/cuteboys/ - Boypussy

>>398300

it probably depends on where you live and where you go to meet guys. the types you're talking about don't even really want a relationship ime they just want easy sex w/o putting in any work so they filter themselves out quickly enough. everyone i've met that was actually interested in getting to know me has been very pleasant and took care of themselves. living in a place where people tend to be skinny, active and well off is probably a big factor.

what is your workout like btw?

>>398301

Hm I see. So then would it be fair to say that the majority of guys who express interest in you are guys you're attracted to?

As for my workout regimen, I mainly target my lower body and have been for 5 going on 6 years now. Squats, Sumo Squats, Jumping Squats, Pistol Squats, Leg Lifts, Bridges, Lunges, Fire Hydrants, laying leg lifts, etc. I've done a lot of different exercises over the course that I've been working out.

Currently I've taken these to the gym and now I'm using a few machines like the Leg Press machine and Hip abductors to name a few. So yeah, I'm not super shredded nor do I want to be but I know that when wearing my form fitting clothes, it does highlight my legs and butt that I've worked on for years.

>>398300

I'm not a femboy. But not exactly - loads of different ppl are apparently attracted to me, but can always pull a reliable set of older men who are attracted to anyone they can tell is gay.

That said, the "femboy attracted" crowd still falls for me sometimes, and where those are noticeably distinct I think I've seen a few archetypes - particularly young, really awkward men who have a basement life even if they don't live with their folks, and slightly older middle-eastern men who have this serious devotion to masculinity in themselves which leads to them being either assholes or very insecure about their sexuality (or both).

>>398305

Hm interesting. I don't have young guys being attracted to me that I know of, mostly old men.

>>398306

As said above, majority of people using "dating" apps whether straight or gay, usually consist of creepers. They are only looking for a quick shag, never a committed relationship. You will see a lot more of this in gay communities since it is easier to get laid with other guys than actual women, which is why the term "prison gay" exists.

Very far from being a femboy, but I can provide the perspective of someone who I guess likes femboys, not sure exactly what the parameters are, but I like skinnier guys who are ok with wearing girly clothes sometimes.

I'm not sure how I'd stack up on any objective measurements of typical masculine attractiveness, but I train 2-4 hours a day barring the resting days to avoid weight cutting, have a very strict diet and do a good bit to take care of my skin/stubble etc. Also 20, which I'm guessing is comparatively not old.

Where are you looking for guys OP? Maybe your avenue of approach is just flawed. Cause I can't imagine there aren't other guys like me out there in terms of how they look and what they like.

As to what >>398305 and >>398308 are saying, where are you deriving these experiences from? I can be awkward maybe, but I'm self-aware at least. Not sure what basement life means, and I'm decidedly very much not middle-eastern (on a vpn), nor prison gay, I'm only into relationships with boys. If you're using grindr, maybe you should just do something else, like talk to people irl, at the gym or something. I stay far away from dating apps and haven't even ever met another gay/bi guy that I'm aware of. Maybe grindr and all that is just shite lol

Sage because not really what OP was asking for.

>>398300

Ive had sweet guys who'd fly to the moon and back to be with me, but I've never found any of them attractive. The ones that I have found attractive lack personality, literally only talk about sex or aren't actually looking for a relationship.

It really feels bad because I've tried to avoid the fact im not physically attracted to them and got with them, but it does not work! So do not try it under any circumstances!

I dont think I'm better than these people and I have unattractive friends so I'm not the person who hates unattractive people. Its just, I really believe you need the physical attraction to love someone right. How could I look at someone and say "ewww" in my head, yet love them.

>>398300

I wouldn't say that it has anything to do with the fem-nature of your own person. If we're working with personal anecdotes at least. I would say I'm hitting smack dab in the middle of being cute boy and handsome man, and dating site and the like will tend to pull the people out that you describe. The attractive are incredibly vapid, and the few interesting ones pull from the 'unattractive' pool.

TL:DR

All boxes ticked is rare, and even more so on dating sites

Some guys turn to gays because they can't attract women asuming finding sex with gay men is easier

>>398404

why has literally no-one else said this, its the legit reason…

Unattractive dudes fail so hard with women they turn to traps because they think its easier.

When the reason why chicks dont go for them in the first place is because they are gross neckbeards that literally just get off to traps all day…

First of all, MOST guys are going to be unattractive even in the entire population from which your sample of attracted-to-femboys men are pulled. This is especially true if your standards are so high so that it excludes anyone over 40 and anyone who is a little bit overweight; less than 10% of men have what could be described as a flat stomach - food for thought. It sounds to me like you're looking for men who "take care of themselves" to the same level you do, which is just unrealistic expectations. Most people with an average job don't have time for that, don't have the social pressures to do that, don't have any desire to do that; and most of all, it's in defiance of cultural norms of men and masculinity to do it at all, things like dieting or exercising (other than weightlifting for muh gains) or God fucking forbid using LOTION. Only femboys or women do those things, mostly. Which means your potential pool shrinks to basically nothing.

But also, it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. You only attract one type of man because that's the only type of man into you. Men who are shallow, only interested in a quick fuck, are going to be attracted primarily to good looks to the exclusion of all else. As the other anon said, you're obviously gay and obviously "pretty", so it's like walking around with a giant "FUCK ME!" sign. To compare, I'm objectively an attractive man, who has his shit together in life and yet looks ten years younger than I am, but I'm straight-acting; I get girls flirting with me on the daily, but no man has propositioned me since I left high school back when Bush was still in his first term. Maybe they can tell I'm a fag, maybe they can't, but the point is that most will not ask unless they're sure. Humans are just like that. As an analogy, imagine two identical restrooms, one with a door that has a broken hydraulic and thus stays open instead of automatically shutting all the time. Nearly EVERYONE who walks in there and needs to pee will select the restroom with the open door, often subconsciously, to avoid trying the closed door (perhaps afraid of accidentally walking in on somebody, or just not wanting to waste the couple seconds to find out it's locked). You're the "open door", so of course more people are going to want to walk in there, because it's the path of least resistance.

As for why you don't ALSO get attractive men going after you? Simple as fuck: all the attractive men are already in a relationship or getting all the booty that they want. You're just scraping the bottom of the barrel because that's the only thing out there. What you're looking for is a one-in-a-million chance that an attractive man has just broken up with his bf and is looking for a new one, in that window of probably less than a week before he gets one. Gays don't tend to spend much time "dating".

>>398300

>>398404

>>398418

Exactly, this is why they dont want to have a relationship with you, most of them dont want to be seen with you also. They just want sex and are approaching you because they think it will be easier

>>398426

Also true

>>398300

>I workout an hour a week

>effort in physical appearance

sssssssssssssuuuurreee

"Fellow femboys, have you noticed that a lot of guys attracted to us tend to be unattractive?"

now you know how attractive people, or women feel?

get over yourself. suck and take dick, literally…

>>400411

REMINDER: "Attractive is a relative term."

You may be attractive to one person, and totally gross to another.

Don't take yourself seriously.

"Life is but a dream."

>>398300

>>398426

this guy gets it. if you go looking in the sewers no shit youre gonna find little else but human shit. the reality is that if youre looking for more than a quick fuck you need to look in places where people arent looking for a quick fuck.

its also worth considering the dynamics of gay dating. to be an attractive bottom you basically only need to learn how to use a razor, put down the fork, and shove things up your ass, the floor of being attractive in that regard is incredibly low as long as youre young. to be an attractive top you need good genetics, years of actual regular hard work in the gym or in a manual job, experience, charisma, and generally all the things that make a straight man attractive plus some knowledge of grooming and a few sets of fork put downs once in a while. oh, and a big dick probably helps too. simply put, attractive bottoms are not in short supply, and your window of peak attractiveness is quite fucking short in comparison. attractive tops on the other hand are very much in short supply, because it takes actual fucking effort to be one.

as for dating one of them, answer yourself this: youre an attractive top, grindr is filled with ass that will fucking serve itself up to you and most of it is at least palatable. why would you actually opt to date someone who is either not a really appealing person who you are dead certain is the guy for you, or who isnt more or less the best you can get looks wise?

similarly, given how much effort is required to be an attractive top, and how desperate bottoms are hardly in short supply, why would most people bother spending copious amounts of time grooming yourself like youre a women when a good chunk of bottoms arent attracted to that and there are plenty of bottoms desperate enough to tolerate the bare minimum?

t. a bottom who is currently engaged to a wonderful and rather handsome guy, and is fully fucking aware of how much he lucked out with that.

>>398300

Honestly unattractive isn't a problem for me. Like a 4-5/10 can easily make up for it with personality, success, sexual game, wardrobe competence etc. What I find the worst is genuine losers who act like they deserve whatever they want despite their biggest accomplishment in life being binge watching a bunch of anime series and playing video games.

Pro tip: if you've never had a job, can't relate to anyone on a personal level besides world of warcraft, and still rely on your parents at age 25+ for groceries then you really shouldn't be surprised when someone attractive with their shit together dismisses you and isn't interested in becoming your new mommy and daddy.

To some extent. There are exceptions though. Some people I can understand and friend zone them politely and passively. Others just make me really uncomfortable especially when they send random dick pics.

>>400627

>What I find the worst is genuine losers who act like they deserve whatever they want despite their biggest accomplishment in life being binge watching a bunch of anime series and playing video games.

>Pro tip: if you've never had a job, can't relate to anyone on a personal level besides world of warcraft, and still rely on your parents at age 25+ for groceries then you really shouldn't be surprised when someone attractive with their shit together dismisses you and isn't interested in becoming your new mommy and daddy.

definitely, but that exists on both sides though, doesnt it?

>>408234

gotta love them random dick pic DMs, because what turns a person on to you more than being the online equivalent of a street flasher?

Apart from my bf, 100% of the guys expressing interest in me are chubby old dudes, and they're always *really* creepy about it. Like they get really pushy if I don't immediately tell them to fuck off.

Lol speak for yourself.. fags get excited when they know I am attracted to them …

>>408563

>as long as they treat me like a princess

oof, now theres an offputting statement and a fucking half

>>408252

All women are THOTS you fucking faggot. I'll knock your teeth out if you deny such a Noble Truth again. Faggots are insufferable cunts doomed to being lonely and unwanted, the fucking end nigger. Tell me I'm wrong.

>>408590

don't care virgin, I'm already getting dick.

>>408616

me too, faggot.

are you by any chance trans, or just the sort of limp wristed pansy that sees being a bottom as an excuse not to be a man?

>>408611

>>408614

its posts like these two that make me wonder why the fuck im still here

>>408636

You're here to find more options…and be somebody's slut as usual.

>>408654

Das rite.

>>408660

>and be somebody's slut as usual

im already someones slut, i just like showing off from time to time and chatting about cuteboy related things

Bashing on desperate ugly fat sperg incels for finding your asses attractive the same way women dismiss guys for being creeeepy. And not one single picture in this thread showing what kind “cuteboy” you are. Hilarious.

>>408686

oh but dontcha know, you gotta look like *this* to get *this*

because this is exactly what cuteboys needs, the same culture that results in 40 year old women going down the club to get wasted every weekend and shag whatever lad they fancy. whats next, leopard print thigh highs and trap tramp stamps?

> I just can't help but notice that the majority to if not, all guys attracted to me tend to be physically unattractive.

"The good ones are all taken." Jeez, think about it.

>>408635

being a bottom is cute u bitch

>>408916

>Anon I hate to tell you this but if the good ones are taken and your so single then you're not one of the good ones.

pretty much this. sad as it is, a lot of these bottoms are the equivalent of 30 something women who wonder why they cant get a man.

>Because there's nowhere else to go.

yeah, chanboards are a dying culture. i feel like these days im experiencing something similar to what the oldfegs of yore must have experienced when people started taking the leejun shitposting seriously en masse. these places just arent home anymore, even though they look like home.

>>408923

theres nothing wrong with being a cute bottom, but at the end of the day youre still a man, even if youre suspended in some weird state of adolescence where you dont wanna grow up. be as cute as you please in the bedroom and about the house, but never debase yourself by acting like a fucking entitled little girl. leave that to single women in their 40s.

This shit is petty as hell. Indicative of how far males in general have fallen when even hormone filled faggots wouldn’t even want to have sex with them.

6’3, 15 percent body fat, 8”, full beard, 34. I prefer: feminines = trans > women. Few friends with similar to offer/preferences.

So…I think your problem is environment (bfe whichita or something) or your image is not what you think it is

>>408611

>>408252

Imagine being this entitled and bitchy even when your dating market is already small in the first fucking place. No wonder nobody likes faggots like you, you're quite possibly the most insufferable people to ever be around.

Only a small amount of men are genuinely gay. And yet, you think you're in some position to play the same bullshit game that every single fucking basic bitch plays with her endless arsenal of men willing to fuck her. Newsflash, faggot, you're not special. You appeal to a small pool of men sexually attracted to men, so you know exactly just what you fucking signed up for by being gay. Oh, what's that? You say you're gay, but want only men you deem attractive (which don't fucking exist, because these men make up a tiny pool of men, and they have no reason to be gay when women throw themselves at them) to hit on you? Who do you think you fucking are, where you're so fucking entitled that you think we're the bad guys for wanting you sexually, but you will only even remotely consider a guy who is almost non-fucking existent logistically?

You're nothing special you pathetic faggot. If you want only certain types of men, fine. You can be a superficial insufferable picky pathetic little bitch all you want, but don't whine about "muh chasers" and about all gay men being unfit for muh highness who wants only the kind of man that doesn't fucking exist to hit on him, when he ends up alone because he can't get off his high-horse and stop complaining about what he knew what being gay would entail.

If you seriously think you're in a position to be this picky towards a nearly non existent group of men who sure as fuck probably aren't gay, then don't cry like a little bitch when an overwhelming about of men DON'T MEET YOUR STANDARDS.

Sit the fuck down, and shut the fuck up. Suck and take dick like a faggot is supposed to, or quit being a faggot. The man you want doesn't exist, and if they did, they wouldn't want to be with someone as ugly, insufferable, picky, lame, and pathetic as you. Especially if they aren't gay.

You're no different than the average basic bitch moaning "uggggh all these loser average men hitting on me. I only want Chad because he's hotttt! But I hope Chad looks past my medicore looks even though I only wanted him for his! Also I hope he settles down for me only even though he's clearly good looking enough to where he can get a girl better looking than me whenever he wants and have casual sex with her, I'm totally special and different from all those other girls that I act exactly alike that I'm far uglier than, teehee. Fuck those other men though, they're too ugly and creepy ewwwwww. Why won't a real man step up and marry me?"

You're EXACTLY LIKE THIS, only you're a fucking guy and your dating pool is FAR FAR SMALLER. So not only are you mentally just like the average insufferable fucking thot, you're not even a female. So you're pretty much fucking useless and nothing more than a pain to be around, You can't even redeem yourself by doing the one and only thing you advertised yourself to be good at doing, sucking and taking dick.

It's any wonder why you wonder why you're alone when you are as worthless and annoying as the average thot, except you aren't even sexually appealing to 95% to men. Keep wondering why you're lonely though, it's hilarious. You good for nothing, worthless, bitchy, whining, superficial, stuck-up, pathetic little faggot. Get off your fucking high horse and knock your shit off. Suck and take dick in your sissyhole like you were meant to, or kill yourself.

>>408958

RIP this thread, everything that needs to be said has been said

>>408958

>The man you want doesn't exist, and if they did, they wouldn't want to be with someone as ugly, insufferable, picky, lame, and pathetic as you

you were going pretty downhill up until this point tbh fam, but you fucking nailed it there. a lot of bottoms seem to think theyre unicorns because they look cutesy and they can take a cock. as someone whos a little older, i can tell you if you dont wash that little princess complex you have from your head then you are fucked in the long term.

>>408979

>Gays make about 2% of the population

>People who are attracted to traps/cuteboys argueably fall into gay category

>Most people, even in this demographic aren't attractive

>To be cute you must be at the very least of average beauty

>Most cuteboys are bottoms

>To be a good match with cuteboy you need to just dominate him and fuck him every once in a while

Then this fucker comes and says cute Cuteboys are nothing like unicorns. Do you have any idea how hard it can be to maintain good looks as a cuteboy? All the while being seen as weird by rest of the society? If your shoulders are too wide, it can single you out from ever becoming a cuteboy. Simple genetics can fuck you over.

And then this idiot who literally needs to be just easily manly and move his hips good, says we have too high of opinion about ourselves.

>>409010

>Do you have any idea how hard it can be to maintain good looks as a cuteboy

yeah, as it just so happens i do. its near fucking effortless, a few products and a bit of razor work arent shit in comparison to what it takes to be a good looking top. being a bottom is easymode.

>If your shoulders are too wide, it can single you out from ever becoming a cuteboy.

are you confusing cuteboy with tranny?

most of what makes you a passable cuteboy doesnt come from hard work but genetics. i lucked out to some degree, most people are at least serviceable with a bit of work providing they havent got certain issues there like super strong facial features. literally all it takes to be a cuteboy is to stop stuffing your face, shave/nair your body, take a dick, and get a cutesy haircut that flatters your face. you dont need a good personality, charisma, or any other immaterial personal virtues, this thread makes that pretty clear.

meanwhile, over in top land if you actually wanna be attractive youve gotta pick up the bar, which takes literal years of dedicated effort. you better have a big dick, otherwise a lot of people straight up arent interested, and even less if you dont even have an average dick, but thats a genetics thing. you better have everything sorted character wise (charisma, personality, and so on), because aint no cuteboy gonna take no damn chaser mhm. you also better be rolling in the dough, because this cuteboy deserves to be treat like the god damn princess that he is.

but no, you go tell em sister, not like your good looks have 1/4th the shelf-life of a tops or anything. you can afford to hold on out for mr perfect with his 12" thundercock and assload of money and amazing personality and chiseled fucking abs.

>>409010

>>409012

Both of you have a point, you know.

>>408958

maybe try to look better instead of getting mad at people for not being attracted to you

im not even a bottom but i can tell that a lot of you motherfuckers both don't take care of yourselves and are creepy shitty people

>>409270

a lot of people here are creepy, shitty people, not all of them are tops or would-be tops, mind. bottoms are not magical little pixies that men must fight for in order to be graced with their sexual desire, a lot of bottoms are good for nothing wastes of space, just like a lot of tops are. one neednt be a top to be pathetic and entitled.

>>409271

fair enough, i've come across quite a bit of terrible nutjobs

i've just never been able to stand the creepy neckbeard types at all and demanding people to like you will never not be pathetic

We're a civilization of opposites. Those ugly on the outside are beautiful within. And those attractive in skin are often wretched past that layer.

>>409273

me neither, but i also dont care for the prissy little princesses that wanna live out in fantasy land where they only ever get attention from 9/10 muscular rich dudes who wanna make them into their little house wives. its the same shit in the end, just reflected through a different sort of twat, only for some reason bottoms get a pass. fuck that, someone needs to point out to them how equally fucking pathetic they are.

>>409281

There are a lot of ugly and shitty people out there too. In fact, 99% of the human population are just shitty people. History is a partial documentation of times people were being assholes to each other.

>>409281

this is too simplistic tbh. some ugly people are spiteful because if it, some beautiful people are genuine and kind.

>>409281

>Those ugly on the outside are beautiful within.

completely untrue. it's actually the opposite in most cases too. while attractive people may be shitty inside unattractive are even more shitty because they get bitter, jealous, resentful, and don't feel welcome/liked turning even more ugly on the inside than outside.

super attractive people might be selfish but being in a happy environment where people are nice and having an easier time has a better chance making somebody who likes the world. somebody who is ugly, stupid, and ignored isn't going to turn into some nice person magically. the world doesn't welcome him and he doesn't like the world.

somebody else is people who take care of themselves physically and care about their appearance already established a good merit. slobs on the outside aren't likely to be meticulous in thought or careful enough to develop a mind that's considered beautiful on the inside.

>>409341

youre also wrong, anon. people develop virtue in different ways through different means, and while there is such a thing as the hateful ugly person and the person who is beautiful inside and out, there are also people who neglect all other virtues in pursuit of one they consider to be above all others, for better or worse.

i would also take issue of defining good people as people who like the world. i dont disagree that in a sense that which exists is good but this can only be true in a limited capacity without reducing the concept of good in its entirety to merely existing. to be good, a thing must not only be but also move towards the good. a thing can also be said to be good in the sense that it aims towards the good. this is the sense of good that i consider to be important in humans chiefly, and i find the idea that all things aim towards the good inherently something of a joke, as at that point there ceases to be any one particular good and a human riddled with diseases and parasites is as good if not more so than a healthy one. what makes a man good is not loving the world, but loving what is truly good in the world.