to warehouse stuff, or the usual labor work. And the stuff I can do doesn't work out well for long for my mental issues and general anxiety.
I'm just happier and calmer out from around the public.
And thank you for the vote of confidence, I'd like to get to there but my SO's mom thinks I'm trash because I haven't worked in several months.
I'd like my focus to be on trades, self improvement, making the house nice, not…pandering to social shit and asskissing, working hard and getting nothing for it. I'd rather have an intelligent partner with a good job, and just make their life outside of their career a happy one.
>>401594
The jobs I've had I expected too much. Work in food service, busted my ass and came in constantly, picked up shifts, trained newbies, all to hopefully get an associate trainer position. Wasn't considered for it at all after six months, manager thought I was crazy when I left the minimum wage pay and told him I'd expected to have better pay and more responsibilities by then.
I just can't comprehend how people like…work careers, juggle all the stuff they do. Its like another language to me.
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No.401616
>>401602
>my SO's mom thinks I'm trash because I haven't worked in several months.
Fuck boomers (I assume) and their antiquated views. If it works for you two then be a good housekeeper and enjoy it. I'd love to have a partner who provides for me and do wifey things in exchange, you've got something rare.
Your SO's mom only has a point if you're being an unhelpful bum and playing video games all day in a pile of unwashed laundry, or burning through your SO's money on stupid shit.
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No.401620
>>401602
>Housekeeper and handyman all in one
Anon if you learn some simple trade stuff like how to fix fixtures around the house that alone would do a lot of good. Most of that you can learn online too, just aim to be a good handyman so your SO has less to worry about regarding the home.
All you'd need is a maternal instinct and you'd literally be the best househusband.
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No.401622
Problem is a lot of neets are ugly. I would love to care for a neet guy too and make his life better. But 1, I am very masculine (most neets are open to cute fem guys as a "replacement" for a gf) and 2 I don't have my own place either although I do have a full time job, my own car and I go to graduate school.
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No.401633
>>401587
>it makes me feel terrible that I'm not making money, or doing anything worthwhile in life
My boyfriend is happy just supporting me/making my life easier, but I think that comes down to personality types. But he also has other things going on. Like I said, he has been doing photography for years, so has been making a website/portfolio for his work, and has also made a book; he made a student film type thing with some guys years ago and they've started doing more of that again in recent months; he likes competitive games and runs an online community with a few hundred members, gets press passes to cover big LAN events; and in the last year really got into Magi The Gathering, started going to a local store and has a few really good friends there now, they've traveled to play in some big events as well. He doesn't have a job right now, but did get into crypto currencies a while back and manages investments for me. When you're a housewife type guy you have tons of time to be social, which is essentially what you want. You have social value, not economic value. I mean, yeah you need money, which is what I'm here for, but I want to give him money, basically exchanging his social value for economic value. I constantly have things going on and am very busy, so not having to spend those extra hours cooking and cleaning really removes a ton of stress from the equation. I can focus on the things I am good at, he does what he's good at. The difference between having an actual housewife and a male doing the same thing is that males obviously are more driven to actualize, and be productive, hence all the things I listed before.
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No.401635
>>401616
I drive my SO to college, anywhere she needs to go, and wherever we go. The only thing is shes used to going out to eat fairly regularly, and she insists on paying for me. I'm not used to that, or used to being paid for.
Then I just end up guilty feeling for it. And not being able to return the favor, because I've always been the person to hunt you down to give you five bucks you used for me, or whatever.
Like the only thing I *ask* her for is gas half of the time we go out.
>>401633
Well he just sounds awesome, thats what I'd like to do. If I could just not feel constantly tugged by family, her, her family, to go to work, plus do the things I normally do, I'd be much more stressfree. I could actually focus on things that matter on my end. I just dont know how to get to that point.
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No.401636
>>401633
I'm always trying to learn how to fix something new, carwise or in the house, if I can grow a garden I'd like to do that, I enjoy doing the shopping, finances, all of that stuff.
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No.401638
>>401636
Yeah gardening is the move. Right nodes just have an apartment, since I am working on a degree and also doing research at the university. My career paths basically all involve moving out to a rural, wooded region in the southeast, so I would like to have a large garden. For now I just have my plants. Parlor palm is really nice, gets to be a good three or four feet tall, does well in indirect light. :b
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No.401663
>I have a fetish for NEETs, shutins, asspies, incels, and other people with social anxieties and very bad self-esteem issues, who almost never leave their home and play video games all day, have given up on relationships and maybe even people in general.
You want someone with poor social skills, doesn't like themselves for who they are, probably has no desire to do anything productive with their life, is anxious or has other worse problems? If you do then good luck to you OP, but just realize that those are pretty common traits of the kinds of people you just mentioned and you will have to deal with those things every day you're together.
>I would caress, satisfy, and offer myself to such a boy sexually and emotionally with the force of a thousand suns. We would fuck, cook together, play vidya, and I would make his life happier and fulfilling. He would be like an untapped well, pure and pristine and I would be the one to "open" him, both figuratively and literally :)
Important keyword there is "would," OP. You would or would like to do those things, but the chances of them actually happening with any of the people you mentioned above are slim to none. Dating someone just because you get off on "fixing" them already isn't a good foundation for a solid relationship and throwing all of their various problems that will likely take a very long time to improve into the mix doesn't help, either. If you really want to help people with issues like this and even get paid for it rather than pouring ridiculous amounts of your own money, time and energy into something that ultimately probably won't work out even relatively short-term, become a psychologist or a counselor or something.
>Dunno, maybe I'm fucked up, too, with this white knight complex and everything, but I don't care.
I don't think you're fucked up or a white knight either, just very naïve and/or misguided when it comes to this sort of thing
>Real NEETs and incels are also notoriously shy and wouldn't even make contact, due to social anxieties. Fuck my life!
That's what you wanted though, right? OP, that's how a lot of guys like that are. I don't really know what to tell you.
>Any advice on where I could get to know such boys?
Honestly, if you're insistent on it then I would just try the Romanian meetup thread here on this board (https://8ch.net/cuteboys/res/330459.html). You may not get exactly what you're looking for but based on my own experiences with talking to fellow anons, or trying to talk to them as it were, you'll probably come pretty close. I hope that someday, you'll realize that what you're after isn't good for you and that for your own good, you'll seriously reconsider this fetish of yours, but if this is really what you like, just know that you're in for one hell of a bumpy ride man. If I sound like an asshole, that's not how I meant it but this is tough love from me to you. I just don't want you to end up miserable and wondering where you went wrong when this easily could've been avoided by seeking out something more realistic and fulfilling. NEETs, anxious people, Aspies, etc. are just as deserving of love as everyone else but purposely seeking them out with the desire to fix them sounds like a very bad idea to me if you want any semblance of a relationship with them beyond just being a supportive shoulder to lean on.
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No.401671
actual hikki neet here, I met my BF here on /cuteboys/ when I finally worked up the courage to put myself on the cuteboy map
so far its long distance but we have some plans to bridge the gap
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No.401684
>>401506
OP here, I actually like plump, chubby and fat!
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No.401741
>>401684
I used to be kinda so-so on chubby/fat guys but then I spent the night with one, a really pale, chubby programmer with a bit of a girly haircut going on, we didn't have sex or anything but I squeezed his belly all night and could not get enough of snuggling that soft boy. Have been hooked on chub ever since.
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No.402062
As a NEET virgin i'll say that while i would like to have sex, or even just be close to another person, i'm not interested in any other aspects of relationships. I suck at conversation, and would be put off by anyone trying to change my lifestyle. Trying to chat up a NEET probably isn't going to work, what they want is intamacy without any obligations.
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No.402082
>>402062
I'm ready to provide that, too.
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No.402099
I mean most NEET-ish boys are friendless for a reason. I've talked to a few and they all have the same problem of being completely boring to talk to, most of them aren't even attractive either so that's definitely a minus.
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No.402116
I've been a shut-in for about 8 years, I like it but if I ever do want to meet people it's hard. Very little social skills, but I'm friendly instead of using it as an excuse to be a dick.
I don't even think I'm ugly or (too) uninteresting, just would rather do my own thing. A cutie to help me out and give occasional company would be nice, but on the other end they'd have to understand I like solitude and not be overly clingy.
The other anons seem to be mostly right about this type of person though, if you're really interested in this kind of person take it slow since their red flags are usually super glaring. Been there done that.
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No.402246
You obviously have no clue what the average NEET or sperg looks like. The thing you have to keep in mind is that Aspergers is more than a mental disorder, but a physical disability. In addition to everything else, they receive more serotonin from food than normal people.
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No.402281
>>402246
Imma put that pic on the fridge to help me lose some weight.
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No.402289
>>402281
Won't help if you've got the Sperg. The only way to calm a Sperg's mind down from entering the same rhythms as a Schizophrenic is serotonin.
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No.402297
>>402289
No Sperg.
Just fat.
…but not THAT fat.
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No.403581
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No.403623
Why do I think Daniel Royston (alias Vincent Caufield) is OP?
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